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"Jessica B" wrote in message
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On Sat, 5 Feb 2011 17:38:04 -0500, "Wilbur Hubbard"
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Tell me something, Jessica, if you would. I guess you know that men are
more
visually oriented than women as a turn-on sort of thing. Even I get turned
on by the sight a scantily-clad lovely. With that in mind, what makes a
'muscle boy', as you call them, think that a buff body is the main thing
that attracts a woman? Do they really think a woman thinks like a man? I
mean, most women I've met seem to have other priorities first - such
things
like a man who is considerate, intelligent, charming, complimentary,
well-to-do, successful in his field, etc. Good looking helps, of course
but
isn't it more of a neck up good looking that women want? So why do muscle
boys think women care most about a pumped up body? And, isn't doing so
sort
of like the bribe situation - kind of an insult to your priorities? Kind
of
an underestimating of your mind?

It's certainly a turn on when a guy is in good shape, but it's
definitely a big zero if that's all there is to him.

I feel the same about women. There's the initial physical attraction then
after a while one begins to wonder, "Where's the beef?"


I have no problem
with boys being boys, but I have a big problem with they think it's
going to impress me. If some guy wants to prove his manhood by arm
wrestling another guy, I say go for it, but don't expect me to get all
limp over it.

What? No swooning? LOL!

As for the pumped up nonsense... I can't help thinking they have ultra
big muscles but tiny ummm chestnuts? Sort of a turn off. It's almost a
homoerotic thing with them I think.

Or, worse yet - self adulation.


Big turn ons for me are intelligence, humor, and at least polite
enough to not embarrass me if my father was sitting at the next table.
Honestly, intelligence and humor make up for a lot, even if a guy
isn't perfect otherwise... maybe a little over-weight... from my
perspective women don't get fixated on things like hair or lack of
it... all things being equal. Oh, and basic hygiene is a
non-negotiable.

Darn, you mean I'd have to bathe regularly? LOL!

I'd also suggest that they keep their hands to them self (well for
starters) :-) keeping in mind that if my older brother saw them, he
might be inclined to disengage their grope rather violently. :-} (He
was a bit over-protective in HS, and I doubt much has changed.)

I like doing that - keeping my hands to myself. Make the woman wonder if I
think there's something wrong with her or that I'm just way shy or
something. . . And, some women, when they're feeling comfortable with the
situation, will take matters into their own hands. That can be very erotic
for a guy.

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That's probably true. I just don't give in to what "people think" at
least not when it comes to my social life or personal business. I
would never go out with someone just for their money. It wouldn't be
real and it would just be a gilded cage. Probably be so jealous that
he would croak if I talk to a bartender.

Good girl. You get more loveable all the time . . .

Hey, besides, I make decent money. I'm not rich, but I get by fine. I
don't spend like crazy but I save like crazy.

You seem to have a lot going for you, Jessica. It's very refreshing to hear
how you operate. Restores my faith in the younger generation. I hope there
are more like you out there.

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Yeah, what does he expect... I'm going to park and jump into his
car???

LOL! They'd probably freak if you did! Or, wouldn't know what to do?



I'm not saying this happens a lot... far from it. It just creeps me
out when it does. Are they going to try following me home or
something? I actually went out and bought a pepper spray, and bring it
with me to work for when I have to travel around.

Can't say as I can blame you. There are too many psycho cases on the loose
these days.

I'm actually not that paranoid especially in the work day. It's other
times, like at night or whenever.

It's best for a woman NOT to go out alone at night these days. I don't blame
you at all for being uncomfortable with it. Too many creeps around.


Wilbur Hubbard

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On Wed, 9 Feb 2011 15:06:35 -0500, "Wilbur Hubbard"
wrote:

"Jessica B" wrote in message
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On Sat, 5 Feb 2011 17:38:04 -0500, "Wilbur Hubbard"
wrote:
snip

Tell me something, Jessica, if you would. I guess you know that men are
more
visually oriented than women as a turn-on sort of thing. Even I get turned
on by the sight a scantily-clad lovely. With that in mind, what makes a
'muscle boy', as you call them, think that a buff body is the main thing
that attracts a woman? Do they really think a woman thinks like a man? I
mean, most women I've met seem to have other priorities first - such
things
like a man who is considerate, intelligent, charming, complimentary,
well-to-do, successful in his field, etc. Good looking helps, of course
but
isn't it more of a neck up good looking that women want? So why do muscle
boys think women care most about a pumped up body? And, isn't doing so
sort
of like the bribe situation - kind of an insult to your priorities? Kind
of
an underestimating of your mind?

