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Lonny Bruce March 14th 05 01:09 PM

"Scout" wrote in message
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CM,

.. Perhaps things are
different in Canada, or in Philadelphia.


Or in the real world.

L

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"Scout" wrote in message
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CM,
I don't know what your experience is with unions. But I do know what I've
been through, and my father, and his father. Your points are made
eloquently, but do not mesh with what I know to be truth. Perhaps things
are different in Canada, or in Philadelphia.
Scout

"Capt. Mooron" wrote in message
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"Scout" wrote in message

Very good. And because they had that day, hired goons no longer show up
and split your head open with a baseball bat for wanting a fair share of
the profits of a company's efforts. Had you seen that, you might be glad
to have a brother close by. These heavy handed "negotiations" made bar
room fights look like a day at the beach.


Not really a viable example Scout... since there are many things in
society that are no longer condoned and that had nothing to do with union
activity.


It's all very well and good to espouse a philosophy that worked in the
day of the agrarian citizen, but the sheer number of people in the
modern workforce demands different rules. Hobbes would have agreed with
me. People are inherently greedy; generally speaking they are pricks.
ASA provides all the evidence one needs to believe that is true.
Government and big business are one and the same, and together they are
still the Leviathan. Mutually beneficial contracts are needed today more
than ever. God bless a nation where a guy like Scotty can make the offer
of "take it or shove it." He can do so only because others have paid
the cost, and continue to pay the price, for that privilege.


Our ancestors have collectively paid the price to have us achieve our
current freedoms and society... this in no way suggests that methods
acceptable even 50 years ago are legitimate today. Your statement on the
general tendencies of people seem to illustrate a rather negative view of
society in general. I do not find the people posting to ASA as pricks at
all.... [Except for Gaynzy who is an annoying little homo].... their
posturing and statements are a fine tool with which to hone my abilities
to defend a position. Considering the anonymity provided by this
medium... it's a wonder the verbal engagements are not far worse. In
effect we self police.

In regards to Scotty's ability to establish his rate of pay... this has
been available for as long as we have existed and is not the result of
union activity. If you provide a service or commodity that is superior to
others in the same field.... you have the right to charge what the
consumer will bear.

CM






Capt. Mooron March 14th 05 03:41 PM


"Lonny Bruce" wrote in message
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"Scout" wrote in message
...
CM,

. Perhaps things are
different in Canada, or in Philadelphia.


Or in the real world.


Lonny..... try this link on the Giant Mine Strike in Yellowknife...

http://tinylink.com/?aVHXwkC6Ed

I lived through it and had good friends on both sides. It destroyed
life-long friendships and families to nobody's benefit. The fault lay
squarely in the laps of both Employer and Union. This is why I am leaning
towards Legal Firms to engage in Employment Contracts.


CM



DSK March 14th 05 05:36 PM

Scout wrote:
Yep, but notice that I carefully couched my reference to "fools in debt."
There are always legitimate cases where honest people have fallen on hard
times and it is in the best interest of the rest of us to help them regain
their balance.


There is that, but hey, you can't expect a society led by "compassionate
conservatism" to give even so much as a little rat's ass.

There are others, of course, like the big casino mahof, who hired my company
to do his mechanical construction and then claimed (planned) bankruptcy. He
offered us 10 cents on the dollar. As you can see, he is no where near
bankrupt and planned to let the contractors pay for his casino. We said no,
beat him in court, and got all of our money.


I can think of dumber things that trying to cheat contruction workers.

But you're right, it's a business plan for some. Corporate deadbeats...
includes a lot of insurance companies...

DSK


JG March 14th 05 05:37 PM

I agree, but it looks like you're making Davey angry.

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"Scout" wrote in message
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The trick here is to not get angry just because others have opinions
differing from one's own.
Scout

"JG" wrote in message
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Scout, you're talking about Dave? Mr. Poodle? He doesn't engage in
"discussions" unless he's absolutely, 100 percent right, in his own mind.

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"Scout" wrote in message
...
It's called discussion. Many here engage in it without posting
hyperlinks to speak for them.
Scout


"Dave" wrote
Indeed, why post your little diatribe in the first place?









Maxprop March 14th 05 11:50 PM


"Capt. Mooron" wrote in message

I'm not certain if you are being compliant or assertive with that
statement!

It must be assertive since I sense a bit of aggression.... :-)


Aggressively assertive compliance.

Max



Capt. Mooron March 15th 05 12:20 AM


"Maxprop" wrote in message

Aggressively assertive compliance.


She's female... compliance comes naturally!
Assertive, Aggressive or otherwise... :-)

CM... I know... I know... I'll burn in the Lava Lakes!



Scout March 15th 05 02:14 AM

I have memorized it as well; so did Ronald Reagan.
Scout

"Jeff" wrote in message
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Scout wrote:
The land of Robert Service, my favorite poet!
Scout


Some years back I was riding in a car with my mother and for some reason
starting exchanging verses of "The Cremation of Sam McGee." It turned out
we had both memorized it in high school!

