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Scott Vernon March 13th 05 12:46 AM


"JG" wrote in message
...
No they're not. They've been involved in situations beyond their

control.
Cheating implies some nefarious act.


Not necassarily. If someone files bankrupcy, even though they tried
their hardest and were honest, their creditors are still cheated out
of the money they're owed.

Scotty



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"j" ganz @@
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"Scott Vernon" wrote in message
...
Well, they're cheating somebody.


"JG" wrote in message
...
I agree, but a very large number are in that situation because of

family
problems, such as illness or death of a spouse or child/parent.

Most
are not
cheating the system.

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"j" ganz @@
www.sailnow.com

"Scout" wrote in message
...
No they don't. What they do is offer the card at a lower rate

and
then let
it crawl like ivy up a wall.
And by the way, I'm all for making bankruptcy more difficult

for
fools in
debt. Why should we all pay for their lack of discipline.

Wouldn't
Neal be
surprised.
Scout

"Scott Vernon" wrote in message
...

"Scout" wrote ...
What it means is that people who can scrape together two
nickels to save will get 1.5% interest while credit card

companies
rape
people for 20% (check out Citi-Bank's earnings and policies).

Rape? Anybody that uses a CC deserves what they get charged.

it's not
like they hide the int. rates.

Scotty















Scott Vernon March 13th 05 12:47 AM


"JG" wrote in message
...
What's the opposite of "persoanl bankruptcy"??? Corporate? Like

Enron? Seems
to me that the individual is more important than the corporation.


Well yeah, you don't own a corp. If you did you'd feel different.

SV



Scott Vernon March 13th 05 12:50 AM

Why didn't you send over a couple of union thugs to break his legs?

Scotty


"Scout" wrote in message
...
Yep, but notice that I carefully couched my reference to "fools in

debt."
There are always legitimate cases where honest people have fallen on

hard
times and it is in the best interest of the rest of us to help them

regain
their balance.
There are others, of course, like the big casino mahof, who hired my

company
to do his mechanical construction and then claimed (planned)

bankruptcy. He
offered us 10 cents on the dollar. As you can see, he is no where

near
bankrupt and planned to let the contractors pay for his casino. We

said no,
beat him in court, and got all of our money.
Scout


"JG" wrote in message
...
I agree, but a very large number are in that situation because of

family
problems, such as illness or death of a spouse or child/parent.

Most are
not cheating the system.

--
"j" ganz @@
www.sailnow.com

"Scout" wrote in message
...
No they don't. What they do is offer the card at a lower rate and

then
let it crawl like ivy up a wall.
And by the way, I'm all for making bankruptcy more difficult for

fools in
debt. Why should we all pay for their lack of discipline.

Wouldn't Neal
be surprised.
Scout

"Scott Vernon" wrote in message
...

"Scout" wrote ...
What it means is that people who can scrape together two
nickels to save will get 1.5% interest while credit card

companies
rape
people for 20% (check out Citi-Bank's earnings and policies).

Rape? Anybody that uses a CC deserves what they get charged.

it's not
like they hide the int. rates.

Scotty













Scott Vernon March 13th 05 12:56 AM

I believe you are unable to comprehend this
because as a gay you are guided by emotion as opposed to logic.



"JG" wrote in message
...
I disagree completely. One doesn't have to be aggressive to assert

one's
rights. I believe you're unable to comprehend this because you are

just
plain stupid.

--
"j" ganz @@
www.sailnow.com

"Capt. Mooron" wrote in message
news:w6LYd.23554$ZO2.23116@edtnps84...
Again you fail to grasp the basic fact that without an aggressive
attitude... you cannot be assertive. Assertiveness is merely a

symptom of
an aggressive nature, as is being competitive. Aggression does not

have to
involve physical violence. I believe you are unable to comprehend

this
because as a female you are guided by emotion as opposed to logic.

CM

"katysails" wrote in message
...
Assertiveness works well in the competitive field of business

whereas
aggressiveness will usually land you on the unemployment
lines...aggressive people generally rise fast in their

professions and
then tank out early whereas the consistently assertive attain

their goals
in a non-threatening manner and hold their positions or continue

to
rise....

"Capt. Mooron" wrote in message
news:N_EYd.46434$fc4.26583@edtnps89...
I believe it is indeed that you do not comprehend.... or make

erroneous
assumptions regarding male aggression. In the average male...
aggressiveness is controlled. To submit that a competitive nature

is not
required in a modern society is illogical. Even the few women in

a
position of power show an extremely heightened sense of

aggressiveness
and a competitive nature. Enlightenment has nothing to do with

it.

CM

"katysails" wrote in message

...
It's not that we don't comprehend..it's that we reject that as

anything
other than what it is....uncontrolled testosterone...it worked

for
cavemen because that's the physical reality they lived in but

the idea
of man (gender, not species) as hunter/gatherer in an

enlightened
society is an anachronism...


"Capt. Mooron" wrote in message
news:5huYd.20032$ZO2.7495@edtnps84...
NO! Kitty.... You are confusing aggressiveness and

assertiveness....
which is understandable. I will repeat myself despite the fact

I know
you are not capable of understanding the logic..... You cannot

be
assertive without being aggressive.

Let's take the scenario you utilized.... you assume that

aggression
requires physical intervention. It does not! Aggression

between males
has a multi-tiered level.... none of which can be comprehended

by
females. The level of aggressive behaviour is dependant on the
situation. This is comprehended by even the youngest of our

gender.

CM



CM

"katysails" wrote in message

...
An assertive person makes their point by showing you the hole

in the
ground; an aggressive person puts you in the hole in the

ground.

"Capt. Mooron" wrote in message
news:gXrYd.19227$ZO2.4609@edtnps84...
You require aggressiveness to be assertive.... the very act

of
asserting yourself, places others as either your equal or

your
subordinate.... despite what they may have perceived. This

situation
is not attained by passive compliance, nor neutral

indifference.

CM


"katysails" wrote in message

...
I am assertive....not aggressive....

"Capt. Mooron" wrote in message
news:hTpYd.20694$i6.18071@edtnps90...
Aggression need not be physical....

CM

"katysails" wrote in message

...
I am not a physically aggressive person....except for the

boots,
chains, spurs, etc....but that's not the same thing...

"Capt. Mooron" wrote in

message
news:xghYd.40369$fc4.33395@edtnps89...
You may indeed suggest it...... but I'd sooner you take

your
own advise.

CM

"katysails" wrote in

message
Well, may I suggest you rise above your base animal

instinct
and start using the tools that were given you to

negotiate and
walk away from aggression?



























Capt. Mooron March 13th 05 01:05 AM

Nova Scotia????? Bwahahahahahahahaaaa!!

CM

"JG" wrote in message
...
Yeah, in the frozen tundra where no one wants to live. Might make a nice
vacation home. I think I'll stick to the warmer lats.

--
"j" ganz @@
www.sailnow.com

"Capt. Mooron" wrote in message
news:YyLYd.23822$ZO2.20783@edtnps84...

"Dave" wrote in message
...
On Sat, 12 Mar 2005 22:47:23 GMT, "Scout" said:

But I wouldn't want to be the 25 year old newly wed trying to scrape
together 20% of $500K for a down payment.

Happens all the time. And in the Manhattan market, if they have to
scrape
together 20% of $500K for the down payment they're not gonna get to
first
base. The coop board will turn them down.


Isn't that where Bob lives???? Do you think his apartment is worth
$500K??
Man.. $500K will buy you 60 acres of oceanside and a house up this way!
$50K will buy you a 15 acre farm, with house, barns and out
buildings......

CM






Capt. Mooron March 13th 05 01:17 AM


"JG" wrote in message
...
I disagree completely. One doesn't have to be aggressive to assert one's
rights. I believe you're unable to comprehend this because you are just
plain stupid.


Well now Gaynzy... you're neither aggressive nor assertive... you're just an
annoying, whining little homo! Your incapacity of emulating any masculine
traits is positive proof that you are a limp wristed, lisping queer! Your
tendency to effeminate behaviour has no doubt been the root cause of the
abuse you've suffered throughout life.

Now why don't you return to memorizing the Vagina Monologues and reapply
more Preparation H while awaiting your next caller....

CM



JG March 13th 05 01:23 AM

The creditors were not cheated! They lost money because due to risks
associated with doing business. This is basic business stuff.

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"j" ganz @@
www.sailnow.com

"Scott Vernon" wrote in message
...

"JG" wrote in message
...
No they're not. They've been involved in situations beyond their

control.
Cheating implies some nefarious act.


Not necassarily. If someone files bankrupcy, even though they tried
their hardest and were honest, their creditors are still cheated out
of the money they're owed.

Scotty



--
"j" ganz @@
www.sailnow.com

"Scott Vernon" wrote in message
...
Well, they're cheating somebody.


