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[email protected] October 1st 08 05:34 PM

A racial incident
 
I have two guys who work in the machine shop here, an older black guy
who knows everything possible about machining and a younger guy who
sorta gets by. They work well together and are friends. We were
talking about where to go for lunch and the young guy asked 'Wanna go
get Chinese food", "No, we did that last week". Then he asks, "How
about some N*gg*r food". Total silence as the rest of us were
shocked. Then he says "Oh, never mind".
What should I do?

[email protected] October 1st 08 05:39 PM

A racial incident
 
On Oct 1, 12:34*pm, wrote:
I have two guys who work in the machine shop here, an older black guy
who knows everything possible about machining and a younger guy who
sorta gets by. *They work well together and are friends. *We were
talking about where to go for lunch and the young guy asked 'Wanna go
get Chinese food", "No, we did that last week". *Then he asks, "How
about some N*gg*r food". *Total silence as the rest of us were
shocked. *Then he says "Oh, never mind".
What should I do?


I would give him one more chance, and one ONLY. I'd make it VERY clear
that if something even remotely comes out of his mouth that I think
may be racist, his ass is gone.

A Real Boater October 1st 08 05:46 PM

A racial incident
 
wrote:
I have two guys who work in the machine shop here, an older black guy
who knows everything possible about machining and a younger guy who
sorta gets by. They work well together and are friends. We were
talking about where to go for lunch and the young guy asked 'Wanna go
get Chinese food", "No, we did that last week". Then he asks, "How
about some N*gg*r food". Total silence as the rest of us were
shocked. Then he says "Oh, never mind".
What should I do?




Give him the number of the local Republican Party?

Seriously, if the young guy only gets by, fire him and hire someone good
who is a little brighter socially.

Failing that, take him to your office, tell him that sort of talk is
unacceptable, and tell him to apologize to your older black guy. Tell
him if he does it again, he's history.

Don White October 1st 08 06:35 PM

A racial incident
 

wrote in message
...
I have two guys who work in the machine shop here, an older black guy
who knows everything possible about machining and a younger guy who
sorta gets by. They work well together and are friends. We were
talking about where to go for lunch and the young guy asked 'Wanna go
get Chinese food", "No, we did that last week". Then he asks, "How
about some N*gg*r food". Total silence as the rest of us were
shocked. Then he says "Oh, never mind".
What should I do?


It's your business?

I'd take him aside and tell him that language isn't acceptable. Then have
him apologize to the black guy.
I'd document the meeting just in case something came of this problem in the
future.... you may not have to enter it in the young guys file, but it
should be at hand.

Funny, though, it's ok for some young black people to use that language
among themselves, but no whiteboy had better try it.



SmallBoats.com[_2_] October 1st 08 07:18 PM

A racial incident
 
Don White wrote:
wrote in message
...
I have two guys who work in the machine shop here, an older black guy
who knows everything possible about machining and a younger guy who
sorta gets by. They work well together and are friends. We were
talking about where to go for lunch and the young guy asked 'Wanna go
get Chinese food", "No, we did that last week". Then he asks, "How
about some N*gg*r food". Total silence as the rest of us were
shocked. Then he says "Oh, never mind".
What should I do?


It's your business?

I'd take him aside and tell him that language isn't acceptable. Then have
him apologize to the black guy.
I'd document the meeting just in case something came of this problem in the
future.... you may not have to enter it in the young guys file, but it
should be at hand.

Funny, though, it's ok for some young black people to use that language
among themselves, but no whiteboy had better try it.


It's OK for them to call us cracker and stuff too. What is your company
policy?

Either way, I would bring them both together and see if there is a
problem, if not, let them shake hands and continue on. The guy was
probably being a smart ass, and crossed the line, probably feels bad too
so let them dictate how it goes..

[email protected] October 1st 08 07:54 PM

A racial incident
 
On Oct 1, 1:35*pm, "Don White" wrote:
wrote in message

...

