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"Frogwatch" wrote in news:1164000104.521584.101920
@e3g2000cwe.googlegroups.com: I probably should go make amends. No problem. The mall diamond stores open at 9AM, right on time.... Larry -- Halloween candy sure has dropped in price, lately! |
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As I read your original post, I was thinking "What a jerk this guy is.
It's a wonder he's still married." But I gotta admit, I really enjoyed reading it. |
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"KLC Lewis" wrote in message
... wrote in message oups.com... Don White wrote: wrote: snip.. They tow us to the dock and I go to pay. By this time I was seriously happy to be off the boat with my wife so even *the astonishing cost of $480* didn't faze me much. It was $10/ft for the ungrounding (28' sailboat) and then $165 minimum and a couple other fees. snip... Whoo hoo! Around here the Coast Guard...or some friendly boater will always come to the rescue...for free. Re-thinking this, I regret posting it. It has me blaming my wife for my predicament when I had nobody but myslf to blame. If I had displayed much more confidence and a fun atitude I could probably have talked my wife into enjoying the overnight grounding. Unfortunately, I consider sailing to be an excercise in problem solving so I do not sail for the same reasons she does. I DID invite her. I apologize. David OHara David, I like your second post much better, but can you think of any other things you should have done differently? You should have just had your wife taxied to shore. She's wasn't wrong by not wanting unplanned adventure, but you weren't wrong in wanting to handle the problem without dropping half a grand. If she doesn't mind time away, I'd suggest you do your sailing alone or with people who understand that challenge is part of the deal. Scout |
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wrote: Don White wrote: wrote: snip.. They tow us to the dock and I go to pay. By this time I was seriously happy to be off the boat with my wife so even *the astonishing cost of $480* didn't faze me much. It was $10/ft for the ungrounding (28' sailboat) and then $165 minimum and a couple other fees. snip... Whoo hoo! Around here the Coast Guard...or some friendly boater will always come to the rescue...for free. Re-thinking this, I regret posting it. It has me blaming my wife for my predicament when I had nobody but myslf to blame. If I had displayed much more confidence and a fun atitude I could probably have talked my wife into enjoying the overnight grounding. Unfortunately, I consider sailing to be an excercise in problem solving so I do not sail for the same reasons she does. I DID invite her. I apologize. David OHara Good re-thinking David. First off, your engine problem was your fault, second, you ran aground. 3rd, you should have jumped in and swam out with the anchor, dove down and planted it deep so you could kedge yourself off. 4th at the time you ran aground the tide was changing and you would have been free in an hour or two, you could have given your daughter a fishing pole and headed below with your wife to pass the time. 5th you are right, getting fustrated at the wife for messing up the tacks was un called for, I'd kept sailing in circles all night until she got it right, laughing and slamming down a shot of jeagermiester every time she got it wrong, Remeber the only difference for adversity and adventure is attitude. Joe |
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"KLC Lewis" wrote in message ... I like your second post much better, but can you think of any other things you should have done differently? When he wrote about throwing the anchor, I thought he was going to try to kedge off. SBV |
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"katy" wrote in message ... wrote: Don White wrote: David OHara I'm really glad you posted this and htat I read it before ripping you a new one that would have been the size of the GrandCanyon... When I was younger, I blamed everything on my wife, too. But now I'm more mature, or is it 'trained'. Scotty |
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"Scotty" wrote in message news "KLC Lewis" wrote in message ... I like your second post much better, but can you think of any other things you should have done differently? When he wrote about throwing the anchor, I thought he was going to try to kedge off. SBV It's kinda funny, but no one has mentioned what started all of this: the engine. If one relies upon their engine to be able to get back home or to get out of trouble, having it "slowly stop running" should be a matter of concern. I believe that the first order of business shouldn't have been continuing the sail, but in finding out why the engine died, and fixing it. |
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"Scotty" wrote in message ... "KLC Lewis" wrote in message et... It's kinda funny, but no one has mentioned what started all of this: the engine. If one relies upon their engine to be able to get back home or to get out of trouble, having it "slowly stop running" should be a matter of concern. I believe that the first order of business shouldn't have been continuing the sail, but in finding out why the engine died, and fixing it. He did mention the fuel pump. I believe his wife failed to replace it the night before, even though she knew it was going to die the next day. Scotty Oops. My bad. |
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"KLC Lewis" wrote in message et... "Scotty" wrote in message news "KLC Lewis" wrote in message ... I like your second post much better, but can you think of any other things you should have done differently? When he wrote about throwing the anchor, I thought he was going to try to kedge off. SBV It's kinda funny, but no one has mentioned what started all of this: the engine. If one relies upon their engine to be able to get back home or to get out of trouble, having it "slowly stop running" should be a matter of concern. I believe that the first order of business shouldn't have been continuing the sail, but in finding out why the engine died, and fixing it. He did mention the fuel pump. I believe his wife failed to replace it the night before, even though she knew it was going to die the next day. Scotty |
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