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Poco Loco February 8th 14 01:02 PM

Outstanding Video on drug use
 
On Fri, 07 Feb 2014 20:21:00 -0500, Wayne.B wrote:

On Fri, 07 Feb 2014 16:59:47 -0500, Poco Loco
wrote:

See my response earlier. Oh hell, I'll post it again. This is what is taught in Fairfax County.

Family Life Education
Program Overview


===

I'm OK with that as far as it goes but the emphasis on abstinence,
especially for older kids, is probably wishful thinking. Many of them
are already, or soon will be, in "committed" relationships and need
good solid birth control and disease prevention information more than
anything else. It's largely a waste of time to preach abstinence to a
bunch of raging hormones and it can cast the credibility of the whole
program into doubt.


We must be coming at it from different angles. I saw the abstinence being taught as the only
'foolproof' method of preventing pregnancies and STD's, which it is. There is a lot more emphasis on
STD's and substance abuse. By the junior and senior years the 'sex education' is pretty much over,
except for some more on STD's.

Yes, there could probably be lots of improvements. But for the most part those take classroom time.
We wouldn't want to take away any of the liberal arts classes. In any case, there *is* education
taking place, contrary to what some would believe.


Poco Loco February 8th 14 01:13 PM

Outstanding Video on drug use
 
On Fri, 07 Feb 2014 20:59:46 -0500, "Mr. Luddite" wrote:

On 2/7/2014 8:21 PM, Wayne.B wrote:
On Fri, 07 Feb 2014 16:59:47 -0500, Poco Loco
wrote:

See my response earlier. Oh hell, I'll post it again. This is what is taught in Fairfax County.

Family Life Education
Program Overview


===

I'm OK with that as far as it goes but the emphasis on abstinence,
especially for older kids, is probably wishful thinking. Many of them
are already, or soon will be, in "committed" relationships and need
good solid birth control and disease prevention information more than
anything else. It's largely a waste of time to preach abstinence to a
bunch of raging hormones and it can cast the credibility of the whole
program into doubt.



I agree with all that.

There was a time however when that type of education came primarily from
your parents, supplemented by "health" and/or science classes in schools
that covered all the clinical details but none of the emotional issues.
Combined, they were effective.

I guess we have to question what kind of teenage activities are
considered "normal" today. If having sex with every girlfriend that
comes along is now "normal" and, in the event of an inadvertent
pregnancy, there's always the abortion clinc down the street, then I
guess I really am a luddite.

My old man spent time with me as a young, hormone filled teenager who
was starting to date frequently. He talked about the need for taking
precautions ... basically rubbers at that time. Few teenage girls were
"on the pill" back then. He talked about responsibility which extended
to that which I had for the girls involved and how important the
ramifications of our actions could be.
Most of all however, he emphasized having respect for women in general
and particularly the young women I was seeing. Without having to be
told it was clearly understood that if I treated girls badly or
irresponsibly, I'd also be answering to him. It wasn't a threat in
anyway. It was perfectly normal coming from him.

He never preached abstinence. He was too smart to do that. He just
tried to instill a more mature picture of how I should be considering
the actions and responsibilities of whatever activities I engaged in
with the fairer sex. I still have a lot of respect for his approach.

He ended it with, "When the right one comes along, you'll know it."

He was correct.



A story. The boy and girl in question were 13 years old.

I intercepted a note being passed from a girl to her boyfriend. In the note, the girl complained to
the boy that he could at least say he loved her since she was giving him head. Both of these kids
were from what I would consider middle to upper middle class, white, nice-looking, high on the peer
social ladder, and you get the picture.

I gave the note to the principal, expecting her to discuss it with the parents, or give it to a
counselor for the same reason. No, the principal called a meeting with the parents...and me! During
the meeting the parents expressed no surprise, outrage, worry, or any other emotion you'd think
they'd express. At the end, they left angry...not with their daughter, but with me. Why? Because by
taking and reading the note, I was infringing on the privacy of their daughter! They couldn't, or
wouldn't, understand that I was worried about the 'safety' of their daughter. At one point the
mother tried to say that 'giving head' may have been academic help. The father hushed her, saying
they'd discuss it later.

That happened about 15 years ago.

Yes, what is 'normal' today is much different than what was 'normal' in our day.