I have two guys who work in the machine shop here, an older black guy
who knows everything possible about machining and a younger guy who
sorta gets by. *They work well together and are friends. *We were
talking about where to go for lunch and the young guy asked 'Wanna go
get Chinese food", "No, we did that last week". *Then he asks, "How
about some N*gg*r food". *Total silence as the rest of us were
shocked. *Then he says "Oh, never mind".
What should I do?


It's your business?

I'd take him aside and tell him that language isn't acceptable. Then have
him apologize to the black guy.
I'd document the meeting just in case something came of this problem in the
future.... you may not have to enter it in the young guys file, but it
should be at hand.

Funny, though, it's ok for some young black people to use that language
among themselves, but no whiteboy had better try it.


I've got a black neighbor who frequently has friends and family over
for parties, I'm always invited. I've never heard any of them ever
utter the word. And they don't call white people names either. He does
however, have a very logical explanation as to why some urban types do
use that word. But, again, it's logical, so it'd be wasted on all of
the Harryclones.

[email protected] October 1st 08 08:07 PM

A racial incident
 
On Oct 1, 2:54 pm, wrote:
On Oct 1, 1:35 pm, "Don White" wrote:



wrote in message


...


I have two guys who work in the machine shop here, an older black guy
who knows everything possible about machining and a younger guy who
sorta gets by. They work well together and are friends. We were
talking about where to go for lunch and the young guy asked 'Wanna go
get Chinese food", "No, we did that last week". Then he asks, "How
about some N*gg*r food". Total silence as the rest of us were
shocked. Then he says "Oh, never mind".
What should I do?


It's your business?


I'd take him aside and tell him that language isn't acceptable. Then have
him apologize to the black guy.
I'd document the meeting just in case something came of this problem in the
future.... you may not have to enter it in the young guys file, but it
should be at hand.


Funny, though, it's ok for some young black people to use that language
among themselves, but no whiteboy had better try it.


I've got a black neighbor who frequently has friends and family over
for parties, I'm always invited. I've never heard any of them ever
utter the word. And they don't call white people names either. He does
however, have a very logical explanation as to why some urban types do
use that word. But, again, it's logical, so it'd be wasted on all of
the Harryclones.


He knows he did wrong. After lunch he apologized to everybody. Said
he was just kidding with his friend and ran his mouth without
thinking. I laid down the law about such stuff.

A Real Boater October 1st 08 08:09 PM

A racial incident
 
wrote:
On Oct 1, 2:54 pm, wrote:
On Oct 1, 1:35 pm, "Don White" wrote:



wrote in message
...
I have two guys who work in the machine shop here, an older black guy
who knows everything possible about machining and a younger guy who
sorta gets by. They work well together and are friends. We were
talking about where to go for lunch and the young guy asked 'Wanna go
get Chinese food", "No, we did that last week". Then he asks, "How
about some N*gg*r food". Total silence as the rest of us were
shocked. Then he says "Oh, never mind".
What should I do?
It's your business?
I'd take him aside and tell him that language isn't acceptable. Then have
him apologize to the black guy.
I'd document the meeting just in case something came of this problem in the
future.... you may not have to enter it in the young guys file, but it
should be at hand.
Funny, though, it's ok for some young black people to use that language
among themselves, but no whiteboy had better try it.

I've got a black neighbor who frequently has friends and family over
for parties, I'm always invited. I've never heard any of them ever
utter the word. And they don't call white people names either. He does
however, have a very logical explanation as to why some urban types do
use that word. But, again, it's logical, so it'd be wasted on all of
the Harryclones.


He knows he did wrong. After lunch he apologized to everybody. Said
he was just kidding with his friend and ran his mouth without
thinking. I laid down the law about such stuff.




Be thankful you don't have a Justwaitaloogy working for you...you'd have
daily fistfights.