"JG" wrote in message
...
I agree, but a very large number are in that situation because of
family
problems, such as illness or death of a spouse or child/parent.

Most
are not
cheating the system.

--
"j" ganz @@
www.sailnow.com

"Scout" wrote in message
...
No they don't. What they do is offer the card at a lower rate

and
then let
it crawl like ivy up a wall.
And by the way, I'm all for making bankruptcy more difficult

for
fools in
debt. Why should we all pay for their lack of discipline.

Wouldn't
Neal be
surprised.
Scout

"Scott Vernon" wrote in message
...

"Scout" wrote ...
What it means is that people who can scrape together two
nickels to save will get 1.5% interest while credit card
companies
rape
people for 20% (check out Citi-Bank's earnings and policies).

Rape? Anybody that uses a CC deserves what they get charged.
it's not
like they hide the int. rates.

Scotty

















JG March 13th 05 01:23 AM

Really? I don't?? Wow. Ok.

--
"j" ganz @@
www.sailnow.com

"Scott Vernon" wrote in message
...

"JG" wrote in message
...
What's the opposite of "persoanl bankruptcy"??? Corporate? Like

Enron? Seems
to me that the individual is more important than the corporation.


Well yeah, you don't own a corp. If you did you'd feel different.

SV





JG March 13th 05 01:24 AM

Bwahahahaaa... I'm amazed your chickens don't freeze to death. Oh wait... I
forgot, they live in your house.

--
"j" ganz @@
www.sailnow.com

"Capt. Mooron" wrote in message
news:tlMYd.23932$ZO2.5515@edtnps84...
Nova Scotia????? Bwahahahahahahahaaaa!!

CM

"JG" wrote in message
...
Yeah, in the frozen tundra where no one wants to live. Might make a nice
vacation home. I think I'll stick to the warmer lats.

--
"j" ganz @@
www.sailnow.com

"Capt. Mooron" wrote in message
news:YyLYd.23822$ZO2.20783@edtnps84...

"Dave" wrote in message
...
On Sat, 12 Mar 2005 22:47:23 GMT, "Scout"
said:

But I wouldn't want to be the 25 year old newly wed trying to scrape
together 20% of $500K for a down payment.

Happens all the time. And in the Manhattan market, if they have to
scrape
together 20% of $500K for the down payment they're not gonna get to
first
base. The coop board will turn them down.

Isn't that where Bob lives???? Do you think his apartment is worth
$500K??
Man.. $500K will buy you 60 acres of oceanside and a house up this way!
$50K will buy you a 15 acre farm, with house, barns and out
buildings......

CM








JG March 13th 05 01:25 AM

This is how Scotti Potti shows his level of intelligence....

--
"j" ganz @@
www.sailnow.com

"Scott Vernon" wrote in message
...
I believe you are unable to comprehend this
because as a gay you are guided by emotion as opposed to logic.



"JG" wrote in message
...
I disagree completely. One doesn't have to be aggressive to assert

one's
rights. I believe you're unable to comprehend this because you are

just
plain stupid.

--
"j" ganz @@
www.sailnow.com

"Capt. Mooron" wrote in message
news:w6LYd.23554$ZO2.23116@edtnps84...
Again you fail to grasp the basic fact that without an aggressive
attitude... you cannot be assertive. Assertiveness is merely a

symptom of
an aggressive nature, as is being competitive. Aggression does not

have to
involve physical violence. I believe you are unable to comprehend

this
because as a female you are guided by emotion as opposed to logic.

CM

"katysails" wrote in message
...
Assertiveness works well in the competitive field of business

whereas
aggressiveness will usually land you on the unemployment
lines...aggressive people generally rise fast in their

professions and
then tank out early whereas the consistently assertive attain

their goals
in a non-threatening manner and hold their positions or continue

to
rise....

"Capt. Mooron" wrote in message
news:N_EYd.46434$fc4.26583@edtnps89...
I believe it is indeed that you do not comprehend.... or make

erroneous
assumptions regarding male aggression. In the average male...
aggressiveness is controlled. To submit that a competitive nature

is not
required in a modern society is illogical. Even the few women in

a
position of power show an extremely heightened sense of

aggressiveness
and a competitive nature. Enlightenment has nothing to do with

it.

CM

"katysails" wrote in message

...
It's not that we don't comprehend..it's that we reject that as

anything
other than what it is....uncontrolled testosterone...it worked

for
cavemen because that's the physical reality they lived in but

the idea
of man (gender, not species) as hunter/gatherer in an

enlightened
society is an anachronism...


"Capt. Mooron" wrote in message
news:5huYd.20032$ZO2.7495@edtnps84...
NO! Kitty.... You are confusing aggressiveness and

assertiveness....
which is understandable. I will repeat myself despite the fact

I know
you are not capable of understanding the logic..... You cannot

be
assertive without being aggressive.

Let's take the scenario you utilized.... you assume that

aggression
requires physical intervention. It does not! Aggression

between males
has a multi-tiered level.... none of which can be comprehended

by
females. The level of aggressive behaviour is dependant on the
situation. This is comprehended by even the youngest of our

gender.

CM



CM

"katysails" wrote in message

...
An assertive person makes their point by showing you the hole

in the
ground; an aggressive person puts you in the hole in the

ground.

"Capt. Mooron" wrote in message
news:gXrYd.19227$ZO2.4609@edtnps84...
You require aggressiveness to be assertive.... the very act

of
asserting yourself, places others as either your equal or

your
subordinate.... despite what they may have perceived. This

situation
is not attained by passive compliance, nor neutral

indifference.

CM


"katysails" wrote in message

...
I am assertive....not aggressive....

"Capt. Mooron" wrote in message
news:hTpYd.20694$i6.18071@edtnps90...
Aggression need not be physical....

CM

"katysails" wrote in message

...
I am not a physically aggressive person....except for the

boots,
chains, spurs, etc....but that's not the same thing...

"Capt. Mooron" wrote in

message
news:xghYd.40369$fc4.33395@edtnps89...
You may indeed suggest it...... but I'd sooner you take

your
own advise.

CM

"katysails" wrote in

message
Well, may I suggest you rise above your base animal

instinct
and start using the tools that were given you to

negotiate and
walk away from aggression?





























JG March 13th 05 01:26 AM

Well now Mooron... you're neither a man nor a mouse. You're certainly a
chicken-loving WIMP!!

Bwahahaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa

--
"j" ganz @@
www.sailnow.com

"Capt. Mooron" wrote in message
news:xwMYd.23933$ZO2.21646@edtnps84...

"JG" wrote in message
...
I disagree completely. One doesn't have to be aggressive to assert one's
rights. I believe you're unable to comprehend this because you are just
plain stupid.


Well now Gaynzy... you're neither aggressive nor assertive... you're just
an annoying, whining little homo! Your incapacity of emulating any
masculine traits is positive proof that you are a limp wristed, lisping
queer! Your tendency to effeminate behaviour has no doubt been the root
cause of the abuse you've suffered throughout life.

Now why don't you return to memorizing the Vagina Monologues and reapply
more Preparation H while awaiting your next caller....

CM





katysails March 13th 05 01:51 AM

You're wrong....there are people that specialize in training the meek to be
assertive...these people have not got an aggressive bone in their bodies and
get walked over....with assertiveness training, they are able to start
fending for themselves...has nothing to do with aggression and everything to
do with survival....

"Capt. Mooron" wrote in message
news:w6LYd.23554$ZO2.23116@edtnps84...
Again you fail to grasp the basic fact that without an aggressive
attitude... you cannot be assertive. Assertiveness is merely a symptom of
an aggressive nature, as is being competitive. Aggression does not have to
involve physical violence. I believe you are unable to comprehend this
because as a female you are guided by emotion as opposed to logic.

CM

"katysails" wrote in message
...
Assertiveness works well in the competitive field of business whereas
aggressiveness will usually land you on the unemployment
lines...aggressive people generally rise fast in their professions and
then tank out early whereas the consistently assertive attain their goals
in a non-threatening manner and hold their positions or continue to
rise....

"Capt. Mooron" wrote in message
news:N_EYd.46434$fc4.26583@edtnps89...
I believe it is indeed that you do not comprehend.... or make erroneous
assumptions regarding male aggression. In the average male...
aggressiveness is controlled. To submit that a competitive nature is not
required in a modern society is illogical. Even the few women in a
position of power show an extremely heightened sense of aggressiveness
and a competitive nature. Enlightenment has nothing to do with it.

CM

"katysails" wrote in message
...
It's not that we don't comprehend..it's that we reject that as anything
other than what it is....uncontrolled testosterone...it worked for
cavemen because that's the physical reality they lived in but the idea
of man (gender, not species) as hunter/gatherer in an enlightened
society is an anachronism...