There are strange things done in the midnight sun
By the men who moil for gold;
The Arctic trails have their secret tales
That would make your blood run cold;
The Northern Lights have seen queer sights,
But the queerest they ever did see
Was that night on the marge of Lake Lebarge
I cremated Sam McGee.

This link has the complete poem, worth reading out loud, preferably in
front of a fireplace. I never realized that Lake Lebarge, the Alice May,
and Sam were all real!

http://www.wordfocus.com/wordactcremation.html




katysails March 15th 05 02:25 AM

There is no aggression, and there is no compliance...but there is
assertiveness....

"Capt. Mooron" wrote in message
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I'm not certain if you are being compliant or assertive with that
statement!

It must be assertive since I sense a bit of aggression.... :-)

CM

"katysails" wrote in message
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You can disagree all you want to...you are wrong. Enjoy your wrongness.

"Capt. Mooron" wrote in message
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I disagree..... assertiveness is most certainly a response to outside
stimuli. Initial actions cannot be undertaken without the premise of
interaction between at least 2 people.... at this point you have the
initiation and the response.

If you are subject to an assertive request... you must decide upon it's
validity, pertinence and reach a decision that you will either comply or
refuse. If you decide to comply.... the point of assertive behaviour is
moot. You have in effect agreed to be compliant. If you decide to
refuse... you have taken a stance that will require to be defended. To
effect this will necessitate an aggressive posture. The scale of
aggression is directly associated with the level of assertiveness
contained by the request. Once you challenge anyone.... you have
initiated an aggressive posture.... no matter if it was based on self
assertion or dismissal due to mitigating factors.

You are still insisting that aggressive behaviour is only identified
through violent behaviour... and that is simply incorrect. A person can
be very aggressive without being physically violent.

CM



"katysails" wrote in message
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No..you're analogy is wrong....we're not talking about Reponses but
initial actions....responses are an entirely different matter...a
person can assertively request another to get them a cup of coffee...by
doing so, the other person, responding to the assertiveness, does not
lose face, does not take on the role of servitude, retains some aspect
of equality or equanimity....a person aggressively requesting another
get them a cup of coffee negates the importance of that other person,
takes away their respect, and lowers their position in regards to
others...

"Capt. Mooron" wrote in message
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Not at all.... everyone has an opinion, that has nothing to do with
assertive behaviour.
The example of the dog is a poor one since you seem to think that
refusal to comply with a request is being assertive. Being assertive
is refusal to comply with direction or treatment that exceeds a
boundary you have established. Once that refusal is made...
aggressive behaviour is enacted, since the action of declining or
taking a stand requires it.

Let's use another example. If someone where to direct you to fetch
coffee... even if done politely, compliance to that request is
dependent on several factors. Once you weigh the factors you make a
decision to comply or refuse.

Now, what I'm saying is that such direction would never be considered
nor even directed to an aggressive personality..... since
assertiveness goes hand in hand with aggressive behaviour the
"direction" would be quickly reconsidered and reduced to a "request".
A person who is non-aggressive or not assertive would be the primary
candidate for direction due to their perceived position in the pecking
order. To elevate yourself in the pecking order requires you take a
stand... that action requires you to be aggressive.

While you may be assertive in presenting your point of view in this
matter... you have as well been aggressively defending your
misconceptions.

CM


"katysails" wrote in message
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To assert mean you have an opinion and are willing to stand by
it...that is not aggression....you really have been too far away from
civilization and for too long a time....your ideas have become warped
and distorted away from the common view....assertiveness is not
aggression...assertiveness is when the dog nudges you for a pat and
doesn't take No for an answer.but you can still walk
away...aggressiveness is when he finally grabs your hand with his
teeth and bites down to remind you that he is in control...and the
only way you can walk away is to fight back or allow him to win...



"Capt. Mooron" wrote in message
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Absolutely inaccurate assessment on your part Kitty. You seem to
assume aggressiveness as truculent behaviour.... that is
misleading. To assert is to take a stance.... that alone requires
you assume an aggressive posture.

The very action of being assertive requires that you are capable of
delineating how you will be treated or engaged. You are making a
demand of others.... that requires an aggressive posture.... unless
you are making a plea... which isn't assertive.

CM



"katysails" wrote in message
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Well, you're wrong again...I'm not interested in doing all the
Google searches for the studies, but they're there...assertiveness
can be taught and used effectively, without aggression....you
probably just don't recognize it because the testosterone stands in
the way...

"Capt. Mooron" wrote in message
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Assertive behaviour is motivated by aggressive stance. If you
stand your ground... you are asserting your place... the very act
of that is aggressive. The meek can never be taught
assertiveness.... I don't care how many classes you give them....
they will fold like superman on laundry day in the face of someone
with a true assertive/aggressive personality.

CM

"katysails" wrote in message
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You're wrong....there are people that specialize in training the
meek to be assertive...these people have not got an aggressive
bone in their bodies and get walked over....with assertiveness
training, they are able to start fending for themselves...has
nothing to do with aggression and everything to do with
survival....

