"DSK" wrote in message
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katysails wrote:
Doug,
In order for your first point to succeed, you ahve to have your second
point in place for development of conscience.

I disagree.

I knew you would...


... When young children are being raised, it is necessary that there be
consequences for actions...good and bad.

Agreed. But that can be reduced to simple behaviorism... mechanistically
reinforcing children to act in ways that are "good."

And what is it that determines what is "good" vs what is "bad"? Behaviorism
can be used to direct any type of behavior pattern to the will of the
director if applied correctly...developing conscience adds the element of
appropriateness according to a set of moral or ethical values...


This is not the same thing as having (and following) a rational moral &
ethical code.

In order to follow a rational moral or ethical code one must be
directed...one must have a formed consciounce...fear of comnsequence is the
most advantageous way to learn that...


... Consequences can be equivocated to punishment at times if the
infraction is grave. Fear of negative consequence is a healthy thing.
It keeps us from becoming sociopathic.

The problem with this viewpoint is that it erases the difference between a
sociopath who is restrained by fear of punishment, and a person who has no
tendency towards sociopathy.

A sociopath restrained by fear is still restrained..which is a good
thing...a sociopath is typically amoral...there is only what is good or bad
for him...a person who is not sociopathic will sift through and determine
what is correct and what is incorrect behavior..fear is a great element in
that development...a child being told that he will be burned if he plays
with the stove usually won't stop playing with the stive until he is
burned...the fear of being burned again assists with his then making a
better choice in the future...

This sort of thinking is like those cops who believe that there's no such
thing as an honest citizen. Do you believe this is right & good?!? I find
it hard to believe that you do...

I believe that people learn to be bad or good and if not presented with the
right choices and the right consequences, that they will choose bad. In the
long run, it is far easier to be a bad person because the self-gratification
is so great. I do believe tha thteir are honest and good people, but that
they are honest and good because they have chosen to be that way.


DSK

I disagree.

katysails wrote:
I knew you would...


Hah! By appearing to be predictable, I lull you into a false sense of
security!

But seriously, a behavioristic (or mechanistic, as some people think of
it) way of instilling "good" behavior works quite well; however I don't
think it is in any way related to developing a set of ethical and moral
values. It is a good holding action until those values can be developed,
though ;)


And what is it that determines what is "good" vs what is "bad"?

Well, we haven't gotten into that. It's a whole seperate issue for
consideration.


... Behaviorism
can be used to direct any type of behavior pattern to the will of the
director if applied correctly...

Bingo. Considering that it's pretty simple, it's surprising that more
people can't do it. I have never (and hopefully, will never) raised
children, but I have raised a number of dogs, all of whom were well
behaved. Our current dog, adopted from the pound as an adult, has been
the biggest challenge, and after a few months he's shaping up quite nicely.



...developing conscience adds the element of
appropriateness according to a set of moral or ethical values...

I'm not sure what you mean by "appropriate."

In order to follow a rational moral or ethical code one must be
directed...one must have a formed consciounce...

I definitely agree.

... fear of comnsequence is the
most advantageous way to learn that...

I disagree, these are two seperate things entirely. They do have
*almost* the same result, however.

For example, it is wrong to kill people. It's one of the biggest no-nos
in all societies' ethos. However, it is also universally... in all
societies, past or present... allowed or even encouraged under very
specific circumstances. You can use behaviorism to reinforce the idea
'thou shalt not kill' but this does nothing whatever about those special
circumstances. And it's a problem, the military does a fairly directed
training towards giving soldiers the emotional capacity to kill, and
many (those with social restraint but no conscience, no moral or ethical
values ingrained) cause problems later on.

Another example is "thou shalt not steal." Is it wrong for a mother to
steal bread, so that she can feed her child? Is it wrong for a mayor to
award public construction contracts to his brother-in-law?


A sociopath restrained by fear is still restrained..which is a good
thing...a sociopath is typically amoral...there is only what is good or bad
for him...

Right. We have a few right here in this newsgroup...


I believe that people learn to be bad or good and if not presented with the
right choices and the right consequences, that they will choose bad. In the
long run, it is far easier to be a bad person because the self-gratification
is so great.

Not sure if I disagree, but keep in mind that our moral sense is
inherited from hundreds of thousands of years of human life in
communities. Choosing bad actions has bad results, often for the
individual in the long run and almost always for the community in the
long and short run. Selfishness is not considered a virtue in any human
society that I've heard of.