"Capt. Mooron" wrote in message
news:5huYd.20032$ZO2.7495@edtnps84...
NO! Kitty.... You are confusing aggressiveness and assertiveness....
which is understandable. I will repeat myself despite the fact I know
you are not capable of understanding the logic..... You cannot be
assertive without being aggressive.

Let's take the scenario you utilized.... you assume that aggression
requires physical intervention. It does not! Aggression between males
has a multi-tiered level.... none of which can be comprehended by
females. The level of aggressive behaviour is dependant on the
situation. This is comprehended by even the youngest of our gender.

CM



CM

"katysails" wrote in message
...
An assertive person makes their point by showing you the hole in the
ground; an aggressive person puts you in the hole in the ground.

"Capt. Mooron" wrote in message
news:gXrYd.19227$ZO2.4609@edtnps84...
You require aggressiveness to be assertive.... the very act of
asserting yourself, places others as either your equal or your
subordinate.... despite what they may have perceived. This situation
is not attained by passive compliance, nor neutral indifference.

CM


"katysails" wrote in message
...
I am assertive....not aggressive....

"Capt. Mooron" wrote in message
news:hTpYd.20694$i6.18071@edtnps90...
Aggression need not be physical....

CM

"katysails" wrote in message
...
I am not a physically aggressive person....except for the boots,
chains, spurs, etc....but that's not the same thing...

"Capt. Mooron" wrote in message
news:xghYd.40369$fc4.33395@edtnps89...
You may indeed suggest it...... but I'd sooner you take your
own advise.

CM

"katysails" wrote in message
Well, may I suggest you rise above your base animal instinct
and start using the tools that were given you to negotiate and
walk away from aggression?

























Capt. Mooron March 13th 05 01:53 AM

Oh no... they have a cedar shingled 8'x12' Chook House, windows, lights,
heat with an enclosed 12'x12' pen that has a metal roof. The lighting is on
a timer and a 6 CD player is installed. A dust vent system and exhaust fan
control air quality. The "girls" live a good life and enjoy their stay well
beyond their productive span to die of old age. Any chicken would give it's
eye teeth to stay there.

By the way... you are aware I don't live in the Arctic anymore aren't you?
You do know where Nova Scotia is don't you?

CM


"JG" wrote in message
...
Bwahahahaaa... I'm amazed your chickens don't freeze to death. Oh wait...
I forgot, they live in your house.

--
"j" ganz @@
www.sailnow.com

"Capt. Mooron" wrote in message
news:tlMYd.23932$ZO2.5515@edtnps84...
Nova Scotia????? Bwahahahahahahahaaaa!!

CM

"JG" wrote in message
...
Yeah, in the frozen tundra where no one wants to live. Might make a nice
vacation home. I think I'll stick to the warmer lats.

--
"j" ganz @@
www.sailnow.com

"Capt. Mooron" wrote in message
news:YyLYd.23822$ZO2.20783@edtnps84...

"Dave" wrote in message
...
On Sat, 12 Mar 2005 22:47:23 GMT, "Scout"
said:

But I wouldn't want to be the 25 year old newly wed trying to scrape
together 20% of $500K for a down payment.

Happens all the time. And in the Manhattan market, if they have to
scrape
together 20% of $500K for the down payment they're not gonna get to
first
base. The coop board will turn them down.

Isn't that where Bob lives???? Do you think his apartment is worth
$500K??
Man.. $500K will buy you 60 acres of oceanside and a house up this way!
$50K will buy you a 15 acre farm, with house, barns and out
buildings......

CM










katysails March 13th 05 01:53 AM

Why do you think it's a manly thing to make accusations like that? Not that
I'm defending Jon or anything...I just wonder why it seems so important to
you...


"Capt. Mooron" wrote in message
news:xwMYd.23933$ZO2.21646@edtnps84...

"JG" wrote in message
...
I disagree completely. One doesn't have to be aggressive to assert one's
rights. I believe you're unable to comprehend this because you are just
plain stupid.


Well now Gaynzy... you're neither aggressive nor assertive... you're just
an annoying, whining little homo! Your incapacity of emulating any
masculine traits is positive proof that you are a limp wristed, lisping
queer! Your tendency to effeminate behaviour has no doubt been the root
cause of the abuse you've suffered throughout life.

Now why don't you return to memorizing the Vagina Monologues and reapply
more Preparation H while awaiting your next caller....

CM





katysails March 13th 05 01:56 AM

Kind of a waste to let them live past their productive egg laying
years....they would serve a better purpose by visiting your stewpot...


"Capt. Mooron" wrote in message
news:02NYd.23935$ZO2.13939@edtnps84...
Oh no... they have a cedar shingled 8'x12' Chook House, windows, lights,
heat with an enclosed 12'x12' pen that has a metal roof. The lighting is
on a timer and a 6 CD player is installed. A dust vent system and exhaust
fan control air quality. The "girls" live a good life and enjoy their stay
well beyond their productive span to die of old age. Any chicken would
give it's eye teeth to stay there.

By the way... you are aware I don't live in the Arctic anymore aren't you?
You do know where Nova Scotia is don't you?

CM


"JG" wrote in message
...
Bwahahahaaa... I'm amazed your chickens don't freeze to death. Oh wait...
I forgot, they live in your house.

--
"j" ganz @@
www.sailnow.com

"Capt. Mooron" wrote in message
news:tlMYd.23932$ZO2.5515@edtnps84...
Nova Scotia????? Bwahahahahahahahaaaa!!

CM

"JG" wrote in message
...
Yeah, in the frozen tundra where no one wants to live. Might make a
nice vacation home. I think I'll stick to the warmer lats.

--
"j" ganz @@
www.sailnow.com

"Capt. Mooron" wrote in message
news:YyLYd.23822$ZO2.20783@edtnps84...

"Dave" wrote in message
...
On Sat, 12 Mar 2005 22:47:23 GMT, "Scout"
said:

But I wouldn't want to be the 25 year old newly wed trying to scrape
together 20% of $500K for a down payment.

Happens all the time. And in the Manhattan market, if they have to
scrape
together 20% of $500K for the down payment they're not gonna get to
first
base. The coop board will turn them down.

Isn't that where Bob lives???? Do you think his apartment is worth
$500K??
Man.. $500K will buy you 60 acres of oceanside and a house up this
way!
$50K will buy you a 15 acre farm, with house, barns and out
buildings......

CM












Capt. Mooron March 13th 05 02:17 AM


"katysails" wrote in message

Why do you think it's a manly thing to make accusations like that? Not
that I'm defending Jon or anything...I just wonder why it seems so
important to you...


Important? No Kitty.... it's merely par for the course when dealing with
Gaynzy. Slapping around of such an obviously annoying little twit isn't done
to elevate my standing.... that's already understood. I suppose I could
ignore him... but what sport is there in that?

You do understand that he brings this action upon himself of his own
volition don't you? He is free to communicate in a rational manner but
refuses to do so. If he had any senses at all he wouldn't be killfiled by so
many people.

CM



Capt. Mooron March 13th 05 02:27 AM

Assertive behaviour is motivated by aggressive stance. If you stand your
ground... you are asserting your place... the very act of that is
aggressive. The meek can never be taught assertiveness.... I don't care how
many classes you give them.... they will fold like superman on laundry day
in the face of someone with a true assertive/aggressive personality.

CM

"katysails" wrote in message
...
You're wrong....there are people that specialize in training the meek to
be assertive...these people have not got an aggressive bone in their
bodies and get walked over....with assertiveness training, they are able
to start fending for themselves...has nothing to do with aggression and
everything to do with survival....

"Capt. Mooron" wrote in message
news:w6LYd.23554$ZO2.23116@edtnps84...
Again you fail to grasp the basic fact that without an aggressive
attitude... you cannot be assertive. Assertiveness is merely a symptom of
an aggressive nature, as is being competitive. Aggression does not have
to involve physical violence. I believe you are unable to comprehend this
because as a female you are guided by emotion as opposed to logic.

CM

"katysails" wrote in message
...
Assertiveness works well in the competitive field of business whereas
aggressiveness will usually land you on the unemployment
lines...aggressive people generally rise fast in their professions and
then tank out early whereas the consistently assertive attain their
goals in a non-threatening manner and hold their positions or continue
to rise....

"Capt. Mooron" wrote in message
news:N_EYd.46434$fc4.26583@edtnps89...
I believe it is indeed that you do not comprehend.... or make erroneous
assumptions regarding male aggression. In the average male...
aggressiveness is controlled. To submit that a competitive nature is not
required in a modern society is illogical. Even the few women in a
position of power show an extremely heightened sense of aggressiveness
and a competitive nature. Enlightenment has nothing to do with it.

CM

"katysails" wrote in message
...
It's not that we don't comprehend..it's that we reject that as
anything other than what it is....uncontrolled testosterone...it
worked for cavemen because that's the physical reality they lived in
but the idea of man (gender, not species) as hunter/gatherer in an
enlightened society is an anachronism...


