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![]() Sigh! After having read Captain Skippy's recent post describing his lack of progress getting back underway after a two- year, forced hiatus, I felt a tinge of sadness. I felt a little sad because Skippy's post served to remind me that my prediction from years ago as to his being too encumbered to be a sailor for long seems to have come true. While I have few regrets about realistic predictions, I do tend to feel sad when women continue to get in the way of the life decisions of their men. Poor Skippy, he managed to dig himself a hole so deep that he will likely never be able to crawl out of it. His life is simply too cluttered to ever be a sailor. What with all the unnecessary encumbrances he's crammed into his yacht, combined with all the encumbrances his first mate foists off onto him, poor Skippy has no chance of ever being anything more than a boat and systems repairman as well as a Honey-do list slave. One wonders how a woman can claim to love her mate on the one hand yet hinder his happiness by enslaving him into being some kind of lubberly house husband and mother-in-law nursemaid. So much baggage for one man to carry. It's simply not possible for anybody but an Atlas type to heft it. It's sad because even the few hours of sailing time in a year Captain Skippy manages to put in are filled with thoughts of his myriad, non-sailing obligations. This sort of thing generally leads to high stress levels and an eventual heart attack or nervous breakdown. Either is a sad end to a man who could have been an inspired and inspiring sailor had he only been able to leave all the unnecessary baggage ashore where it belongs. -- Sir Gregory |
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