"Capt. Mooron" wrote in message
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Again you fail to grasp the basic fact that without an
aggressive attitude... you cannot be assertive. Assertiveness is
merely a symptom of an aggressive nature, as is being
competitive. Aggression does not have to involve physical
violence. I believe you are unable to comprehend this because as
a female you are guided by emotion as opposed to logic.

CM

"katysails" wrote in message
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Assertiveness works well in the competitive field of business
whereas aggressiveness will usually land you on the
unemployment lines...aggressive people generally rise fast in
their professions and then tank out early whereas the
consistently assertive attain their goals in a non-threatening
manner and hold their positions or continue to rise....

"Capt. Mooron" wrote in message
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I believe it is indeed that you do not comprehend.... or make
erroneous assumptions regarding male aggression. In the average
male... aggressiveness is controlled. To submit that a
competitive nature is not required in a modern society is
illogical. Even the few women in a position of power show an
extremely heightened sense of aggressiveness and a competitive
nature. Enlightenment has nothing to do with it.

CM

"katysails" wrote in message
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It's not that we don't comprehend..it's that we reject that
as anything other than what it is....uncontrolled
testosterone...it worked for cavemen because that's the
physical reality they lived in but the idea of man (gender,
not species) as hunter/gatherer in an enlightened society is
an anachronism...


"Capt. Mooron" wrote in message
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NO! Kitty.... You are confusing aggressiveness and
assertiveness.... which is understandable. I will repeat
myself despite the fact I know you are not capable of
understanding the logic..... You cannot be assertive without
being aggressive.

Let's take the scenario you utilized.... you assume that
aggression requires physical intervention. It does not!
Aggression between males has a multi-tiered level.... none
of which can be comprehended by females. The level of
aggressive behaviour is dependant on the situation. This is
comprehended by even the youngest of our gender.

CM



CM

"katysails" wrote in message
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An assertive person makes their point by showing you the
hole in the ground; an aggressive person puts you in the
hole in the ground.

"Capt. Mooron" wrote in message
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You require aggressiveness to be assertive.... the very
act of asserting yourself, places others as either your
equal or your subordinate.... despite what they may have
perceived. This situation is not attained by passive
compliance, nor neutral indifference.

CM


"katysails" wrote in message
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I am assertive....not aggressive....

"Capt. Mooron" wrote in
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Aggression need not be physical....

CM

"katysails" wrote in
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I am not a physically aggressive person....except for
the boots, chains, spurs, etc....but that's not the same
thing...

"Capt. Mooron" wrote in
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You may indeed suggest it...... but I'd sooner you
take your own advise.

CM

"katysails" wrote in
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Well, may I suggest you rise above your base animal
instinct and start using the tools that were given
you to negotiate and walk away from aggression?













































katysails March 15th 05 02:26 AM

never....assertive noncompliance...

"Maxprop" wrote in message
nk.net...

"Capt. Mooron" wrote in message

I'm not certain if you are being compliant or assertive with that
statement!

It must be assertive since I sense a bit of aggression.... :-)


Aggressively assertive compliance.

Max




katysails March 15th 05 02:27 AM

snort...like heck compliance comes naturally....BTW, the snort was not
assertive but aggressive...and certainly noncompliant...



"Capt. Mooron" wrote in message
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"Maxprop" wrote in message

Aggressively assertive compliance.


She's female... compliance comes naturally!
Assertive, Aggressive or otherwise... :-)

CM... I know... I know... I'll burn in the Lava Lakes!




Maxprop March 15th 05 03:59 AM


"katysails" wrote in message

snort...like heck compliance comes naturally....BTW, the snort was not
assertive but aggressive...and certainly noncompliant...


I'll bet it was derisive. And perhaps even a bit denigrating.

An aggressively denigratingly derisive, noncompliant, nonassertive snort.

Max



Capt. Mooron March 15th 05 04:35 AM


"Maxprop" wrote in message
ink.net...

"katysails" wrote in message

snort...like heck compliance comes naturally....BTW, the snort was not
assertive but aggressive...and certainly noncompliant...


I'll bet it was derisive. And perhaps even a bit denigrating.

An aggressively denigratingly derisive, noncompliant, nonassertive snort.


I'm not quite certain Max... but it seems that "snort" sounded awfully
assertive ..... Kitty was being totally noncompliant in this instance. I
believe it stems from her aggressive personality which apparently has been
piqued! She carefully weighed the substance of the point of contention and
decided to take a stand.

It seems I can take comfort in the fact that her assertiveness was based on
aggression which would validate my argument... proving once again that
females are guided by emotion and not logic!

Excuse me while I take time to engage in my "I win! I Win!! River Dance"
......

Hoo Yeah! Who Da Man?... I Da Man!

CM





Lonny Bruce March 15th 05 01:31 PM

I believe in the free market.

If a man wants to work, then he should be allowed to work. If a man wants
to strike, then he should be allowed to be replaced, provided someone else
wants to do the work.

The days of strong arm tactics should be over. They don't help anyone
anymore.

Collective bargaining should be allowed. It is more effecient for
management, and it assures all workers of getting a somewhat equal and fair
shake.