"Capt. Mooron" wrote in message
news:5huYd.20032$ZO2.7495@edtnps84...
NO! Kitty.... You are confusing aggressiveness and assertiveness....
which is understandable. I will repeat myself despite the fact I know
you are not capable of understanding the logic..... You cannot be
assertive without being aggressive.

Let's take the scenario you utilized.... you assume that aggression
requires physical intervention. It does not! Aggression between males
has a multi-tiered level.... none of which can be comprehended by
females. The level of aggressive behaviour is dependant on the
situation. This is comprehended by even the youngest of our gender.

CM



CM

"katysails" wrote in message
...
An assertive person makes their point by showing you the hole in the
ground; an aggressive person puts you in the hole in the ground.

"Capt. Mooron" wrote in message
news:gXrYd.19227$ZO2.4609@edtnps84...
You require aggressiveness to be assertive.... the very act of
asserting yourself, places others as either your equal or your
subordinate.... despite what they may have perceived. This
situation is not attained by passive compliance, nor neutral
indifference.

CM


"katysails" wrote in message
...
I am assertive....not aggressive....

"Capt. Mooron" wrote in message
news:hTpYd.20694$i6.18071@edtnps90...
Aggression need not be physical....

CM

"katysails" wrote in message
...
I am not a physically aggressive person....except for the boots,
chains, spurs, etc....but that's not the same thing...

"Capt. Mooron" wrote in message
news:xghYd.40369$fc4.33395@edtnps89...
You may indeed suggest it...... but I'd sooner you take your
own advise.

CM

"katysails" wrote in message
Well, may I suggest you rise above your base animal instinct
and start using the tools that were given you to negotiate and
walk away from aggression?



























Capt. Mooron March 13th 05 02:32 AM

I raise meat birds for that... old hens don't make for the best food. I lose
a few hens every year from old age and replace them with young hens. This
isn't a production farm.... I'm not in this for profit and I don't consider
it a waste to let them live out their lives.

CM

"katysails" wrote in message
...
Kind of a waste to let them live past their productive egg laying
years....they would serve a better purpose by visiting your stewpot...


"Capt. Mooron" wrote in message
news:02NYd.23935$ZO2.13939@edtnps84...
Oh no... they have a cedar shingled 8'x12' Chook House, windows, lights,
heat with an enclosed 12'x12' pen that has a metal roof. The lighting is
on a timer and a 6 CD player is installed. A dust vent system and exhaust
fan control air quality. The "girls" live a good life and enjoy their
stay well beyond their productive span to die of old age. Any chicken
would give it's eye teeth to stay there.

By the way... you are aware I don't live in the Arctic anymore aren't
you? You do know where Nova Scotia is don't you?

CM


"JG" wrote in message
...
Bwahahahaaa... I'm amazed your chickens don't freeze to death. Oh
wait... I forgot, they live in your house.

--
"j" ganz @@
www.sailnow.com

"Capt. Mooron" wrote in message
news:tlMYd.23932$ZO2.5515@edtnps84...
Nova Scotia????? Bwahahahahahahahaaaa!!

CM

"JG" wrote in message
...
Yeah, in the frozen tundra where no one wants to live. Might make a
nice vacation home. I think I'll stick to the warmer lats.

--
"j" ganz @@
www.sailnow.com

"Capt. Mooron" wrote in message
news:YyLYd.23822$ZO2.20783@edtnps84...

"Dave" wrote in message
...
On Sat, 12 Mar 2005 22:47:23 GMT, "Scout"
said:

But I wouldn't want to be the 25 year old newly wed trying to scrape
together 20% of $500K for a down payment.

Happens all the time. And in the Manhattan market, if they have to
scrape
together 20% of $500K for the down payment they're not gonna get to
first
base. The coop board will turn them down.

Isn't that where Bob lives???? Do you think his apartment is worth
$500K??
Man.. $500K will buy you 60 acres of oceanside and a house up this
way!
$50K will buy you a 15 acre farm, with house, barns and out
buildings......

CM














JG March 13th 05 05:10 AM

I'm sure you visit them regularly. Interesting that you call them your
"girls." Well, I suppose that's better than calling them your "boys," and I
doubt the roosters would put up with your advances.

Yes, I'm aware of the general location of Nova Scotia. It's still a heck of
a lot colder than sunny California... in the high 70s low 80s today. I've
been sailing all week. Bwaahahahaaaaaa....

--
"j" ganz @@
www.sailnow.com

"Capt. Mooron" wrote in message
news:02NYd.23935$ZO2.13939@edtnps84...
Oh no... they have a cedar shingled 8'x12' Chook House, windows, lights,
heat with an enclosed 12'x12' pen that has a metal roof. The lighting is
on a timer and a 6 CD player is installed. A dust vent system and exhaust
fan control air quality. The "girls" live a good life and enjoy their stay
well beyond their productive span to die of old age. Any chicken would
give it's eye teeth to stay there.

By the way... you are aware I don't live in the Arctic anymore aren't you?
You do know where Nova Scotia is don't you?

CM


"JG" wrote in message
...
Bwahahahaaa... I'm amazed your chickens don't freeze to death. Oh wait...
I forgot, they live in your house.

--
"j" ganz @@
www.sailnow.com

"Capt. Mooron" wrote in message
news:tlMYd.23932$ZO2.5515@edtnps84...
Nova Scotia????? Bwahahahahahahahaaaa!!

CM

"JG" wrote in message
...
Yeah, in the frozen tundra where no one wants to live. Might make a
nice vacation home. I think I'll stick to the warmer lats.

--
"j" ganz @@
www.sailnow.com

"Capt. Mooron" wrote in message
news:YyLYd.23822$ZO2.20783@edtnps84...

"Dave" wrote in message
...
On Sat, 12 Mar 2005 22:47:23 GMT, "Scout"
said:

But I wouldn't want to be the 25 year old newly wed trying to scrape
together 20% of $500K for a down payment.

Happens all the time. And in the Manhattan market, if they have to
scrape
together 20% of $500K for the down payment they're not gonna get to
first
base. The coop board will turn them down.

Isn't that where Bob lives???? Do you think his apartment is worth
$500K??
Man.. $500K will buy you 60 acres of oceanside and a house up this
way!
$50K will buy you a 15 acre farm, with house, barns and out
buildings......

CM












JG March 13th 05 05:11 AM

It proves something to himself. It's a bit sad actually.

--
"j" ganz @@
www.sailnow.com

"katysails" wrote in message
...
Why do you think it's a manly thing to make accusations like that? Not
that I'm defending Jon or anything...I just wonder why it seems so
important to you...


"Capt. Mooron" wrote in message
news:xwMYd.23933$ZO2.21646@edtnps84...

"JG" wrote in message
...
I disagree completely. One doesn't have to be aggressive to assert one's
rights. I believe you're unable to comprehend this because you are just
plain stupid.


Well now Gaynzy... you're neither aggressive nor assertive... you're just
an annoying, whining little homo! Your incapacity of emulating any
masculine traits is positive proof that you are a limp wristed, lisping
queer! Your tendency to effeminate behaviour has no doubt been the root
cause of the abuse you've suffered throughout life.

Now why don't you return to memorizing the Vagina Monologues and reapply
more Preparation H while awaiting your next caller....

CM







JG March 13th 05 05:12 AM

You're so totally full of **** that even the chickens are laughing. You're
an abusive drunk, who claims to be a man but isn't.

--
"j" ganz @@
www.sailnow.com

"Capt. Mooron" wrote in message
news:rpNYd.23943$ZO2.16513@edtnps84...

"katysails" wrote in message

Why do you think it's a manly thing to make accusations like that? Not
that I'm defending Jon or anything...I just wonder why it seems so
important to you...


Important? No Kitty.... it's merely par for the course when dealing with
Gaynzy. Slapping around of such an obviously annoying little twit isn't
done to elevate my standing.... that's already understood. I suppose I
could ignore him... but what sport is there in that?

You do understand that he brings this action upon himself of his own
volition don't you? He is free to communicate in a rational manner but
refuses to do so. If he had any senses at all he wouldn't be killfiled by
so many people.

CM




JG March 13th 05 05:12 AM

You're completely and totally wrong, as usual. Bwahahahaaaaaa....

--
"j" ganz @@
www.sailnow.com

"Capt. Mooron" wrote in message
news:IyNYd.23951$ZO2.4359@edtnps84...
Assertive behaviour is motivated by aggressive stance. If you stand your
ground... you are asserting your place... the very act of that is
aggressive. The meek can never be taught assertiveness.... I don't care
how many classes you give them.... they will fold like superman on laundry
day in the face of someone with a true assertive/aggressive personality.

CM

"katysails" wrote in message
...
You're wrong....there are people that specialize in training the meek to
be assertive...these people have not got an aggressive bone in their
bodies and get walked over....with assertiveness training, they are able
to start fending for themselves...has nothing to do with aggression and
everything to do with survival....