[email protected] October 1st 08 08:33 PM

A racial incident
 
On Oct 1, 3:09 pm, A Real Boater wrote:
wrote:
On Oct 1, 2:54 pm, wrote:
On Oct 1, 1:35 pm, "Don White" wrote:


wrote in message
...
I have two guys who work in the machine shop here, an older black guy
who knows everything possible about machining and a younger guy who
sorta gets by. They work well together and are friends. We were
talking about where to go for lunch and the young guy asked 'Wanna go
get Chinese food", "No, we did that last week". Then he asks, "How
about some N*gg*r food". Total silence as the rest of us were
shocked. Then he says "Oh, never mind".
What should I do?
It's your business?
I'd take him aside and tell him that language isn't acceptable. Then have
him apologize to the black guy.
I'd document the meeting just in case something came of this problem in the
future.... you may not have to enter it in the young guys file, but it
should be at hand.
Funny, though, it's ok for some young black people to use that language
among themselves, but no whiteboy had better try it.
I've got a black neighbor who frequently has friends and family over
for parties, I'm always invited. I've never heard any of them ever
utter the word. And they don't call white people names either. He does
however, have a very logical explanation as to why some urban types do
use that word. But, again, it's logical, so it'd be wasted on all of
the Harryclones.


He knows he did wrong. After lunch he apologized to everybody. Said
he was just kidding with his friend and ran his mouth without
thinking. I laid down the law about such stuff.


Be thankful you don't have a Justwaitaloogy working for you...you'd have
daily fistfights.


I hate having employees. If you ever start your own company, avoid
employees at all costs. Keep people as indep. contractors if
possible. Employees expect you to take care of them and I dont want
to take care of anybody. Am tired of personality conflicts, tired of
worrying about their job security, what about mine? Tired of the
friggin paperwork for each one of em. NJ wants me to garnish one guys
wages for back child support, like hell, that isnt my business.
Workers comp insurance, you gotta be kidding, My god, I was better off
by myself. "I have a Ph.D. and should be making X $/hr" one whines
and I think "In yer friggin dreams, go try to get that around here".
I cut hours of one part timer who didnt get along with anybody and he
blurted out "I just took on $30,000 debt" and my jaw nearly hit the
floor. "Is that my business", I think. What about my company debt
for which I am personally liable, does he expect me to simply mortgage
my house to pay him more? The young guy who made the racial slur
drives a spanking new Ford 150 with every add-on you can imagine and
his wife drives a 2007 Yukon and he confessed to having $60,000 in cc
debt and is now going on a cruise. HOLY SH#$. What planet do these
people live on?
Sorry bout the tirade, just venting

A Real Boater October 1st 08 08:40 PM

A racial incident
 
wrote:
On Oct 1, 3:09 pm, A Real Boater wrote:
wrote:
On Oct 1, 2:54 pm, wrote:
On Oct 1, 1:35 pm, "Don White" wrote:
wrote in message
...
I have two guys who work in the machine shop here, an older black guy
who knows everything possible about machining and a younger guy who
sorta gets by. They work well together and are friends. We were
talking about where to go for lunch and the young guy asked 'Wanna go
get Chinese food", "No, we did that last week". Then he asks, "How
about some N*gg*r food". Total silence as the rest of us were
shocked. Then he says "Oh, never mind".
What should I do?
It's your business?
I'd take him aside and tell him that language isn't acceptable. Then have
him apologize to the black guy.
I'd document the meeting just in case something came of this problem in the
future.... you may not have to enter it in the young guys file, but it
should be at hand.
Funny, though, it's ok for some young black people to use that language
among themselves, but no whiteboy had better try it.
I've got a black neighbor who frequently has friends and family over
for parties, I'm always invited. I've never heard any of them ever
utter the word. And they don't call white people names either. He does
however, have a very logical explanation as to why some urban types do
use that word. But, again, it's logical, so it'd be wasted on all of
the Harryclones.
He knows he did wrong. After lunch he apologized to everybody. Said
he was just kidding with his friend and ran his mouth without
thinking. I laid down the law about such stuff.