But if you choose not to work (strike), then you can be replaced. Perhaps
the management will decide it will function better with the striking workers
as they are more experienced, then that is the free market at work.

I believe in the free market.

L

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"Capt. Mooron" wrote in message
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"Lonny Bruce" wrote in message
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"Scout" wrote in message
...
CM,

. Perhaps things are
different in Canada, or in Philadelphia.


Or in the real world.


Lonny..... try this link on the Giant Mine Strike in Yellowknife...

http://tinylink.com/?aVHXwkC6Ed

I lived through it and had good friends on both sides. It destroyed
life-long friendships and families to nobody's benefit. The fault lay
squarely in the laps of both Employer and Union. This is why I am leaning
towards Legal Firms to engage in Employment Contracts.


CM





Scott Vernon March 15th 05 02:12 PM

Katy! you're babbling.


"katysails" wrote in message
...
snort...like heck compliance comes naturally....BTW, the snort was

not
assertive but aggressive...and certainly noncompliant...



"Capt. Mooron" wrote in message
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"Maxprop" wrote in message

Aggressively assertive compliance.


She's female... compliance comes naturally!
Assertive, Aggressive or otherwise... :-)

CM... I know... I know... I'll burn in the Lava Lakes!






Capt. Mooron March 15th 05 07:03 PM


"Dave" wrote in message
...
On Tue, 15 Mar 2005 13:31:46 GMT, "Lonny Bruce"
said:

Collective bargaining should be allowed. It is more effecient for
management, and it assures all workers of getting a somewhat equal and
fair
shake.


As to efficiency, I find that a fairly weak argument. Seems to me it would
be more efficient for management to be able to pay its harder working and
more productive workers more than the guy who starts putting on his coat
at
4:45.


Which is why a legal firm would be a much better option than a union in
today's workforce. Most of the union bosses are poorly educated,
unmotivated, under-achievers who rely on seniority and the "good ole' boys"
club mentality to secure a cushy position within the union hierarchy. If
union dues were used to employ a legal firm to negotiate pay rates and
benefits, the threat of a strike would be a non-issue and the cost of
lengthy litigation would provide incentive for both sides to reach an
agreement. As it is the collective bargaining and union demands are
generally fuelled by the personal agenda of the union bosses..... not the
requirements of the rank & file membership.

CM



katysails March 15th 05 11:28 PM

You know me so well....

"Maxprop" wrote in message
ink.net...

"katysails" wrote in message

snort...like heck compliance comes naturally....BTW, the snort was not
assertive but aggressive...and certainly noncompliant...


I'll bet it was derisive. And perhaps even a bit denigrating.

An aggressively denigratingly derisive, noncompliant, nonassertive snort.

Max




katysails March 15th 05 11:32 PM

Did you ever consider the fact that I had a stuffy nose and needed to clear
it at that time? But I refrained from aggressively clearing it your way and
averted an aggressive reply from you in return...making it an assertive act
but the remark was most obviously derisive...but not aggressive, since no
force was applied in any way, shape, or form...and only aggressors care if
they win or lose...I am sanctimonious no matter which way it turns...

"Capt. Mooron" wrote in message
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"Maxprop" wrote in message
ink.net...

"katysails" wrote in message

snort...like heck compliance comes naturally....BTW, the snort was not
assertive but aggressive...and certainly noncompliant...


I'll bet it was derisive. And perhaps even a bit denigrating.

An aggressively denigratingly derisive, noncompliant, nonassertive snort.


I'm not quite certain Max... but it seems that "snort" sounded awfully
assertive ..... Kitty was being totally noncompliant in this instance. I
believe it stems from her aggressive personality which apparently has been
piqued! She carefully weighed the substance of the point of contention and
decided to take a stand.

It seems I can take comfort in the fact that her assertiveness was based
on aggression which would validate my argument... proving once again that
females are guided by emotion and not logic!

Excuse me while I take time to engage in my "I win! I Win!! River Dance"
.....

Hoo Yeah! Who Da Man?... I Da Man!

CM







katysails March 15th 05 11:32 PM

If you followed the thread you would know what's going on...get with the
program....
"Scott Vernon" wrote in message
...
Katy! you're babbling.


"katysails" wrote in message
...
snort...like heck compliance comes naturally....BTW, the snort was

not
assertive but aggressive...and certainly noncompliant...



"Capt. Mooron" wrote in message
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"Maxprop" wrote in message

Aggressively assertive compliance.

She's female... compliance comes naturally!
Assertive, Aggressive or otherwise... :-)

CM... I know... I know... I'll burn in the Lava Lakes!








Capt. Mooron March 16th 05 12:07 AM

Yeah Whatever... Okay!... but I still win right!!!

Woooooooooooo Ye-e-e-a-a-a-a-a-h-h-h-h-h-h!!!!

CM

Who Da Man!?.... I da Man!!!!
"katysails" wrote in message
...
Did you ever consider the fact that I had a stuffy nose and needed to
clear it at that time? But I refrained from aggressively clearing it your
way and averted an aggressive reply from you in return...making it an
assertive act but the remark was most obviously derisive...but not
aggressive, since no force was applied in any way, shape, or form...and
only aggressors care if they win or lose...I am sanctimonious no matter
which way it turns...