"Capt. Mooron" wrote in message
news:w6LYd.23554$ZO2.23116@edtnps84...
Again you fail to grasp the basic fact that without an aggressive
attitude... you cannot be assertive. Assertiveness is merely a symptom
of an aggressive nature, as is being competitive. Aggression does not
have to involve physical violence. I believe you are unable to
comprehend this because as a female you are guided by emotion as opposed
to logic.

CM

"katysails" wrote in message
...
Assertiveness works well in the competitive field of business whereas
aggressiveness will usually land you on the unemployment
lines...aggressive people generally rise fast in their professions and
then tank out early whereas the consistently assertive attain their
goals in a non-threatening manner and hold their positions or continue
to rise....

"Capt. Mooron" wrote in message
news:N_EYd.46434$fc4.26583@edtnps89...
I believe it is indeed that you do not comprehend.... or make erroneous
assumptions regarding male aggression. In the average male...
aggressiveness is controlled. To submit that a competitive nature is
not required in a modern society is illogical. Even the few women in a
position of power show an extremely heightened sense of aggressiveness
and a competitive nature. Enlightenment has nothing to do with it.

CM

"katysails" wrote in message
...
It's not that we don't comprehend..it's that we reject that as
anything other than what it is....uncontrolled testosterone...it
worked for cavemen because that's the physical reality they lived in
but the idea of man (gender, not species) as hunter/gatherer in an
enlightened society is an anachronism...


"Capt. Mooron" wrote in message
news:5huYd.20032$ZO2.7495@edtnps84...
NO! Kitty.... You are confusing aggressiveness and
assertiveness.... which is understandable. I will repeat myself
despite the fact I know you are not capable of understanding the
logic..... You cannot be assertive without being aggressive.

Let's take the scenario you utilized.... you assume that
aggression requires physical intervention. It does not! Aggression
between males has a multi-tiered level.... none of which can be
comprehended by females. The level of aggressive behaviour is
dependant on the situation. This is comprehended by even the
youngest of our gender.

CM



CM

"katysails" wrote in message
...
An assertive person makes their point by showing you the hole in
the ground; an aggressive person puts you in the hole in the
ground.

"Capt. Mooron" wrote in message
news:gXrYd.19227$ZO2.4609@edtnps84...
You require aggressiveness to be assertive.... the very act of
asserting yourself, places others as either your equal or your
subordinate.... despite what they may have perceived. This
situation is not attained by passive compliance, nor neutral
indifference.

CM


"katysails" wrote in message
...
I am assertive....not aggressive....

"Capt. Mooron" wrote in message
news:hTpYd.20694$i6.18071@edtnps90...
Aggression need not be physical....

CM

"katysails" wrote in message
...
I am not a physically aggressive person....except for the boots,
chains, spurs, etc....but that's not the same thing...

"Capt. Mooron" wrote in message
news:xghYd.40369$fc4.33395@edtnps89...
You may indeed suggest it...... but I'd sooner you take your
own advise.

CM

"katysails" wrote in message
Well, may I suggest you rise above your base animal instinct
and start using the tools that were given you to negotiate
and walk away from aggression?





























Capt. Mooron March 13th 05 06:07 AM


"JG" wrote in message
...
I'm sure you visit them regularly. Interesting that you call them your
"girls." Well, I suppose that's better than calling them your "boys," and
I doubt the roosters would put up with your advances.


Of course I "visit" them regularly Gaynzy... they are on the property and
require feeding/watering daily!! How totally idiotic can you possibly be
not to comprehend that? I don't call them my girls Jon... just "the
Girls"... like I call you just "a Homo"!

Yes, I'm aware of the general location of Nova Scotia. It's still a heck
of a lot colder than sunny California... in the high 70s low 80s today.
I've been sailing all week. Bwaahahahaaaaaa....


The general location???? Yeah it's colder but we don't have anywhere near
the amount of raving queers you do in California. That's a trade off I can
live with ... you friggin' homo.

CM

"Capt. Mooron" wrote in message
news:02NYd.23935$ZO2.13939@edtnps84...
Oh no... they have a cedar shingled 8'x12' Chook House, windows, lights,
heat with an enclosed 12'x12' pen that has a metal roof. The lighting is
on a timer and a 6 CD player is installed. A dust vent system and exhaust
fan control air quality. The "girls" live a good life and enjoy their
stay well beyond their productive span to die of old age. Any chicken
would give it's eye teeth to stay there.

By the way... you are aware I don't live in the Arctic anymore aren't
you? You do know where Nova Scotia is don't you?

CM


"JG" wrote in message
...
Bwahahahaaa... I'm amazed your chickens don't freeze to death. Oh
wait... I forgot, they live in your house.

--
"j" ganz @@
www.sailnow.com

"Capt. Mooron" wrote in message
news:tlMYd.23932$ZO2.5515@edtnps84...
Nova Scotia????? Bwahahahahahahahaaaa!!

CM

"JG" wrote in message
...
Yeah, in the frozen tundra where no one wants to live. Might make a
nice vacation home. I think I'll stick to the warmer lats.

--
"j" ganz @@
www.sailnow.com

"Capt. Mooron" wrote in message
news:YyLYd.23822$ZO2.20783@edtnps84...

"Dave" wrote in message
...
On Sat, 12 Mar 2005 22:47:23 GMT, "Scout"
said:

But I wouldn't want to be the 25 year old newly wed trying to scrape
together 20% of $500K for a down payment.

Happens all the time. And in the Manhattan market, if they have to
scrape
together 20% of $500K for the down payment they're not gonna get to
first
base. The coop board will turn them down.

Isn't that where Bob lives???? Do you think his apartment is worth
$500K??
Man.. $500K will buy you 60 acres of oceanside and a house up this
way!
$50K will buy you a 15 acre farm, with house, barns and out
buildings......

CM














Capt. Mooron March 13th 05 06:10 AM

You are such a gay little foreskin wrangler Gaynzy!

CM

"JG" wrote in message
...
You're so totally full of **** that even the chickens are laughing. You're
an abusive drunk, who claims to be a man but isn't.

--
"j" ganz @@
www.sailnow.com

"Capt. Mooron" wrote in message
news:rpNYd.23943$ZO2.16513@edtnps84...

"katysails" wrote in message

Why do you think it's a manly thing to make accusations like that? Not
that I'm defending Jon or anything...I just wonder why it seems so
important to you...


Important? No Kitty.... it's merely par for the course when dealing
with Gaynzy. Slapping around of such an obviously annoying little twit
isn't done to elevate my standing.... that's already understood. I
suppose I could ignore him... but what sport is there in that?

You do understand that he brings this action upon himself of his own
volition don't you? He is free to communicate in a rational manner but
refuses to do so. If he had any senses at all he wouldn't be killfiled by
so many people.

CM






Capt. Mooron March 13th 05 06:13 AM

DUH!!!.... it proves you're a limp wristed little faggot!!!

You fudge packin' little homo!

CM


"JG" wrote in message
...
It proves something to himself. It's a bit sad actually.

--
"j" ganz @@
www.sailnow.com

"katysails" wrote in message
...
Why do you think it's a manly thing to make accusations like that? Not
that I'm defending Jon or anything...I just wonder why it seems so
important to you...


"Capt. Mooron" wrote in message
news:xwMYd.23933$ZO2.21646@edtnps84...

"JG" wrote in message
...
I disagree completely. One doesn't have to be aggressive to assert one's
rights. I believe you're unable to comprehend this because you are just
plain stupid.

Well now Gaynzy... you're neither aggressive nor assertive... you're
just an annoying, whining little homo! Your incapacity of emulating any
masculine traits is positive proof that you are a limp wristed, lisping
queer! Your tendency to effeminate behaviour has no doubt been the root
cause of the abuse you've suffered throughout life.

Now why don't you return to memorizing the Vagina Monologues and reapply
more Preparation H while awaiting your next caller....

CM









Capt. Mooron March 13th 05 06:14 AM

Gaynzy thinks he's being assertive when he's takin' it up the ass!

You little homo!

CM

"JG" wrote in message
...
You're completely and totally wrong, as usual. Bwahahahaaaaaa....

--
"j" ganz @@
www.sailnow.com

"Capt. Mooron" wrote in message
news:IyNYd.23951$ZO2.4359@edtnps84...
Assertive behaviour is motivated by aggressive stance. If you stand your
ground... you are asserting your place... the very act of that is
aggressive. The meek can never be taught assertiveness.... I don't care
how many classes you give them.... they will fold like superman on
laundry day in the face of someone with a true assertive/aggressive
personality.

CM

"katysails" wrote in message
...
You're wrong....there are people that specialize in training the meek to
be assertive...these people have not got an aggressive bone in their
bodies and get walked over....with assertiveness training, they are able
to start fending for themselves...has nothing to do with aggression and
everything to do with survival....