It's certainly a turn on when a guy is in good shape, but it's
definitely a big zero if that's all there is to him.

I feel the same about women. There's the initial physical attraction then
after a while one begins to wonder, "Where's the beef?"

Where's the brains? :-)



I have no problem
with boys being boys, but I have a big problem with they think it's
going to impress me. If some guy wants to prove his manhood by arm
wrestling another guy, I say go for it, but don't expect me to get all
limp over it.

What? No swooning? LOL!

As for the pumped up nonsense... I can't help thinking they have ultra
big muscles but tiny ummm chestnuts? Sort of a turn off. It's almost a
homoerotic thing with them I think.

Or, worse yet - self adulation.


Big turn ons for me are intelligence, humor, and at least polite
enough to not embarrass me if my father was sitting at the next table.
Honestly, intelligence and humor make up for a lot, even if a guy
isn't perfect otherwise... maybe a little over-weight... from my
perspective women don't get fixated on things like hair or lack of
it... all things being equal. Oh, and basic hygiene is a
non-negotiable.

Darn, you mean I'd have to bathe regularly? LOL!

You don't have to. Of course, there are consequences.... lol

I'd also suggest that they keep their hands to them self (well for
starters) :-) keeping in mind that if my older brother saw them, he
might be inclined to disengage their grope rather violently. :-} (He
was a bit over-protective in HS, and I doubt much has changed.)

I like doing that - keeping my hands to myself. Make the woman wonder if I
think there's something wrong with her or that I'm just way shy or
something. . . And, some women, when they're feeling comfortable with the
situation, will take matters into their own hands. That can be very erotic
for a guy.

Oh, so you play hard to get? Well, that __ might __ work.. shy goes
only so far.

snip

That's probably true. I just don't give in to what "people think" at
least not when it comes to my social life or personal business. I
would never go out with someone just for their money. It wouldn't be
real and it would just be a gilded cage. Probably be so jealous that
he would croak if I talk to a bartender.

Good girl. You get more loveable all the time . . .

Hey, besides, I make decent money. I'm not rich, but I get by fine. I
don't spend like crazy but I save like crazy.

You seem to have a lot going for you, Jessica. It's very refreshing to hear
how you operate. Restores my faith in the younger generation. I hope there
are more like you out there.

Nope. I'm the ONLY one! lol

snip

Yeah, what does he expect... I'm going to park and jump into his
car???

LOL! They'd probably freak if you did! Or, wouldn't know what to do?

Probably they would, but then there's the other kind who are just
creepy.



I'm not saying this happens a lot... far from it. It just creeps me
out when it does. Are they going to try following me home or
something? I actually went out and bought a pepper spray, and bring it
with me to work for when I have to travel around.

Can't say as I can blame you. There are too many psycho cases on the loose
these days.

I'm actually not that paranoid especially in the work day. It's other
times, like at night or whenever.

It's best for a woman NOT to go out alone at night these days. I don't blame
you at all for being uncomfortable with it. Too many creeps around.

I only go where I'm known or with friends to other places. I never
have any trouble if I'm out alone... I can always get the bartender or
bouncer to walk me to the car.

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"Jessica B" wrote in message
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On Wed, 9 Feb 2011 15:06:35 -0500, "Wilbur Hubbard"
wrote:
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definitely a big zero if that's all there is to him.

I feel the same about women. There's the initial physical attraction then
after a while one begins to wonder, "Where's the beef?"

Where's the brains? :-)


Exactly. To people who have one themselves, another good brain is definitely
a turn-on.

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Darn, you mean I'd have to bathe regularly? LOL!

You don't have to. Of course, there are consequences.... lol

Spoken like a true conservative. Liberals have no concept of consequences.
They tend to think they are just victims of random happenings. So sad!

Oh, so you play hard to get? Well, that __ might __ work.. shy goes
only so far.