Be thankful you don't have a Justwaitaloogy working for you...you'd have
daily fistfights.


I hate having employees. If you ever start your own company, avoid
employees at all costs. Keep people as indep. contractors if
possible.



The new American way...avoid wage-hour laws, step around fringe
benefits, and use your "contracted employees" up. When they break, get
new ones.

Sorry...not a way I would do it. Now, contracting out professional
(legal, accounting, et ceters) or infrequently used services...sure.

[email protected] October 1st 08 09:24 PM

A racial incident
 
On Oct 1, 3:40 pm, A Real Boater wrote:
wrote:
On Oct 1, 3:09 pm, A Real Boater wrote:
wrote:
On Oct 1, 2:54 pm, wrote:
On Oct 1, 1:35 pm, "Don White" wrote:
wrote in message
...
I have two guys who work in the machine shop here, an older black guy
who knows everything possible about machining and a younger guy who
sorta gets by. They work well together and are friends. We were
talking about where to go for lunch and the young guy asked 'Wanna go
get Chinese food", "No, we did that last week". Then he asks, "How
about some N*gg*r food". Total silence as the rest of us were
shocked. Then he says "Oh, never mind".
What should I do?
It's your business?
I'd take him aside and tell him that language isn't acceptable. Then have
him apologize to the black guy.
I'd document the meeting just in case something came of this problem in the
future.... you may not have to enter it in the young guys file, but it
should be at hand.
Funny, though, it's ok for some young black people to use that language
among themselves, but no whiteboy had better try it.
I've got a black neighbor who frequently has friends and family over
for parties, I'm always invited. I've never heard any of them ever
utter the word. And they don't call white people names either. He does
however, have a very logical explanation as to why some urban types do
use that word. But, again, it's logical, so it'd be wasted on all of
the Harryclones.
He knows he did wrong. After lunch he apologized to everybody. Said
he was just kidding with his friend and ran his mouth without
thinking. I laid down the law about such stuff.
Be thankful you don't have a Justwaitaloogy working for you...you'd have
daily fistfights.


I hate having employees. If you ever start your own company, avoid
employees at all costs. Keep people as indep. contractors if
possible.


The new American way...avoid wage-hour laws, step around fringe
benefits, and use your "contracted employees" up. When they break, get
new ones.

Sorry...not a way I would do it. Now, contracting out professional
(legal, accounting, et ceters) or infrequently used services...sure.


Really Harry, eventually the aggravation factor becomes too much and
it simply isnt worth doing more business because that requires more
employees. Most people are employed by small business and when small
employers decide it isnt worth the stress to hire another employee,
everybody loses. You worry about what haps when the contract employee
"breaks", what about when the employer "breaks".

Don White October 1st 08 09:40 PM

A racial incident
 

wrote in message
...
On Oct 1, 1:35 pm, "Don White" wrote:
wrote in message

...

I have two guys who work in the machine shop here, an older black guy
who knows everything possible about machining and a younger guy who
sorta gets by. They work well together and are friends. We were
talking about where to go for lunch and the young guy asked 'Wanna go
get Chinese food", "No, we did that last week". Then he asks, "How
about some N*gg*r food". Total silence as the rest of us were
shocked. Then he says "Oh, never mind".
What should I do?


It's your business?

I'd take him aside and tell him that language isn't acceptable. Then have
him apologize to the black guy.
I'd document the meeting just in case something came of this problem in
the
future.... you may not have to enter it in the young guys file, but it
should be at hand.

Funny, though, it's ok for some young black people to use that language
among themselves, but no whiteboy had better try it.


I've got a black neighbor who frequently has friends and family over
for parties, I'm always invited. I've never heard any of them ever
utter the word. And they don't call white people names either. He does
however, have a very logical explanation as to why some urban types do
use that word. But, again, it's logical, so it'd be wasted on all of
the Harryclones.
-----------------------------------------------------------------------------------

Take it to Oprah or Dr. Phil.