"Capt. Mooron" wrote in message
news:w6LYd.23554$ZO2.23116@edtnps84...
Again you fail to grasp the basic fact that without an aggressive
attitude... you cannot be assertive. Assertiveness is merely a symptom
of an aggressive nature, as is being competitive. Aggression does not
have to involve physical violence. I believe you are unable to
comprehend this because as a female you are guided by emotion as
opposed to logic.

CM

"katysails" wrote in message
...
Assertiveness works well in the competitive field of business whereas
aggressiveness will usually land you on the unemployment
lines...aggressive people generally rise fast in their professions and
then tank out early whereas the consistently assertive attain their
goals in a non-threatening manner and hold their positions or continue
to rise....

"Capt. Mooron" wrote in message
news:N_EYd.46434$fc4.26583@edtnps89...
I believe it is indeed that you do not comprehend.... or make
erroneous assumptions regarding male aggression. In the average
male... aggressiveness is controlled. To submit that a competitive
nature is not required in a modern society is illogical. Even the few
women in a position of power show an extremely heightened sense of
aggressiveness and a competitive nature. Enlightenment has nothing to
do with it.

CM

"katysails" wrote in message
...
It's not that we don't comprehend..it's that we reject that as
anything other than what it is....uncontrolled testosterone...it
worked for cavemen because that's the physical reality they lived in
but the idea of man (gender, not species) as hunter/gatherer in an
enlightened society is an anachronism...


"Capt. Mooron" wrote in message
news:5huYd.20032$ZO2.7495@edtnps84...
NO! Kitty.... You are confusing aggressiveness and
assertiveness.... which is understandable. I will repeat myself
despite the fact I know you are not capable of understanding the
logic..... You cannot be assertive without being aggressive.

Let's take the scenario you utilized.... you assume that
aggression requires physical intervention. It does not! Aggression
between males has a multi-tiered level.... none of which can be
comprehended by females. The level of aggressive behaviour is
dependant on the situation. This is comprehended by even the
youngest of our gender.

CM



CM

"katysails" wrote in message
...
An assertive person makes their point by showing you the hole in
the ground; an aggressive person puts you in the hole in the
ground.

"Capt. Mooron" wrote in message
news:gXrYd.19227$ZO2.4609@edtnps84...
You require aggressiveness to be assertive.... the very act of
asserting yourself, places others as either your equal or your
subordinate.... despite what they may have perceived. This
situation is not attained by passive compliance, nor neutral
indifference.

CM


"katysails" wrote in message
...
I am assertive....not aggressive....

"Capt. Mooron" wrote in message
news:hTpYd.20694$i6.18071@edtnps90...
Aggression need not be physical....

CM

"katysails" wrote in message
...
I am not a physically aggressive person....except for the
boots, chains, spurs, etc....but that's not the same thing...

"Capt. Mooron" wrote in message
news:xghYd.40369$fc4.33395@edtnps89...
You may indeed suggest it...... but I'd sooner you take your
own advise.

CM

"katysails" wrote in message
Well, may I suggest you rise above your base animal instinct
and start using the tools that were given you to negotiate
and walk away from aggression?































Scout March 13th 05 09:28 AM

non-union construction workers. ; o)
close inspection showed the 4 year old place was falling apart!
Scout

"Scott Vernon" wrote in message
...

"Scout" wrote in message
...
I know, but I made three trips with the trailer today (moving) and

I'm punch
drunk.


the 'big' trailer? Man, I hate moving. I had 4 traier loads last time
we moved, It's probably up to 8 now.


We haven't found a house yet, but ours sold in 13 days so we have to

get
out. We taking a townhouse with a 3 month lease until we can find a

suitable
place.


Bummer. What happened to the Coventry house? We moved into our new
house before the old one was sold, had double mortgage payments for a
few months.

Scotty





Scout March 13th 05 09:31 AM

Well you're right about that!
One's position just depends on what side one's bread is buttered. And you're
also right that both the employer and the union can screw each other and the
workers; it's a delicate balance of power.
Scout

"Capt. Mooron" wrote in message
news:sYKYd.23522$ZO2.7026@edtnps84...
I've been a member of several unions during my employment history.
I afford them as much trust as I do my employer.... little if any.
To rise to the defence of any soulless entity... be it union , employer or
government is pointless. Align yourself with whatever profits you... for
as long as it does so.

A case in point would be the Giant Mine strike in Yellowknife..... where
the personal prejudices of both union boss and employer destroyed the
lives of many.
The union members were left to hang due to the petty squabbles of a few
and the indifference of the government and law enforcement.

CM



"Scout" wrote in message
...
CM,
I don't know what your experience is with unions. But I do know what I've
been through, and my father, and his father. Your points are made
eloquently, but do not mesh with what I know to be truth. Perhaps things
are different in Canada, or in Philadelphia.
Scout

"Capt. Mooron" wrote in message
news:YpFYd.46457$fc4.9578@edtnps89...

"Scout" wrote in message

Very good. And because they had that day, hired goons no longer show up
and split your head open with a baseball bat for wanting a fair share
of the profits of a company's efforts. Had you seen that, you might be
glad to have a brother close by. These heavy handed "negotiations" made
bar room fights look like a day at the beach.

Not really a viable example Scout... since there are many things in
society that are no longer condoned and that had nothing to do with
union activity.


It's all very well and good to espouse a philosophy that worked in the
day of the agrarian citizen, but the sheer number of people in the
modern workforce demands different rules. Hobbes would have agreed with
me. People are inherently greedy; generally speaking they are pricks.
ASA provides all the evidence one needs to believe that is true.
Government and big business are one and the same, and together they are
still the Leviathan. Mutually beneficial contracts are needed today
more than ever. God bless a nation where a guy like Scotty can make the
offer of "take it or shove it." He can do so only because others have
paid the cost, and continue to pay the price, for that privilege.

Our ancestors have collectively paid the price to have us achieve our
current freedoms and society... this in no way suggests that methods
acceptable even 50 years ago are legitimate today. Your statement on
the general tendencies of people seem to illustrate a rather negative
view of society in general. I do not find the people posting to ASA as
pricks at all.... [Except for Gaynzy who is an annoying little
homo].... their posturing and statements are a fine tool with which to
hone my abilities to defend a position. Considering the anonymity
provided by this medium... it's a wonder the verbal engagements are not
far worse. In effect we self police.

In regards to Scotty's ability to establish his rate of pay... this has
been available for as long as we have existed and is not the result of
union activity. If you provide a service or commodity that is superior
to others in the same field.... you have the right to charge what the
consumer will bear.

CM








Scout March 13th 05 09:33 AM

We did, they also happened to be lawyers.
Scout

"Scott Vernon" wrote in message
...
Why didn't you send over a couple of union thugs to break his legs?

Scotty


"Scout" wrote in message
...
Yep, but notice that I carefully couched my reference to "fools in

debt."
There are always legitimate cases where honest people have fallen on

hard
times and it is in the best interest of the rest of us to help them

regain
their balance.
There are others, of course, like the big casino mahof, who hired my

company
to do his mechanical construction and then claimed (planned)

bankruptcy. He
offered us 10 cents on the dollar. As you can see, he is no where

near
bankrupt and planned to let the contractors pay for his casino. We

said no,
beat him in court, and got all of our money.
Scout


"JG" wrote in message
...
I agree, but a very large number are in that situation because of

family
problems, such as illness or death of a spouse or child/parent.

Most are
not cheating the system.

--
"j" ganz @@
www.sailnow.com

"Scout" wrote in message
...
No they don't. What they do is offer the card at a lower rate and

then
let it crawl like ivy up a wall.
And by the way, I'm all for making bankruptcy more difficult for

fools in
debt. Why should we all pay for their lack of discipline.

Wouldn't Neal
be surprised.
Scout

"Scott Vernon" wrote in message
...

"Scout" wrote ...
What it means is that people who can scrape together two
nickels to save will get 1.5% interest while credit card

companies
rape
people for 20% (check out Citi-Bank's earnings and policies).

Rape? Anybody that uses a CC deserves what they get charged.

it's not
like they hide the int. rates.

Scotty















Scout March 13th 05 09:35 AM

I wouldn't know about Manhattan; I can't think of one newlywed couple
dreaming of living there.
btw - did you read the article I linked in reply to your link?
Scout

"Dave" wrote in message
...
On Sat, 12 Mar 2005 22:47:23 GMT, "Scout" said:

But I wouldn't want to be the 25 year old newly wed trying to scrape
together 20% of $500K for a down payment.


Happens all the time. And in the Manhattan market, if they have to scrape
together 20% of $500K for the down payment they're not gonna get to first
base. The coop board will turn them down.




