Katy, would YOU marry a morbidly obese man?

What is your opinion of women who do?

Enquiring minds wish to know.

S.Simon

Katy, would YOU marry a morbidly obese man?

I wouldn't know, having never been with a morbidly obese man. I would hope
that I would not be so shallow as to base my judgment of a person only on
their physical attributes.

What is your opinion of women who do?

I've known some very nice, intelligent, gentle obese people who have made a
difference in the world. Once again, everyone chooses their partners for
different reasons. Who am I to judge someone else's choice? And for that
matter, who are you to judge?

Enquiring minds wish to know.

It's nice to see that you are at least trying to make a vestige of an
attempt to understand real people.

S.Simon


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and get used to the idea." - Robert A. Heinlein

I would never consider marrying a fat woman.
My opinion of women who marry morbidly obese
men is a low one. I view it as similar to a man in
his thirties marrying a teenage girl. There is something
defective in the brain of either one that causes them to
act in a destructive manner.

I've known a handful of fat women and NONE were
well-adjusted people. For the most part they were
all miserable creatures who ate to escape and the
more they ate the more they could not escape from
their eating.

It just seems to me that if one is living alone on a
desert island and one wanted to pig out and become
obese then that's OK with me. But, when people have
relationships with others whom they profess to love
and they are obese then the relationship is doomed
to failure because premature death always hurts a
loved one very badly. Why voluntarily put yourself
in that situation?

I figure I have a right to judge someone and anyone
who is engaging in destructive behavior. Allowing
oneself to be morbidly obese is bad enough but those
who enable such behavior are actually worse. If you
really love somebody you don't allow them to commit
slow suicide.


"katysails" wrote in message ...
Katy, would YOU marry a morbidly obese man?

I wouldn't know, having never been with a morbidly obese man. I would hope
that I would not be so shallow as to base my judgment of a person only on
their physical attributes.

What is your opinion of women who do?

I've known some very nice, intelligent, gentle obese people who have made a
difference in the world. Once again, everyone chooses their partners for
different reasons. Who am I to judge someone else's choice? And for that
matter, who are you to judge?

Enquiring minds wish to know.

It's nice to see that you are at least trying to make a vestige of an
attempt to understand real people.

S.Simon


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"Women and cats will do as they please, and men and dogs should relax
and get used to the idea." - Robert A. Heinlein

If you
really love somebody you don't allow them to commit
slow suicide.

Allow? Good thing you AREN'T married....You wouldn't stay that way for
long....

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"Women and cats will do as they please, and men and dogs should relax
and get used to the idea." - Robert A. Heinlein

Simple Simon wrote:

... My opinion of women who marry morbidly obese
men is a low one. I view it as similar to a man in
his thirties marrying a teenage girl. There is something
defective in the brain of either one that causes them to
act in a destructive manner.

You must be very young Simon, else you'd know that most of the
"beauties" seen in classic paintings would be considered obese today.
I'll bet you don't remember the ad's that showed the 198 pound weakling
being abused by "real men" until he wised up and took their
body-building course. And none other than Ben Franklin advised men to
marry young (teen) women after having made their fortune, hmmm.

I've known a handful of fat women and NONE were
well-adjusted people....

That's because our sexually repressive society brainwashed them to
believe sex is sinful, so they become fat to avoid it.

It just seems to me ....

Question is, when is someone obese. My MD thinks I'm obese cuz I weigh
240 and am barely 6' tall. In fact he knows I am obese cuz his chart
says so - you know the one he got from the diet drug company. Never mind
that my body fat content is so low I'm a "sinker".

Folks in beautiful downtown Compton, Ca. (Just south of Watts) have a
name for men who weigh less than 200 pounds. They call them "victims".
So, it just seems to me that any male weighing less otta get with the
program ... right? (c:

I don't talk to fatties like you who think they
aren't fat. At least Mike admits he is obese.

Keep denying you are obese all the way to
your grave. Fat is bad enough. Stupid and
fat is a deadly combination.


"Vito" wrote in message ...
Simple Simon wrote:

... My opinion of women who marry morbidly obese
men is a low one. I view it as similar to a man in
his thirties marrying a teenage girl. There is something
defective in the brain of either one that causes them to
act in a destructive manner.

You must be very young Simon, else you'd know that most of the
"beauties" seen in classic paintings would be considered obese today.
I'll bet you don't remember the ad's that showed the 198 pound weakling
being abused by "real men" until he wised up and took their
body-building course. And none other than Ben Franklin advised men to
marry young (teen) women after having made their fortune, hmmm.

I've known a handful of fat women and NONE were
well-adjusted people....

That's because our sexually repressive society brainwashed them to
believe sex is sinful, so they become fat to avoid it.

It just seems to me ....

Question is, when is someone obese. My MD thinks I'm obese cuz I weigh
240 and am barely 6' tall. In fact he knows I am obese cuz his chart
says so - you know the one he got from the diet drug company. Never mind
that my body fat content is so low I'm a "sinker".

Folks in beautiful downtown Compton, Ca. (Just south of Watts) have a
name for men who weigh less than 200 pounds. They call them "victims".
So, it just seems to me that any male weighing less otta get with the
program ... right? (c:

Simple Simon wrote:

I don't talk to fatties like you who think they
aren't fat. At least Mike admits he is obese.

Keep denying you are obese all the way to
your grave. Fat is bad enough. Stupid and
fat is a deadly combination.

You're right! Question is "who is in denial?" Simple test: do you float?
If so, you're fatter than I am cuz I sink - clear to the bottom if I
don't swim. That's cuz bone and muscle are heavier than water but fat is
lighter.

BTW skinny folks don't live longer - life just seems longer to them. (c:

On Tue, 12 Aug 2003 18:50:35 -0400, "katysails"
wrote this crap:

Katy, would YOU marry a morbidly obese man?

I wouldn't know, having never been with a morbidly obese man. I would hope
that I would not be so shallow as to base my judgment of a person only on
their physical attributes.

What is your opinion of women who do?

I've known some very nice, intelligent, gentle obese people who have made a
difference in the world. Once again, everyone chooses their partners for
different reasons. Who am I to judge someone else's choice? And for that
matter, who are you to judge?

What a silly-assed answer. Nobody should base their opinion of a
person on their physical attributes, BUT THEY DO! It's just human
nature.




Ave Imperator Bush!
Bush Was Right! Four More Years!

What a silly-assed answer. Nobody should base their opinion of a
person on their physical attributes, BUT THEY DO! It's just human
nature.

If you allow yourself to react in the manner of an animal, then you are
nothing but an animal. I prefer to think that real human beings transcend
venal actions as much as possible. I have found, though, that some people
would rather wallow in their gutter than to rise out of it. You seem to
prefer your gutter.
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and get used to the idea." - Robert A. Heinlein

katysails wrote:
: Katy, would YOU marry a morbidly obese man?
:
: I wouldn't know

SNIP

your newsreader seems not to be attributing quotes correctly at all, katy.
I would strongly suggest this nice free plugin for OE:
http://flash.to/oe-quotefix/
HTH.

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