Poco Loco February 8th 14 01:16 PM

Outstanding Video on drug use
 
On Fri, 07 Feb 2014 21:43:26 -0800, thumper wrote:

On 2/7/2014 11:37 AM, Mr. Luddite wrote:

Doesn't help to have a president that publicly acknowledges that pot
isn't that dangerous. He's right, but what kind of influence does that
have on a 12 to 14 year old? They can decide for themselves when they
become adults.


Lying to them isn't effective. They should be given the most accurate
information available. Most will make reasonable decisions.


You're correct that lying to them is not effective. But the President, if he doesn't want to lie to
them, should perhaps keep his mouth shut rather than imply that pot is harmless and safe.


Poco Loco February 8th 14 01:18 PM

Outstanding Video on drug use
 
On Sat, 08 Feb 2014 01:35:33 -0500, wrote:

On Fri, 07 Feb 2014 16:50:53 -0500, Poco Loco
wrote:

Bill, addictions don't get to a 'functioning member of society' stage and then remain constant. They
get worse, and worse, until the addict hits his/her bottom. The bottom might be a reckless driving
ticket, or it might be death, or somewhere in between.

At least that's been my experience with addicts.


How many people did you run into in the army who were addicted to
alcohol? I certainly saw plenty in the Navy and CG


Plenty. Both in and out. Family and others. Neighbor across the street. I don't drink alcohol for a
reason.


KC February 8th 14 01:47 PM

Outstanding Video on drug use
 
On 2/8/2014 7:47 AM, Poco Loco wrote:
On Fri, 07 Feb 2014 19:56:36 -0500, KC wrote:

On 2/7/2014 3:41 PM, wrote:
On Fri, 07 Feb 2014 14:28:19 -0500, "Mr. Luddite"
wrote:

That's not the problem. The problem is with much more dangerous and
addictive opiates.

The most pervasive opiates these days come from doctors and drug
companies



They say you can get addicted by doing one oxy... I have seen it, it's a
fact...


That could be, if the person gets a little buzz, likes it, and keeps taking it. I've had both the
oxy's contin and codone recently. If actually taken for the pain, there isn't a 'high' that goes
along with it, just a reduction in pain. I think if a person is feeling a 'high', then either they
don't need the pain killer, or they're taking more than necessary.


That may be your personal experience... My daughter was give a tylenol
three which is probably 1/10th the opiate of an Oxycontin. She is a pro
athelete and a few days ago because of this discussion we were talking
about it... She is scared to death to take another one, almost a year
later she swears she still craves that feeling...

Poco Loco February 8th 14 02:08 PM

Outstanding Video on drug use
 
On Sat, 08 Feb 2014 07:36:10 -0500, "Mr. Luddite" wrote:

On 2/8/2014 1:35 AM, wrote:
On Fri, 07 Feb 2014 16:50:53 -0500, Poco Loco
wrote:

Bill, addictions don't get to a 'functioning member of society' stage and then remain constant. They
get worse, and worse, until the addict hits his/her bottom. The bottom might be a reckless driving
ticket, or it might be death, or somewhere in between.

At least that's been my experience with addicts.


How many people did you run into in the army who were addicted to
alcohol? I certainly saw plenty in the Navy and CG



I knew many heavy drinkers in the Navy. I was one of them. I know many
heavy drinkers now. I am not one of them, not because I don't like it,
but because as you age it doesn't like you as much. Most drinkers,
including myself never become alcoholics.

Alcoholism, like drug addiction, radically changes how a person thinks
and acts. His/her personality changes. Scientists have mapped areas of
the brain that responsible for cognizant thinking and routine awareness.
The inter-cell transmitters of electrical signals have been destroyed,
often permanently. A recovering alcoholic has to "re-wire" his/her
thought process to avoid relapses. Same with some drug addicts.

A heavy drinker isn't "the" definition of an alcoholic or one addicted
to alcohol. There is much more to it.


I have a simple definition. If alcohol is causing problems for the drinker, and the drinker persists
in drinking alcohol, then the drinker is exhibiting alcoholic behavior. The only question then is
how big the problems have to get before the drinker realizes he/she is an alcoholic.



Poco Loco February 8th 14 02:10 PM

Outstanding Video on drug use
 
On Sat, 08 Feb 2014 08:47:44 -0500, KC wrote:

On 2/8/2014 7:47 AM, Poco Loco wrote:
On Fri, 07 Feb 2014 19:56:36 -0500, KC wrote:

On 2/7/2014 3:41 PM, wrote:
On Fri, 07 Feb 2014 14:28:19 -0500, "Mr. Luddite"
wrote:

That's not the problem. The problem is with much more dangerous and
addictive opiates.