Don White October 1st 08 09:46 PM

A racial incident
 

wrote in message
...
On Oct 1, 3:09 pm, A Real Boater wrote:
wrote:
On Oct 1, 2:54 pm, wrote:
On Oct 1, 1:35 pm, "Don White" wrote:


wrote in message
...
I have two guys who work in the machine shop here, an older black
guy
who knows everything possible about machining and a younger guy who
sorta gets by. They work well together and are friends. We were
talking about where to go for lunch and the young guy asked 'Wanna
go
get Chinese food", "No, we did that last week". Then he asks, "How
about some N*gg*r food". Total silence as the rest of us were
shocked. Then he says "Oh, never mind".
What should I do?
It's your business?
I'd take him aside and tell him that language isn't acceptable. Then
have
him apologize to the black guy.
I'd document the meeting just in case something came of this problem
in the
future.... you may not have to enter it in the young guys file, but
it
should be at hand.
Funny, though, it's ok for some young black people to use that
language
among themselves, but no whiteboy had better try it.
I've got a black neighbor who frequently has friends and family over
for parties, I'm always invited. I've never heard any of them ever
utter the word. And they don't call white people names either. He does
however, have a very logical explanation as to why some urban types do
use that word. But, again, it's logical, so it'd be wasted on all of
the Harryclones.


He knows he did wrong. After lunch he apologized to everybody. Said
he was just kidding with his friend and ran his mouth without
thinking. I laid down the law about such stuff.


Be thankful you don't have a Justwaitaloogy working for you...you'd have
daily fistfights.


I hate having employees. If you ever start your own company, avoid
employees at all costs. Keep people as indep. contractors if
possible. Employees expect you to take care of them and I dont want
to take care of anybody. Am tired of personality conflicts, tired of
worrying about their job security, what about mine? Tired of the
friggin paperwork for each one of em. NJ wants me to garnish one guys
wages for back child support, like hell, that isnt my business.
Workers comp insurance, you gotta be kidding, My god, I was better off
by myself. "I have a Ph.D. and should be making X $/hr" one whines
and I think "In yer friggin dreams, go try to get that around here".
I cut hours of one part timer who didnt get along with anybody and he
blurted out "I just took on $30,000 debt" and my jaw nearly hit the
floor. "Is that my business", I think. What about my company debt
for which I am personally liable, does he expect me to simply mortgage
my house to pay him more? The young guy who made the racial slur
drives a spanking new Ford 150 with every add-on you can imagine and
his wife drives a 2007 Yukon and he confessed to having $60,000 in cc
debt and is now going on a cruise. HOLY SH#$. What planet do these
people live on?
Sorry bout the tirade, just venting


Actually, that kind of crap eventually affects us all.
At some point he'll default on his payments and will either declare
bankruptcy, or will go on some orderly payment scheme at minimal interest.
The sensible people like me end up paying more.
I sure hope there are some good financing schemes this spring when i need a
new SUV.
On the other hand, my investments aren't doing anything..... might be
smarter to apply some monies from there to a new vehicle.



[email protected] October 1st 08 09:47 PM

A racial incident
 
On Oct 1, 4:40*pm, "Don White" wrote:
wrote in message

...
On Oct 1, 1:35 pm, "Don White" wrote:





wrote in message


....


I have two guys who work in the machine shop here, an older black guy
who knows everything possible about machining and a younger guy who
sorta gets by. They work well together and are friends. We were
talking about where to go for lunch and the young guy asked 'Wanna go
get Chinese food", "No, we did that last week". Then he asks, "How
about some N*gg*r food". Total silence as the rest of us were
shocked. Then he says "Oh, never mind".
What should I do?


It's your business?


