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Need direction - sailing/boat handling instruction
Elizabeth, Sorry to hear about your "learning" experience so far, and good for you for having the determination to keep going. I would suggest taking the small boat instruction available near you. Small boats handle like big ones, but respond quicker. And since they are 1 person boats, you (and your daughters) learn how to be the captain for real. Once you can sail a small boat the bigger boat will be easy. Docking isn't as hard as it looks, if you take it slow and easy. Learn the basic rules of the road. Don't worry about the complicated ones. If you can take a week long course, do it. Me and my girlfriend did a week a Jworld when I started taking her sailing, it was a very thorough course (http://www.jworldschool.com/). Sail the small boats, then keep at it. Todd |
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I have nothing to do with this organization. But, they list 4 places in
Illinois and 6 place in Wisconsin that offer lessons. http://www.american-sailing.com/find...ng_school.html |
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I'm "Tom" and I'm a recovering yeller. I've been soft spoken for 2
decades, six weeks, 3 days, two hours and... Or something like that. Anyway, speaking from experience I can attest that getting your husband to stop shouting will make everyone including him much, much happier. I don't know what will work for him but I remember what worked for me. I moved from the mainland where I had been involved in some serious small boat racing to Hawaii where the racing and crewing were very much more casual than I was used to and I became very frustrated and started yelling at folks without even realizing it. A couple of weeks into the season one of the long term crew took me aside and said "listen, I know you're a good sailor and I'm not but I get yelled at at work and I will not come out sailing if you're going to yell at me, too." I was appalled at my behavior which I really had been incompletely aware of (I thought I was just giving instructions) and I truly have been soft spoken since then. Perhaps your husband isn't aware of just how offensive his behavior is. I'd suggest being very direct about telling him. Leaning to sail is a long term project. A sailing school can give you a nice start on it, but unless you have an unusual aptitude for sailing it will be years before you are competent and it takes a lifetime to get good. Nevertheless, it is easy for learning sailors and more experienced sailors to have a good time together while out sailing. I've sailed very extensively around the Pacific with my girl friend who was a total non-sailor when we stated and is still working the left side of the leaning curve. She is a fantastic partner and knows how to stand watch. I don't ask for anything more. I often take non-sailors out sailing (I just took a couple out this afternoon, in fact) and since they keep on asking to come back I'm guessing they enjoy it. The trick is that the person in charge has to be able to work the boat himself and then allow or perhaps encourage his guests to do the jobs they are competent to do. Requests made to the guests are just that. They should be made in a speaking voice and followed by a question mark. eg. "would you like to hold the tiller while I set the mainsail?" A "no" shouldn't phase the skipper. Or at least that's how it works on my boats and I've enjoyed the results. -- Tom. |
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On 2007-08-01 12:19:16 -0400, said:
I've been reading this newsgroup for the past year while rehabbing a 24', swing-keel sailboat, and the information that I've gleaned has been invaluable. I'm hoping now that you can provide me with some direction in obtaining the instruction I'll require to sail this boat. Here is my scenario: snip of pretty standard "Captain Bligh") "Dad" teaching the wife and kids is often a debacle. HE knows what he meant to say, but doesn't know how to get you to know. Dinghy instructions would be *quite* valuable to you individually. I'd rather take a dinghy sailor as crew than someone with the same amount of time in a keel boat. Knowing how to steer the boat and keep the sails pulling is best learned on a small boat, and the skills transfer easily. As far as getting competent at getting in and out of the slip, absolutely nothing beats doing it. See if a dockmate can accompany you without Dad a time or two. Spend the time learning how to go forwards, backwards, sidewards, stopping by something soft in all those directions. Heck, motor over to some place to go swimming and relaxing between drills. Toss the anchor and raise and lower the sails a bunch of times. Make your mistakes with a disinterested person, not necessarily a formal instructor (though many will give you lessons on your own boat). I have sorta the opposite problem: Pat's more competent than most bareboaters and I love it when she takes the helm, but compares her skills to my 30 years of racing and cruising and "forgets" how much she knows. To make sure she keeps her skills up, I have to "pass out" every once in a while to force her to take the tiller to get us home. Best thing for her (and perhaps you) would be to spend a week or so at the boat with a "crazy" girlfriend to egg her on to taking the boat out while I'm at work. -- Jere Lull Tanzer 28 #4 out of Tolchester, MD Xan's new pages: http://web.mac.com/jerelull/iWeb/Xan/ Our BVI pages: http://homepage.mac.com/jerelull/BVI/ |
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