"Capt. Mooron" wrote in message
news:5CtZd.31486$i6.16248@edtnps90...

"Maxprop" wrote in message
ink.net...

"katysails" wrote in message

snort...like heck compliance comes naturally....BTW, the snort was not
assertive but aggressive...and certainly noncompliant...

I'll bet it was derisive. And perhaps even a bit denigrating.

An aggressively denigratingly derisive, noncompliant, nonassertive
snort.


I'm not quite certain Max... but it seems that "snort" sounded awfully
assertive ..... Kitty was being totally noncompliant in this instance. I
believe it stems from her aggressive personality which apparently has
been piqued! She carefully weighed the substance of the point of
contention and decided to take a stand.

It seems I can take comfort in the fact that her assertiveness was based
on aggression which would validate my argument... proving once again that
females are guided by emotion and not logic!

Excuse me while I take time to engage in my "I win! I Win!! River Dance"
.....

Hoo Yeah! Who Da Man?... I Da Man!

CM









Capt. Mooron March 16th 05 12:08 AM

Whoa!... that assertion sounded awfully aggressive to me Kitty!!

CM

"katysails" wrote in message
...
If you followed the thread you would know what's going on...get with the
program....
"Scott Vernon" wrote in message
...
Katy! you're babbling.


"katysails" wrote in message
...
snort...like heck compliance comes naturally....BTW, the snort was

not
assertive but aggressive...and certainly noncompliant...



"Capt. Mooron" wrote in message
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"Maxprop" wrote in message

Aggressively assertive compliance.

She's female... compliance comes naturally!
Assertive, Aggressive or otherwise... :-)

CM... I know... I know... I'll burn in the Lava Lakes!










Maxprop March 16th 05 03:30 AM


"Capt. Mooron" wrote in message

It seems I can take comfort in the fact that her assertiveness was based
on aggression which would validate my argument... proving once again that
females are guided by emotion and not logic!


In all seriousness, in all the years I've known her, she's always been
assertive, but I've never seen anything remotely aggressive in her behavior.

Hoo Yeah! Who Da Man?... I Da Man!


Have another 150 proof rum, will ya.

Max



Maxprop March 16th 05 03:31 AM


"Capt. Mooron" wrote in message

Yeah Whatever... Okay!... but I still win right!!!

Woooooooooooo Ye-e-e-a-a-a-a-a-h-h-h-h-h-h!!!!


Bubbles? Is that you???

Max



katysails March 16th 05 04:04 AM

Peter Pan will never be a man....

"Capt. Mooron" wrote in message
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Yeah Whatever... Okay!... but I still win right!!!

Woooooooooooo Ye-e-e-a-a-a-a-a-h-h-h-h-h-h!!!!

CM

Who Da Man!?.... I da Man!!!!
"katysails" wrote in message
...
Did you ever consider the fact that I had a stuffy nose and needed to
clear it at that time? But I refrained from aggressively clearing it
your way and averted an aggressive reply from you in return...making it
an assertive act but the remark was most obviously derisive...but not
aggressive, since no force was applied in any way, shape, or form...and
only aggressors care if they win or lose...I am sanctimonious no matter
which way it turns...

"Capt. Mooron" wrote in message
news:5CtZd.31486$i6.16248@edtnps90...

"Maxprop" wrote in message
ink.net...

"katysails" wrote in message

snort...like heck compliance comes naturally....BTW, the snort was not
assertive but aggressive...and certainly noncompliant...

I'll bet it was derisive. And perhaps even a bit denigrating.

An aggressively denigratingly derisive, noncompliant, nonassertive
snort.

I'm not quite certain Max... but it seems that "snort" sounded awfully
assertive ..... Kitty was being totally noncompliant in this instance.
I believe it stems from her aggressive personality which apparently has
been piqued! She carefully weighed the substance of the point of
contention and decided to take a stand.

It seems I can take comfort in the fact that her assertiveness was based
on aggression which would validate my argument... proving once again
that females are guided by emotion and not logic!

Excuse me while I take time to engage in my "I win! I Win!! River
Dance" .....

Hoo Yeah! Who Da Man?... I Da Man!

CM











katysails March 16th 05 04:05 AM

Not really...I didn't clench my fists while I typed it...

"Capt. Mooron" wrote in message
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Whoa!... that assertion sounded awfully aggressive to me Kitty!!

CM

"katysails" wrote in message
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If you followed the thread you would know what's going on...get with the
program....
"Scott Vernon" wrote in message
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Katy! you're babbling.


"katysails" wrote in message
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snort...like heck compliance comes naturally....BTW, the snort was
not
assertive but aggressive...and certainly noncompliant...



"Capt. Mooron" wrote in message
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"Maxprop" wrote in message

Aggressively assertive compliance.

She's female... compliance comes naturally!
Assertive, Aggressive or otherwise... :-)

CM... I know... I know... I'll burn in the Lava Lakes!












katysails March 16th 05 04:06 AM

snort
(now he's gonna think I'm a wuss...)