Horvath March 13th 05 12:58 PM

On Sat, 12 Mar 2005 12:24:16 -0800, "JG" wrote
this crap:

Cheating implies some nefarious act.



Your boyfriend cheats on you?





Pathetic Earthlings! No one can save you now!

katysails March 13th 05 01:51 PM

Annoyances, in my opinion, are best left ignored...if you pay attention to
peetty annoyances, they do become important to you for whatever reason and
take time away from things that would be more worthwhile...

"Capt. Mooron" wrote in message
news:rpNYd.23943$ZO2.16513@edtnps84...

"katysails" wrote in message

Why do you think it's a manly thing to make accusations like that? Not
that I'm defending Jon or anything...I just wonder why it seems so
important to you...


Important? No Kitty.... it's merely par for the course when dealing with
Gaynzy. Slapping around of such an obviously annoying little twit isn't
done to elevate my standing.... that's already understood. I suppose I
could ignore him... but what sport is there in that?

You do understand that he brings this action upon himself of his own
volition don't you? He is free to communicate in a rational manner but
refuses to do so. If he had any senses at all he wouldn't be killfiled by
so many people.

CM




katysails March 13th 05 01:53 PM

Well, you're wrong again...I'm not interested in doing all the Google
searches for the studies, but they're there...assertiveness can be taught
and used effectively, without aggression....you probably just don't
recognize it because the testosterone stands in the way...

"Capt. Mooron" wrote in message
news:IyNYd.23951$ZO2.4359@edtnps84...
Assertive behaviour is motivated by aggressive stance. If you stand your
ground... you are asserting your place... the very act of that is
aggressive. The meek can never be taught assertiveness.... I don't care
how many classes you give them.... they will fold like superman on laundry
day in the face of someone with a true assertive/aggressive personality.

CM

"katysails" wrote in message
...
You're wrong....there are people that specialize in training the meek to
be assertive...these people have not got an aggressive bone in their
bodies and get walked over....with assertiveness training, they are able
to start fending for themselves...has nothing to do with aggression and
everything to do with survival....

"Capt. Mooron" wrote in message
news:w6LYd.23554$ZO2.23116@edtnps84...
Again you fail to grasp the basic fact that without an aggressive
attitude... you cannot be assertive. Assertiveness is merely a symptom
of an aggressive nature, as is being competitive. Aggression does not
have to involve physical violence. I believe you are unable to
comprehend this because as a female you are guided by emotion as opposed
to logic.

CM

"katysails" wrote in message
...
Assertiveness works well in the competitive field of business whereas
aggressiveness will usually land you on the unemployment
lines...aggressive people generally rise fast in their professions and
then tank out early whereas the consistently assertive attain their
goals in a non-threatening manner and hold their positions or continue
to rise....

"Capt. Mooron" wrote in message
news:N_EYd.46434$fc4.26583@edtnps89...
I believe it is indeed that you do not comprehend.... or make erroneous
assumptions regarding male aggression. In the average male...
aggressiveness is controlled. To submit that a competitive nature is
not required in a modern society is illogical. Even the few women in a
position of power show an extremely heightened sense of aggressiveness
and a competitive nature. Enlightenment has nothing to do with it.

CM

"katysails" wrote in message
...
It's not that we don't comprehend..it's that we reject that as
anything other than what it is....uncontrolled testosterone...it
worked for cavemen because that's the physical reality they lived in
but the idea of man (gender, not species) as hunter/gatherer in an
enlightened society is an anachronism...


"Capt. Mooron" wrote in message
news:5huYd.20032$ZO2.7495@edtnps84...
NO! Kitty.... You are confusing aggressiveness and
assertiveness.... which is understandable. I will repeat myself
despite the fact I know you are not capable of understanding the
logic..... You cannot be assertive without being aggressive.

Let's take the scenario you utilized.... you assume that
aggression requires physical intervention. It does not! Aggression
between males has a multi-tiered level.... none of which can be
comprehended by females. The level of aggressive behaviour is
dependant on the situation. This is comprehended by even the
youngest of our gender.

CM



CM

"katysails" wrote in message
...
An assertive person makes their point by showing you the hole in
the ground; an aggressive person puts you in the hole in the
ground.

"Capt. Mooron" wrote in message
news:gXrYd.19227$ZO2.4609@edtnps84...
You require aggressiveness to be assertive.... the very act of
asserting yourself, places others as either your equal or your
subordinate.... despite what they may have perceived. This
situation is not attained by passive compliance, nor neutral
indifference.

CM


"katysails" wrote in message
...
I am assertive....not aggressive....

"Capt. Mooron" wrote in message
news:hTpYd.20694$i6.18071@edtnps90...
Aggression need not be physical....

CM

"katysails" wrote in message
...
I am not a physically aggressive person....except for the boots,
chains, spurs, etc....but that's not the same thing...

"Capt. Mooron" wrote in message
news:xghYd.40369$fc4.33395@edtnps89...
You may indeed suggest it...... but I'd sooner you take your
own advise.

CM

"katysails" wrote in message
Well, may I suggest you rise above your base animal instinct
and start using the tools that were given you to negotiate
and walk away from aggression?





























Bob Crantz March 13th 05 02:44 PM


wrote in message
...
When will Bush be making his "State of the Confederation" speech?


The Articles of Confederation

Agreed to by Congress November 15, 1777; ratified and in force, March 1,
1781.
Preamble

To all to whom these Presents shall come, we the undersigned Delegates of
the States affixed to our Names send greeting.

Articles of Confederation and perpetual Union between the States of New
Hampshire, Massachusetts bay, Rhode Island and Providence Plantations,
Connecticut, New York, New Jersey, Pennsylvania, Delaware, Maryland,
Virginia, North Carolina, South Carolina and Georgia.

Article I. The Stile of this Confederacy shall be "The United States of
America."

Article II. Each state retains its sovereignty, freedom, and independence,
and every power, jurisdiction, and right, which is not by this Confederation
expressly delegated to the United States, in Congress assembled.

Article III. The said States hereby severally enter into a firm league of
friendship with each other, for their common defense, the security of their
liberties, and their mutual and general welfare, binding themselves to
assist each other, against all force offered to, or attacks made upon them,
or any of them, on account of religion, sovereignty, trade, or any other
pretense whatever.

Article IV. The better to secure and perpetuate mutual friendship and
intercourse among the people of the different States in this Union, the free
inhabitants of each of these States, paupers, vagabonds, and fugitives from
justice excepted, shall be entitled to all privileges and immunities of free
citizens in the several States; and the people of each State shall free
ingress and regress to and from any other State, and shall enjoy therein all
the privileges of trade and commerce, subject to the same duties,
impositions, and restrictions as the inhabitants thereof respectively,
provided that such restrictions shall not extend so far as to prevent the
removal of property imported into any State, to any other State, of which
the owner is an inhabitant; provided also that no imposition, duties or
restriction shall be laid by any State, on the property of the United
States, or either of them.

If any person guilty of, or charged with, treason, felony, or other high
misdemeanor in any State, shall flee from justice, and be found in any of
the United States, he shall, upon demand of the Governor or executive power
of the State from which he fled, be delivered up and removed to the State
having jurisdiction of his offense.

Full faith and credit shall be given in each of these States to the records,
acts, and judicial proceedings of the courts and magistrates of every



Capt. Mooron March 13th 05 02:59 PM

If I was concerned in regards to having time taken away from more important
matters.... I would probably not be posting here in the first place.
Generally I find myself posting to the group during movie commercials,
breaks while engaged in other computer work, waiting for the next level of
UT2K4 to load up... unless there is an interesting thread or a viable,
challenging opponent to engage. I only subscribe to ASA... since it offers a
much better standard of rhetoric and wit. Let's face it... most of the
regulars here, have covered in debt almost every topic on sailing...
repeatedly

Gaynz provides opportunity to test the amount of verbal abuse that can be
tolerated by an individual on usegroups. I understand that this is of no
interest to some of the other posters here... but a filter which deletes any
post containing the word "Gaynz" or "Gaynzy" will clear that up since I will
always include those words in my replies to Jon's posts.

To date I have found that Jax endured the most abuse until he finally
snapped and was forced to take a break. Gaynz is not far behind Jax.... and
far less literate.... which isn't saying much.

CM


"katysails" wrote in message
...
Annoyances, in my opinion, are best left ignored...if you pay attention to
peetty annoyances, they do become important to you for whatever reason and
take time away from things that would be more worthwhile...

"Capt. Mooron" wrote in message
news:rpNYd.23943$ZO2.16513@edtnps84...

"katysails" wrote in message

Why do you think it's a manly thing to make accusations like that? Not
that I'm defending Jon or anything...I just wonder why it seems so
important to you...


Important? No Kitty.... it's merely par for the course when dealing
with Gaynzy. Slapping around of such an obviously annoying little twit
isn't done to elevate my standing.... that's already understood. I
suppose I could ignore him... but what sport is there in that?