I don't suppose I was ever attractive enough to get away with the playing
hard to get bit but just not being too aggressive seems to work out well.
Women seem to like to be in control even when they are acting all out of
control. See, women aren't so hard to figure out either. Only once a woman
gets to know and trust a man can she feel comfortable not being in control.
I guess that's sort of a survival trait as men are generally stronger and
women have to be careful not to put themselves in an untenable situation
with somebody they really don't know much about.

You seem to have a lot going for you, Jessica. It's very refreshing to
hear
how you operate. Restores my faith in the younger generation. I hope there
are more like you out there.

Nope. I'm the ONLY one! lol

Ha ha! It wouldn't surprise me one bit. . .


It's best for a woman NOT to go out alone at night these days. I don't
blame
you at all for being uncomfortable with it. Too many creeps around.

I only go where I'm known or with friends to other places. I never
have any trouble if I'm out alone... I can always get the bartender or
bouncer to walk me to the car.

But, what happens if the bouncer is a creep? ;-) Ah, such problems. Women
ARE from Venus, for sure.


Wilbur Hubbard

Attention all sailboats in the Key Largo area.
 

On Thu, 10 Feb 2011 13:04:03 -0500, "Wilbur Hubbard"
wrote:

"Jessica B" wrote in message
.. .
On Wed, 9 Feb 2011 15:06:35 -0500, "Wilbur Hubbard"
wrote:
snip

definitely a big zero if that's all there is to him.

I feel the same about women. There's the initial physical attraction then
after a while one begins to wonder, "Where's the beef?"

Where's the brains? :-)


Exactly. To people who have one themselves, another good brain is definitely
a turn-on.

snip

Darn, you mean I'd have to bathe regularly? LOL!

You don't have to. Of course, there are consequences.... lol

Spoken like a true conservative. Liberals have no concept of consequences.
They tend to think they are just victims of random happenings. So sad!

I don't think most liberals actually understand that this country was
build on business success. Sure there have been abuses, but generally
things have worked out pretty well for people.

Oh, so you play hard to get? Well, that __ might __ work.. shy goes
only so far.

I don't suppose I was ever attractive enough to get away with the playing
hard to get bit but just not being too aggressive seems to work out well.

Aggressive (certainly overly so) doesn't work, except to get the cops
called.

Women seem to like to be in control even when they are acting all out of
control. See, women aren't so hard to figure out either. Only once a woman
gets to know and trust a man can she feel comfortable not being in control.

Nah... we always want to be in control... like when we have car
problems or need a hug. You chase us until we catch you!

I guess that's sort of a survival trait as men are generally stronger and
women have to be careful not to put themselves in an untenable situation
with somebody they really don't know much about.

True enough. Of course, heels do wonders for the top of the foot. :-)

You seem to have a lot going for you, Jessica. It's very refreshing to
hear
how you operate. Restores my faith in the younger generation. I hope there
are more like you out there.

Nope. I'm the ONLY one! lol

Ha ha! It wouldn't surprise me one bit. . .


It's best for a woman NOT to go out alone at night these days. I don't
blame
you at all for being uncomfortable with it. Too many creeps around.

I only go where I'm known or with friends to other places. I never
have any trouble if I'm out alone... I can always get the bartender or
bouncer to walk me to the car.

But, what happens if the bouncer is a creep? ;-) Ah, such problems. Women
ARE from Venus, for sure.

Never had a problem, but again I don't go where I'm not known by
myself.


Wilbur Hubbard

Attention all sailboats in the Key Largo area.
 

"Jessica B" wrote in message
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On Thu, 10 Feb 2011 13:04:03 -0500, "Wilbur Hubbard"
wrote:
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Spoken like a true conservative. Liberals have no concept of consequences.
They tend to think they are just victims of random happenings. So sad!

I don't think most liberals actually understand that this country was
build on business success. Sure there have been abuses, but generally
things have worked out pretty well for people.

Made us the most prosperous and free country in the history of the world.


I don't suppose I was ever attractive enough to get away with the playing
hard to get bit but just not being too aggressive seems to work out well.

Aggressive (certainly overly so) doesn't work, except to get the cops
called.

Or a spike heel in the foot. Or a knee someplace delicate. LOL!


Women seem to like to be in control even when they are acting all out of
control. See, women aren't so hard to figure out either. Only once a woman
gets to know and trust a man can she feel comfortable not being in
control.
Nah... we always want to be in control... like when we have car
problems or need a hug. You chase us until we catch you!