"Maxprop" wrote in message
ink.net...

"Capt. Mooron" wrote in message

It seems I can take comfort in the fact that her assertiveness was based
on aggression which would validate my argument... proving once again that
females are guided by emotion and not logic!


In all seriousness, in all the years I've known her, she's always been
assertive, but I've never seen anything remotely aggressive in her
behavior.

Hoo Yeah! Who Da Man?... I Da Man!


Have another 150 proof rum, will ya.

Max




Lonny Bruce March 18th 05 05:16 PM

That is not what I meant by 'effecient'. I think you might be referring to
"effective"???

What I meant was it will free up management to do other functions, as not as
much of their time will be tied to indivual salary negotiations.

By allowing management to individually negotiate salaries, that opens up the
possibilities of abuse, one of the reasons for the formation of the unions
in the first place. How much better it will be for all concerned if there
was an agreed to and established wage package for new employees, and what
raises, if any, they will get after 1 year of service, etc.

Of course, for this to work, other management tools must be implemented,
such as quotas, testing, etc, to make sure that the work that is being payed
for is getting done.

Hey, if you want to see something funny, go to your local gov't building,
such as your county gov't building. Watch what happens at 5:00. There is a
regular stampede of the gov't workers trying to get out the door, complete
with their briefcases packed and their coats on. So I figure they start
getting ready to leave at 4:45 by putting on thier coats and packing their
briefcases, etc, and by extenstion that probably means that they stop work
at 4:30 or so. Certainly once 4:15 rolls around they can't start a new
project because they will be leaving soon. So each worker wastes that last
hour of the day preparing to leave.

What ever happened to: You get paid to WORK until 5. Then you stop. Then
you leave?

Of course, I have not worked a whimpy 40 hour week since I was 18.

L

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"Dave" wrote in message
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On Tue, 15 Mar 2005 13:31:46 GMT, "Lonny Bruce"
said:

Collective bargaining should be allowed. It is more effecient for
management, and it assures all workers of getting a somewhat equal and
fair
shake.


As to efficiency, I find that a fairly weak argument. Seems to me it would
be more efficient for management to be able to pay its harder working and
more productive workers more than the guy who starts putting on his coat
at
4:45.





Lonny Bruce March 18th 05 07:35 PM

"JG" wrote in message
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You're so totally full of **** that even the chickens are laughing. You're
an abusive drunk, who claims to be a man but isn't.


Read it again. He talks about Capt. Mooron's "man but".

L

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"JG" wrote in message
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You're so totally full of **** that even the chickens are laughing. You're
an abusive drunk, who claims to be a man but isn't.

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"Capt. Mooron" wrote in message
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"katysails" wrote in message

Why do you think it's a manly thing to make accusations like that? Not
that I'm defending Jon or anything...I just wonder why it seems so
important to you...


Important? No Kitty.... it's merely par for the course when dealing
with Gaynzy. Slapping around of such an obviously annoying little twit
isn't done to elevate my standing.... that's already understood. I
suppose I could ignore him... but what sport is there in that?

You do understand that he brings this action upon himself of his own
volition don't you? He is free to communicate in a rational manner but
refuses to do so. If he had any senses at all he wouldn't be killfiled by
so many people.

CM






Lonny Bruce March 18th 05 07:37 PM

"JG" wrote in message
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Actually, what it really shows is your lack of manhood. Only a weenie
would think that name calling is somehow informative or interesting. As
usual, you're showing off of your lack of balls, since you know you would
never say anything like this to anyone in person. You're a wimp and a
fool. YOU LOST.


Read it again. This time he shows his obsession with Capt. Mooron's balls.

L

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"JG" wrote in message
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Actually, what it really shows is your lack of manhood. Only a weenie
would think that name calling is somehow informative or interesting. As
usual, you're showing off of your lack of balls, since you know you would
never say anything like this to anyone in person. You're a wimp and a
fool. YOU LOST.

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"Capt. Mooron" wrote in message
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If I was concerned in regards to having time taken away from more
important matters.... I would probably not be posting here in the first
place. Generally I find myself posting to the group during movie
commercials, breaks while engaged in other computer work, waiting for
the next level of UT2K4 to load up... unless there is an interesting
thread or a viable, challenging opponent to engage. I only subscribe to
ASA... since it offers a much better standard of rhetoric and wit. Let's
face it... most of the regulars here, have covered in debt almost every
topic on sailing... repeatedly

Gaynz provides opportunity to test the amount of verbal abuse that can be
tolerated by an individual on usegroups. I understand that this is of no
interest to some of the other posters here... but a filter which deletes
any post containing the word "Gaynz" or "Gaynzy" will clear that up since
I will always include those words in my replies to Jon's posts.

To date I have found that Jax endured the most abuse until he finally
snapped and was forced to take a break. Gaynz is not far behind Jax....
and far less literate.... which isn't saying much.

CM


"katysails" wrote in message
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Annoyances, in my opinion, are best left ignored...if you pay attention
to peetty annoyances, they do become important to you for whatever
reason and take time away from things that would be more worthwhile...