The most pervasive opiates these days come from doctors and drug
companies



They say you can get addicted by doing one oxy... I have seen it, it's a
fact...


That could be, if the person gets a little buzz, likes it, and keeps taking it. I've had both the
oxy's contin and codone recently. If actually taken for the pain, there isn't a 'high' that goes
along with it, just a reduction in pain. I think if a person is feeling a 'high', then either they
don't need the pain killer, or they're taking more than necessary.


That may be your personal experience... My daughter was give a tylenol
three which is probably 1/10th the opiate of an Oxycontin. She is a pro
athelete and a few days ago because of this discussion we were talking
about it... She is scared to death to take another one, almost a year
later she swears she still craves that feeling...


My guess would be that she was over prescribed for the pain. Probably should have taken the tyleno
without the codeine.


Wayne.B February 8th 14 02:22 PM

Outstanding Video on drug use
 
On Sat, 08 Feb 2014 08:02:34 -0500, Poco Loco
wrote:

We must be coming at it from different angles. I saw the abstinence being taught as the only
'foolproof' method of preventing pregnancies and STD's, which it is.


===

To me that's like saying that the only foolproof way of avoiding
automobile accidents is to not get in a car.

KC February 8th 14 02:28 PM

Outstanding Video on drug use
 
On 2/8/2014 9:10 AM, Poco Loco wrote:
On Sat, 08 Feb 2014 08:47:44 -0500, KC wrote:

On 2/8/2014 7:47 AM, Poco Loco wrote:
On Fri, 07 Feb 2014 19:56:36 -0500, KC wrote:

On 2/7/2014 3:41 PM, wrote:
On Fri, 07 Feb 2014 14:28:19 -0500, "Mr. Luddite"
wrote:

That's not the problem. The problem is with much more dangerous and
addictive opiates.

The most pervasive opiates these days come from doctors and drug
companies



They say you can get addicted by doing one oxy... I have seen it, it's a
fact...

That could be, if the person gets a little buzz, likes it, and keeps taking it. I've had both the
oxy's contin and codone recently. If actually taken for the pain, there isn't a 'high' that goes
along with it, just a reduction in pain. I think if a person is feeling a 'high', then either they
don't need the pain killer, or they're taking more than necessary.


That may be your personal experience... My daughter was give a tylenol
three which is probably 1/10th the opiate of an Oxycontin. She is a pro
athelete and a few days ago because of this discussion we were talking
about it... She is scared to death to take another one, almost a year
later she swears she still craves that feeling...


My guess would be that she was over prescribed for the pain. Probably should have taken the tyleno
without the codeine.


Are you kidding me? Your guess would be wrong... I won't get into the
details...

Poco Loco February 8th 14 03:20 PM

Outstanding Video on drug use
 
On Sat, 08 Feb 2014 09:28:57 -0500, KC wrote:

On 2/8/2014 9:10 AM, Poco Loco wrote:
On Sat, 08 Feb 2014 08:47:44 -0500, KC wrote:

On 2/8/2014 7:47 AM, Poco Loco wrote:
On Fri, 07 Feb 2014 19:56:36 -0500, KC wrote:

On 2/7/2014 3:41 PM, wrote:
On Fri, 07 Feb 2014 14:28:19 -0500, "Mr. Luddite"
wrote:

That's not the problem. The problem is with much more dangerous and
addictive opiates.

The most pervasive opiates these days come from doctors and drug
companies



They say you can get addicted by doing one oxy... I have seen it, it's a
fact...

That could be, if the person gets a little buzz, likes it, and keeps taking it. I've had both the
oxy's contin and codone recently. If actually taken for the pain, there isn't a 'high' that goes
along with it, just a reduction in pain. I think if a person is feeling a 'high', then either they
don't need the pain killer, or they're taking more than necessary.


That may be your personal experience... My daughter was give a tylenol
three which is probably 1/10th the opiate of an Oxycontin. She is a pro
athelete and a few days ago because of this discussion we were talking
about it... She is scared to death to take another one, almost a year
later she swears she still craves that feeling...


My guess would be that she was over prescribed for the pain. Probably should have taken the tyleno
without the codeine.


Are you kidding me? Your guess would be wrong... I won't get into the
details...


No sweat. My guesses have been wrong before. I'm just basing my 'guess' on my experiences and what
I've heard doctors say.



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