On 2007-08-01 13:19:23 -0400, "Roger Long" said:

By all means, go out and learn everything you can and become a completely
competent sailor. Have your daughters do it with you. Just keep it in your
mind that you are doing it for yourselves as one of the most worthwhile and
bonding things you could do with the girls and that it has NOTHING to do
with changing your husband's behavior. Then go out and go sailing without
him.

That is great advice. I suspect you and your daughters will have a far
better time sailing without your spouse than with him!

Ruby