"Capt. Mooron" wrote in message
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"katysails" wrote in message

Why do you think it's a manly thing to make accusations like that? Not
that I'm defending Jon or anything...I just wonder why it seems so
important to you...

Important? No Kitty.... it's merely par for the course when dealing
with Gaynzy. Slapping around of such an obviously annoying little twit
isn't done to elevate my standing.... that's already understood. I
suppose I could ignore him... but what sport is there in that?

You do understand that he brings this action upon himself of his own
volition don't you? He is free to communicate in a rational manner but
refuses to do so. If he had any senses at all he wouldn't be killfiled
by so many people.

CM










Lonny Bruce March 18th 05 07:38 PM

"JG" wrote in message
...
Yeah, here's another example of fool. He filters me because I asked him if
his mother was a lesbian. But, he leaves unfiltered the likes of Mooron
and Scotti Potti. Typical.


Read it again. He talks about gays in this post. Geez, this is just too
easy.

L

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"JG" wrote in message
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Yeah, here's another example of fool. He filters me because I asked him if
his mother was a lesbian. But, he leaves unfiltered the likes of Mooron
and Scotti Potti. Typical.

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"Maxprop" wrote in message
nk.net...

"katysails" wrote in message

Annoyances, in my opinion, are best left ignored...if you pay attention
to peetty annoyances, they do become important to you for whatever
reason and take time away from things that would be more worthwhile...


Amen to that. I filtered Ganz a while back and can't begin to express
how different and how pleasant this NG is now. Ganz is one of those
spoiled malcontents with juvenile behavior that seem to be able to make
NGs a PITA. I only wish it were as easy to make undesirables disappear in
real life. g

Max






Lonny Bruce March 18th 05 07:40 PM

"JG" wrote in message
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It proves something to himself. It's a bit sad actually.


Once again he speaks of his emotions.

L

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"JG" wrote in message
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It proves something to himself. It's a bit sad actually.

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"katysails" wrote in message
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Why do you think it's a manly thing to make accusations like that? Not
that I'm defending Jon or anything...I just wonder why it seems so
important to you...


"Capt. Mooron" wrote in message
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"JG" wrote in message
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I disagree completely. One doesn't have to be aggressive to assert one's
rights. I believe you're unable to comprehend this because you are just
plain stupid.

Well now Gaynzy... you're neither aggressive nor assertive... you're
just an annoying, whining little homo! Your incapacity of emulating any
masculine traits is positive proof that you are a limp wristed, lisping
queer! Your tendency to effeminate behaviour has no doubt been the root
cause of the abuse you've suffered throughout life.

Now why don't you return to memorizing the Vagina Monologues and reapply
more Preparation H while awaiting your next caller....

CM









Lonny Bruce March 18th 05 07:42 PM

"JG" wrote in message
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Mooron has a lot of experience with taking it up the ass.


Now he writes about a subject he knows a lot about.

L

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"JG" wrote in message
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Mooron has a lot of experience with taking it up the ass.

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"Capt. Mooron" wrote in message
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Gaynzy thinks he's being assertive when he's takin' it up the ass!

You little homo!

CM

"JG" wrote in message
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You're completely and totally wrong, as usual. Bwahahahaaaaaa....

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"Capt. Mooron" wrote in message
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Assertive behaviour is motivated by aggressive stance. If you stand
your ground... you are asserting your place... the very act of that is
aggressive. The meek can never be taught assertiveness.... I don't
care how many classes you give them.... they will fold like superman on
laundry day in the face of someone with a true assertive/aggressive
personality.

CM

"katysails" wrote in message
...
You're wrong....there are people that specialize in training the meek
to be assertive...these people have not got an aggressive bone in
their bodies and get walked over....with assertiveness training, they
are able to start fending for themselves...has nothing to do with
aggression and everything to do with survival....

"Capt. Mooron" wrote in message
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Again you fail to grasp the basic fact that without an aggressive
attitude... you cannot be assertive. Assertiveness is merely a
symptom of an aggressive nature, as is being competitive. Aggression
does not have to involve physical violence. I believe you are unable
to comprehend this because as a female you are guided by emotion as
opposed to logic.

CM

"katysails" wrote in message
...
Assertiveness works well in the competitive field of business
whereas aggressiveness will usually land you on the unemployment
lines...aggressive people generally rise fast in their professions
and then tank out early whereas the consistently assertive attain
their goals in a non-threatening manner and hold their positions or
continue to rise....

"Capt. Mooron" wrote in message
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I believe it is indeed that you do not comprehend.... or make
erroneous assumptions regarding male aggression. In the average
male... aggressiveness is controlled. To submit that a competitive
nature is not required in a modern society is illogical. Even the
few women in a position of power show an extremely heightened sense
of aggressiveness and a competitive nature. Enlightenment has
nothing to do with it.

CM

"katysails" wrote in message
...
It's not that we don't comprehend..it's that we reject that as
anything other than what it is....uncontrolled testosterone...it
worked for cavemen because that's the physical reality they lived
in but the idea of man (gender, not species) as hunter/gatherer in
an enlightened society is an anachronism...