It's my belief, demonstrable in history, that following a good code of
morals is the surest path to success in the long run. This applies to
the individual and the community... and "community" can (perhaps *must*)
be expanded to include most of mankind. This is one reason why I have a
big problem with our current political set-up.




... I do believe tha thteir are honest and good people, but that
they are honest and good because they have chosen to be that way.


Following from your earlier statements, it would seem that good & honest
people are that way because their mothers hammered it into them. And
that, I agree with!

Regards
Doug King

"DSK" wrote



I have never (and hopefully, will never) raised
children, but I have raised a number of dogs, all of whom were well
behaved.

Pretty much the same thing, only you need a bigger choker chain.

Scotty

OK CM,

Talk is Cheap! Time to put up! Put up or renege!

The US, Australia, and Japan have been on sight, getting supplies to the
needy victims. Finally after some 12 days the UN is going to join in.
Annan has made mention of Nations living up to their Pledges

Canada has already deployed DART and supplies last week.

We're at 65 million federal plus the Provincial donations and climbing .....

The USA is no where near the top of the list of donor countries as you would
have had us believe Thom.

CM

"Thom Stewart" wrote in message
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OK CM,

Talk is Cheap! Time to put up! Put up or renege!

The US, Australia, and Japan have been on sight, getting supplies to the
needy victims. Finally after some 12 days the UN is going to join in.
Annan has made mention of Nations living up to their Pledges

wrote:
http://story.news.yahoo.com/news?tmp...homework_abuse


That's is a pretty sad story... Looks like that mom's mother did not do
a good job on her, either.

So what gives, BittyBill-Bubbles? Why the bitterness? Did your parents
use carpenter's tools on you? Maybe a chainsaw?

DSK

wrote in message

http://story.news.yahoo.com/news?tmp...homework_abuse

That boy is a whining lil' pussy! He'll grow up to be a homo!!

**** sake Man.... my old man laid me out with a brick at twenty paces when I
didn't stop running away..... he dropped me like a headshot moose!
Tell you what... next time he said "Boy Come Here!"... I didn't even
think of running!
No sweat... I love my Dad.... I look after him now and we have a great time.

You Yankees sound like a bunch of pussys to me!

CM

Brick head numbskull. Bwahahahahah.

dropped like a Head shot mouse.

Most us rebels are smart enough to duck when Dads throwing bricks,
you just had to keep on your toes when he had a pair of channel locks,
or was playing with the cattle prod.

Another of his favorates was to grab you and then he would grab the
electric fence.

Oh for the good ol days

Joe

"Joe" wrote in message

Most us rebels are smart enough to duck when Dads throwing bricks,
you just had to keep on your toes when he had a pair of channel locks,
or was playing with the cattle prod.

My old man was a pretty good shot.... he clipped my younger brother on a
full run with the lid of a tin garbage can. When I was 10 and argueing that
I "needed" a certain fishing rod.... he explained the difference between
"need" & "want" by holding my nose and mouth closed so I couldn't breathe...
as I was turning blue he calmly explained that while I "needed" air to
breathe.... I only "wanted" the fishing rod! That got the point across in a
hurry! I remember lipping off my Mom just once..... the next thing I knew I
was cartwheeling across the kitchen and when I came to a stop in the pantry
his finger was pointed at my face and demanding I apologise.... I was
grounded for a week with extra homework.


Another of his favorates was to grab you and then he would grab the
electric fence.

Aw hell we used to con the city boys to **** on the electric fence!


Oh for the good ol days

They raise wimps today...... and blame the parents for problem kids while
not allowing them to disipline their children.

CM

CM,

Fear & Greed are very effective motivation devices but they don't always
produce the proper results.

This thread demonstrates that.. The "Red cent" mentality hasn't helped
a needy cause.

The critics have belabored the group that is delivering the most but has
let the Greedy Islamic wealthy alone. They are the the slowest to help
their own people.Why haven't the US haters noticed this lack of giving
from the Moslem World?

The US has 39 fixed wing planes and fifty Helo's on sight and busy
getting supplies into the hands of the needy. Without the US, Japan and
Australia there wouldn't be an Aid Program. I just hope that putting
them under the UN doesn't let the worlds Greedy screw up their effort.

Ole Thom