It's only a secret from you. I don't mind giving out some personal
information to people I like and respect. What an asshat you are. GFY
Responding to a question about what your wife did for a living before
she retired is not giving out personal information, but, of course, you
are too stupid to understand that.
No, unlike you he is smart enough not to provide you with information
you don't need. You don't have a "need to know".