"Capt. Mooron" wrote in message
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NO! Kitty.... You are confusing aggressiveness and
assertiveness.... which is understandable. I will repeat myself
despite the fact I know you are not capable of understanding the
logic..... You cannot be assertive without being aggressive.

Let's take the scenario you utilized.... you assume that
aggression requires physical intervention. It does not!
Aggression between males has a multi-tiered level.... none of
which can be comprehended by females. The level of aggressive
behaviour is dependant on the situation. This is comprehended by
even the youngest of our gender.

CM



CM

"katysails" wrote in message
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An assertive person makes their point by showing you the hole in
the ground; an aggressive person puts you in the hole in the
ground.

"Capt. Mooron" wrote in message
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You require aggressiveness to be assertive.... the very act of
asserting yourself, places others as either your equal or your
subordinate.... despite what they may have perceived. This
situation is not attained by passive compliance, nor neutral
indifference.

CM


"katysails" wrote in message
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I am assertive....not aggressive....

"Capt. Mooron" wrote in message
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Aggression need not be physical....

CM

"katysails" wrote in message
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I am not a physically aggressive person....except for the
boots, chains, spurs, etc....but that's not the same thing...

"Capt. Mooron" wrote in message
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You may indeed suggest it...... but I'd sooner you take
your own advise.

CM

"katysails" wrote in message
Well, may I suggest you rise above your base animal
instinct and start using the tools that were given you to
negotiate and walk away from aggression?



































Jonathan Ganz March 19th 05 12:30 AM

In article H3G_d.11532$UV2.11188@trnddc04,
Lonny Bruce wrote:
"JG" wrote in message
...
You're so totally full of **** that even the chickens are laughing. You're
an abusive drunk, who claims to be a man but isn't.


Read it again. He talks about Capt. Mooron's "man but".

L


READ IT AGAIN. YOU'RE AN ASSHOLE.
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Jonathan Ganz March 19th 05 12:32 AM

In article Y5G_d.11541$UV2.1945@trnddc04,
Lonny Bruce wrote:
"JG" wrote in message
...
Actually, what it really shows is your lack of manhood. Only a weenie
would think that name calling is somehow informative or interesting. As
usual, you're showing off of your lack of balls, since you know you would
never say anything like this to anyone in person. You're a wimp and a
fool. YOU LOST.


Read it again. This time he shows his obsession with Capt. Mooron's balls.


READ IT AGAIN. YOU'RE AN ASSHOLE.
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Jonathan Ganz March 19th 05 12:33 AM

In article 57G_d.11546$UV2.234@trnddc04,
Lonny Bruce wrote:

all his bull**** removed
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Jonathan Ganz March 19th 05 12:35 AM

In article f8G_d.11551$UV2.3735@trnddc04,
Lonny Bruce wrote:

bs deleted

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Jonathan Ganz March 19th 05 12:37 AM

In article 69G_d.11556$UV2.6751@trnddc04,
Lonny Bruce wrote:

bs deleted
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Jonathan Ganz March 19th 05 12:38 AM

In article paG_d.11562$UV2.3075@trnddc04,
Lonny Bruce wrote:
bs deleted
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katysails March 19th 05 12:45 AM

They put all their phones on "send" at 3:45....and they don't take them off
the voice mail cover until they've had their coffee in the morning...I have
a lot of contact with government offices...most have one fax machine with 50
faxes trying to get through at one time...and they only work 3 hours on
Fridays...not that they're not there...they only work the 3 hours...



"Dave" wrote in message
...
On Fri, 18 Mar 2005 17:16:32 GMT, "Lonny Bruce"
said:

Hey, if you want to see something funny, go to your local gov't building,
such as your county gov't building. Watch what happens at 5:00. There is
a
regular stampede of the gov't workers trying to get out the door, complete
with their briefcases packed and their coats on. So I figure they start
getting ready to leave at 4:45 by putting on thier coats and packing their
briefcases, etc, and by extenstion that probably means that they stop work
at 4:30 or so. Certainly once 4:15 rolls around they can't start a new
project because they will be leaving soon. So each worker wastes that
last
hour of the day preparing to leave.


Yes. I drew that example from reports of a relative about how the guvmint
workers in her office would start putting on their coats at 4:45 and sit
at
their desks bundled up until 5:00 rolled around.




Capt. Mooron March 19th 05 01:02 AM


"Jonathan Ganz" wrote in message

READ IT AGAIN. YOU'RE AN ASSHOLE.


OMG... now he's targeted Lonny's Ass!!!!

Bwahahahahahahahahahaaaaaa.....

Gaynzy... you're such a HOMO!

CM



Capt. Mooron March 19th 05 01:06 AM


"Jonathan Ganz" wrote in message
...
In article paG_d.11562$UV2.3075@trnddc04,
Lonny Bruce wrote:
bs deleted


Oh good Gawd Gaynzy..... you're KF'd by most of the people here.... if you
want to be noticed like you are at Glory Sail.... at least make an attempt
at a comeback... instead of just backing into it!!

CM

CM




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