You have your opinion of what matters in a woman and
so do I. Our opinions differ greatly but that does not
necessarily mean either of us is wrong.

The attributes I find endearing in a woman are the
following and they are roughly listed in order of
importance.

1) woman must be physically attractive and that means
she must be small ( 5'5") fit, pretty, smell good,
(natural body smell that is and NOT perfume)and loves
to enjoy nature, get dirty, hot and sweaty, and tired
out. Hair must be very short and pubic area must
be bikini waxed on the sides and cropped short else-
where. Any nipple hair must be plucked.
Underarm hair is certainly better than shaved
stubble and irritation. Makeup is prohibited.

2) woman must be very intelligent. Any with IQ less than
120 need not apply. Along with high intelligence woman
must have a great store of common sense.

3) woman cannot ever have had children out of wedlock as
this tells me woman is totally irresponsible and hates
children.

4) woman must defer to the wishes of the man in the relationship
as God directs. This is the only workable situation and no mistake.

5) woman must wish to please her man sexually no matter what
that entails and vice versa. However, it is required that both
the man and woman remain totally monogamous.

6) woman must not nag, disparage, make catty remarks, be a
crybaby or otherwise make her man insecure.

Lady Sailor may be your cup of tea but she is disqualified as
any kind of desirable woman as far as I'm concerned. I doubt
she meets any of the above necessary standards.


"Thom Stewart" wrote in message ...
Capt Neal,

I feel a need to butt into this discussion that is a lose, lose
proposition but there is "no fool like an old fool' so hear goes

Barb (Lady Sailor) is probably the woman all foot loose males yearn for.
Relationships without binding commitments. It takes a real man to be
able to handle that. Captain, I don't think you have the mentality for a
woman period. A woman like Lady Sailor, no sir.
You think you have the right of dominance in a relationship and that is
wrong.
Lady Sailor made it thru the tough years with a child, that she raised,
increased her eduction, made her way thru life without a male partner
and did it well. We should be thankful that she found us ASA men
(Sailors) of interest.

She is a damn fine looking female. I mean that in the full meaning of
FEMALE. She really doesn't NEED a man at this time of her life. I said
needs, she does like the company of a man. The male-female thing still
works for her.

Her commitment responsibility has been taught to her by males. From what
I've seen, and it is limited, she can accept man's attitude and give it
back in SPADES.

It's a shame I'm to old for her or I'd be in the chase and willing to
accept the terms. To soon old, to late smart!

By the way Barb, I've explained this to Schooner and he is coming to
terms with it

I need to "Drink to That" and shut the hell up. I should know better
than to use logic where illogic is the road chosen

Ole Thom