I would never consider marrying a fat woman.
My opinion of women who marry morbidly obese
men is a low one. I view it as similar to a man in
his thirties marrying a teenage girl. There is something
defective in the brain of either one that causes them to
act in a destructive manner.

I've known a handful of fat women and NONE were
well-adjusted people. For the most part they were
all miserable creatures who ate to escape and the
more they ate the more they could not escape from
their eating.

It just seems to me that if one is living alone on a
desert island and one wanted to pig out and become
obese then that's OK with me. But, when people have
relationships with others whom they profess to love
and they are obese then the relationship is doomed
to failure because premature death always hurts a
loved one very badly. Why voluntarily put yourself
in that situation?

I figure I have a right to judge someone and anyone
who is engaging in destructive behavior. Allowing
oneself to be morbidly obese is bad enough but those
who enable such behavior are actually worse. If you
really love somebody you don't allow them to commit
slow suicide.


"katysails" wrote in message ...
Katy, would YOU marry a morbidly obese man?

I wouldn't know, having never been with a morbidly obese man. I would hope
that I would not be so shallow as to base my judgment of a person only on
their physical attributes.

What is your opinion of women who do?

I've known some very nice, intelligent, gentle obese people who have made a
difference in the world. Once again, everyone chooses their partners for
different reasons. Who am I to judge someone else's choice? And for that
matter, who are you to judge?

Enquiring minds wish to know.

It's nice to see that you are at least trying to make a vestige of an
attempt to understand real people.

S.Simon


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