Fake car problems just to get a guy's attention? You're bad! Hugs are always
fun, though. One can tell a lot from a hug. Don't you just love it when you
hug someone of the opposite sex and you get the feeling that both bodies are
just sort of melting into one? Sometimes you can hug somebody and it's like
there's a wall. That kind of hug I can do without. ;-)

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Oh well.
 

"Jessica B" wrote in message
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On Tue, 8 Feb 2011 18:40:51 -0500, "Wilbur Hubbard"
wrote:
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Yep. We do "body" checks all the time. You definitely don't want that
disease.

Can I volunteer as body checker, next time? :-)

LOL ... well, depends on the temperature of your hands. JUST KIDDING!!

I'll heat them up on the campfire so they're nice and toasty. LOL!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LxgAVB2IMpM


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My brother's suggestion while camping is to not breathe!


I can see why he'd think like that what a baseball bat cracked rib and all.
.. . :-)

Oh well.
 

"Wilbur Hubbard" wrote in message
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"Jessica B" wrote in message
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On Tue, 8 Feb 2011 18:40:51 -0500, "Wilbur Hubbard"
wrote:
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Yep. We do "body" checks all the time. You definitely don't want that
disease.

Can I volunteer as body checker, next time? :-)

LOL ... well, depends on the temperature of your hands. JUST KIDDING!!

I'll heat them up on the campfire so they're nice and toasty. LOL!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LxgAVB2IMpM


snip


My brother's suggestion while camping is to not breathe!


I can see why he'd think like that what a baseball bat cracked rib and
all. . . :-)








Where is your little buddy? She seems to have fallen off the edge of the
earth,

--
Waldo

Oh well.
 

"Waldo" wrote in message
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"Wilbur Hubbard" wrote in message
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"Jessica B" wrote in message
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On Tue, 8 Feb 2011 18:40:51 -0500, "Wilbur Hubbard"
wrote:
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Yep. We do "body" checks all the time. You definitely don't want that
disease.

Can I volunteer as body checker, next time? :-)

LOL ... well, depends on the temperature of your hands. JUST KIDDING!!

I'll heat them up on the campfire so they're nice and toasty. LOL!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LxgAVB2IMpM


snip


My brother's suggestion while camping is to not breathe!


I can see why he'd think like that what a baseball bat cracked rib and
all. . . :-)








Where is your little buddy? She seems to have fallen off the edge of the
earth,

--
Waldo



Sniff! Maybe she doesn't love me anymore?

Or, more likely, she got tired of reading you
skeptics irrationally accusing her of not being real?


Wilbur Hubbard

Oh well.
 

On Mon, 14 Feb 2011 14:47:10 -0500, "Wilbur Hubbard"
wrote:

"Jessica B" wrote in message
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On Tue, 8 Feb 2011 18:40:51 -0500, "Wilbur Hubbard"
wrote:
snip


Yep. We do "body" checks all the time. You definitely don't want that
disease.

Can I volunteer as body checker, next time? :-)

LOL ... well, depends on the temperature of your hands. JUST KIDDING!!

I'll heat them up on the campfire so they're nice and toasty. LOL!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LxgAVB2IMpM

You like Western? I do for some of it. He's definitely cute. :)


snip


My brother's suggestion while camping is to not breathe!


I can see why he'd think like that what a baseball bat cracked rib and all.
. . :-)

Yeh...

Oh well.
 

On Mon, 14 Feb 2011 17:34:57 -0500, "Waldo" wrote:

"Wilbur Hubbard" wrote in message
tanews.com...
"Jessica B" wrote in message
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On Tue, 8 Feb 2011 18:40:51 -0500, "Wilbur Hubbard"
wrote:
snip


Yep. We do "body" checks all the time. You definitely don't want that
disease.

Can I volunteer as body checker, next time? :-)

LOL ... well, depends on the temperature of your hands. JUST KIDDING!!

I'll heat them up on the campfire so they're nice and toasty. LOL!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LxgAVB2IMpM


snip


My brother's suggestion while camping is to not breathe!


I can see why he'd think like that what a baseball bat cracked rib and
all. . . :-)








Where is your little buddy? She seems to have fallen off the edge of the
earth,

It's called a life Mr. Waldo. Where is Waldo btw? Something must be
rattling around inside that head of yours.