You do understand that he brings this action upon himself of his own
volition don't you? He is free to communicate in a rational manner but
refuses to do so. If he had any senses at all he wouldn't be killfiled by
so many people.

CM






Capt. Mooron March 13th 05 03:15 PM

Absolutely inaccurate assessment on your part Kitty. You seem to assume
aggressiveness as truculent behaviour.... that is misleading. To assert is
to take a stance.... that alone requires you assume an aggressive posture.

The very action of being assertive requires that you are capable of
delineating how you will be treated or engaged. You are making a demand of
others.... that requires an aggressive posture.... unless you are making a
plea... which isn't assertive.

CM



"katysails" wrote in message
...
Well, you're wrong again...I'm not interested in doing all the Google
searches for the studies, but they're there...assertiveness can be taught
and used effectively, without aggression....you probably just don't
recognize it because the testosterone stands in the way...

"Capt. Mooron" wrote in message
news:IyNYd.23951$ZO2.4359@edtnps84...
Assertive behaviour is motivated by aggressive stance. If you stand your
ground... you are asserting your place... the very act of that is
aggressive. The meek can never be taught assertiveness.... I don't care
how many classes you give them.... they will fold like superman on
laundry day in the face of someone with a true assertive/aggressive
personality.

CM

"katysails" wrote in message
...
You're wrong....there are people that specialize in training the meek to
be assertive...these people have not got an aggressive bone in their
bodies and get walked over....with assertiveness training, they are able
to start fending for themselves...has nothing to do with aggression and
everything to do with survival....

"Capt. Mooron" wrote in message
news:w6LYd.23554$ZO2.23116@edtnps84...
Again you fail to grasp the basic fact that without an aggressive
attitude... you cannot be assertive. Assertiveness is merely a symptom
of an aggressive nature, as is being competitive. Aggression does not
have to involve physical violence. I believe you are unable to
comprehend this because as a female you are guided by emotion as
opposed to logic.

CM

"katysails" wrote in message
...
Assertiveness works well in the competitive field of business whereas
aggressiveness will usually land you on the unemployment
lines...aggressive people generally rise fast in their professions and
then tank out early whereas the consistently assertive attain their
goals in a non-threatening manner and hold their positions or continue
to rise....

"Capt. Mooron" wrote in message
news:N_EYd.46434$fc4.26583@edtnps89...
I believe it is indeed that you do not comprehend.... or make
erroneous assumptions regarding male aggression. In the average
male... aggressiveness is controlled. To submit that a competitive
nature is not required in a modern society is illogical. Even the few
women in a position of power show an extremely heightened sense of
aggressiveness and a competitive nature. Enlightenment has nothing to
do with it.

CM

"katysails" wrote in message
...
It's not that we don't comprehend..it's that we reject that as
anything other than what it is....uncontrolled testosterone...it
worked for cavemen because that's the physical reality they lived in
but the idea of man (gender, not species) as hunter/gatherer in an
enlightened society is an anachronism...


"Capt. Mooron" wrote in message
news:5huYd.20032$ZO2.7495@edtnps84...
NO! Kitty.... You are confusing aggressiveness and
assertiveness.... which is understandable. I will repeat myself
despite the fact I know you are not capable of understanding the
logic..... You cannot be assertive without being aggressive.

Let's take the scenario you utilized.... you assume that
aggression requires physical intervention. It does not! Aggression
between males has a multi-tiered level.... none of which can be
comprehended by females. The level of aggressive behaviour is
dependant on the situation. This is comprehended by even the
youngest of our gender.

CM



CM

"katysails" wrote in message
...
An assertive person makes their point by showing you the hole in
the ground; an aggressive person puts you in the hole in the
ground.

"Capt. Mooron" wrote in message
news:gXrYd.19227$ZO2.4609@edtnps84...
You require aggressiveness to be assertive.... the very act of
asserting yourself, places others as either your equal or your
subordinate.... despite what they may have perceived. This
situation is not attained by passive compliance, nor neutral
indifference.

CM


"katysails" wrote in message
...
I am assertive....not aggressive....

"Capt. Mooron" wrote in message
news:hTpYd.20694$i6.18071@edtnps90...
Aggression need not be physical....

CM

"katysails" wrote in message
...
I am not a physically aggressive person....except for the
boots, chains, spurs, etc....but that's not the same thing...

"Capt. Mooron" wrote in message
news:xghYd.40369$fc4.33395@edtnps89...
You may indeed suggest it...... but I'd sooner you take your
own advise.

CM

"katysails" wrote in message
Well, may I suggest you rise above your base animal instinct
and start using the tools that were given you to negotiate
and walk away from aggression?































Maxprop March 13th 05 04:38 PM


"katysails" wrote in message

Annoyances, in my opinion, are best left ignored...if you pay attention to
peetty annoyances, they do become important to you for whatever reason and
take time away from things that would be more worthwhile...


Amen to that. I filtered Ganz a while back and can't begin to express how
different and how pleasant this NG is now. Ganz is one of those spoiled
malcontents with juvenile behavior that seem to be able to make NGs a PITA.
I only wish it were as easy to make undesirables disappear in real life.
g

Max



Maxprop March 13th 05 04:39 PM


"katysails" wrote in message

Well, you're wrong again...I'm not interested in doing all the Google
searches for the studies, but they're there...assertiveness can be taught
and used effectively, without aggression....you probably just don't
recognize it because the testosterone stands in the way...


Cut him some slack, Katy. It's the rum talkin'.

Max



Capt. Mooron March 13th 05 06:00 PM


"Maxprop" wrote in message
nk.net...

"katysails" wrote in message

Well, you're wrong again...I'm not interested in doing all the Google
searches for the studies, but they're there...assertiveness can be taught
and used effectively, without aggression....you probably just don't
recognize it because the testosterone stands in the way...


Cut him some slack, Katy. It's the rum talkin'.


In vino veritas.....

CM



JG March 13th 05 07:09 PM

Yep, I'm sure you "visit" them regularly. Fortunately for you, the roosters
aren't too smart.

--
"j" ganz @@
www.sailnow.com

"Capt. Mooron" wrote in message
news:wMQYd.22691$i6.4181@edtnps90...

"JG" wrote in message
...
I'm sure you visit them regularly. Interesting that you call them your
"girls." Well, I suppose that's better than calling them your "boys," and
I doubt the roosters would put up with your advances.


Of course I "visit" them regularly Gaynzy... they are on the property and
require feeding/watering daily!! How totally idiotic can you possibly be
not to comprehend that? I don't call them my girls Jon... just "the
Girls"... like I call you just "a Homo"!

Yes, I'm aware of the general location of Nova Scotia. It's still a heck
of a lot colder than sunny California... in the high 70s low 80s today.
I've been sailing all week. Bwaahahahaaaaaa....


The general location???? Yeah it's colder but we don't have anywhere
near the amount of raving queers you do in California. That's a trade off
I can live with ... you friggin' homo.

CM

"Capt. Mooron" wrote in message
news:02NYd.23935$ZO2.13939@edtnps84...
Oh no... they have a cedar shingled 8'x12' Chook House, windows, lights,
heat with an enclosed 12'x12' pen that has a metal roof. The lighting is
on a timer and a 6 CD player is installed. A dust vent system and
exhaust fan control air quality. The "girls" live a good life and enjoy
their stay well beyond their productive span to die of old age. Any
chicken would give it's eye teeth to stay there.

By the way... you are aware I don't live in the Arctic anymore aren't
you? You do know where Nova Scotia is don't you?

CM


"JG" wrote in message
...
Bwahahahaaa... I'm amazed your chickens don't freeze to death. Oh
wait... I forgot, they live in your house.

--
"j" ganz @@
www.sailnow.com

"Capt. Mooron" wrote in message
news:tlMYd.23932$ZO2.5515@edtnps84...
Nova Scotia????? Bwahahahahahahahaaaa!!

CM

"JG" wrote in message
...
Yeah, in the frozen tundra where no one wants to live. Might make a
nice vacation home. I think I'll stick to the warmer lats.

--
"j" ganz @@
www.sailnow.com

"Capt. Mooron" wrote in message
news:YyLYd.23822$ZO2.20783@edtnps84...

"Dave" wrote in message
...
On Sat, 12 Mar 2005 22:47:23 GMT, "Scout"
said:

But I wouldn't want to be the 25 year old newly wed trying to
scrape
together 20% of $500K for a down payment.

Happens all the time. And in the Manhattan market, if they have to
scrape
together 20% of $500K for the down payment they're not gonna get to
first
base. The coop board will turn them down.

Isn't that where Bob lives???? Do you think his apartment is worth
$500K??
Man.. $500K will buy you 60 acres of oceanside and a house up this
way!
$50K will buy you a 15 acre farm, with house, barns and out
buildings......

CM

















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