I'd take him aside and tell him that language isn't acceptable. Then have
him apologize to the black guy.
I'd document the meeting just in case something came of this problem in
the
future.... you may not have to enter it in the young guys file, but it
should be at hand.


Funny, though, it's ok for some young black people to use that language
among themselves, but no whiteboy had better try it.


I've got a black neighbor who frequently has friends and family over
for parties, I'm always invited. I've never heard any of them ever
utter the word. And they don't call white people names either. He does
however, have a very logical explanation as to why some urban types do
use that word. But, again, it's logical, so it'd be wasted on all of
the Harryclones.
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Thanks for making my point about something logical being wasted on you
Harryclone puppies.

Don White October 1st 08 09:48 PM

A racial incident
 

wrote in message
...
Really Harry, eventually the aggravation factor becomes too much and
it simply isnt worth doing more business because that requires more
employees. Most people are employed by small business and when small
employers decide it isnt worth the stress to hire another employee,
everybody loses. You worry about what haps when the contract employee
"breaks", what about when the employer "breaks".



You sell the business and retire to a life of luxury.
Others have done just that here.



Vic Smith October 1st 08 09:56 PM

A racial incident
 
On Wed, 1 Oct 2008 12:33:34 -0700 (PDT),
wrote:



I hate having employees. If you ever start your own company, avoid
employees at all costs. Keep people as indep. contractors if
possible. Employees expect you to take care of them and I dont want
to take care of anybody. Am tired of personality conflicts, tired of
worrying about their job security, what about mine? Tired of the
friggin paperwork for each one of em. NJ wants me to garnish one guys
wages for back child support, like hell, that isnt my business.
Workers comp insurance, you gotta be kidding, My god, I was better off
by myself. "I have a Ph.D. and should be making X $/hr" one whines
and I think "In yer friggin dreams, go try to get that around here".
I cut hours of one part timer who didnt get along with anybody and he
blurted out "I just took on $30,000 debt" and my jaw nearly hit the
floor. "Is that my business", I think. What about my company debt
for which I am personally liable, does he expect me to simply mortgage
my house to pay him more? The young guy who made the racial slur
drives a spanking new Ford 150 with every add-on you can imagine and
his wife drives a 2007 Yukon and he confessed to having $60,000 in cc
debt and is now going on a cruise. HOLY SH#$. What planet do these
people live on?


The U.S.A planet. Congress will make sure they can get even deeper in
debt if they pass the bailout. They don't want to stop the credit
flow. We're becoming a nation of deadbeats. It won't last much
longer - but I said that 10 years ago.
Managing people is always tough work, and takes dedication.
You're getting old, and don't want the hassle after years of hard
work. Seen it happen before to some of the best.
Lay the hiring/personnel off on a young buck you trust, giving just
oversight yourself.
Once you start selling off work to contracting companies, you
essentially lose touch of business purpose and operation.
That's why I mow my own lawn. Its operation is automatic, but its
purpose is to have me mow it. It's all pretty simple, really.

--Vic

--Vic







[email protected] October 1st 08 10:45 PM

A racial incident
 
On Oct 1, 4:56 pm, Vic Smith wrote:
On Wed, 1 Oct 2008 12:33:34 -0700 (PDT),
wrote:





I hate having employees. If you ever start your own company, avoid
employees at all costs. Keep people as indep. contractors if
possible. Employees expect you to take care of them and I dont want
to take care of anybody. Am tired of personality conflicts, tired of
worrying about their job security, what about mine? Tired of the
friggin paperwork for each one of em. NJ wants me to garnish one guys
wages for back child support, like hell, that isnt my business.
Workers comp insurance, you gotta be kidding, My god, I was better off
by myself. "I have a Ph.D. and should be making X $/hr" one whines
and I think "In yer friggin dreams, go try to get that around here".
I cut hours of one part timer who didnt get along with anybody and he
blurted out "I just took on $30,000 debt" and my jaw nearly hit the
floor. "Is that my business", I think. What about my company debt
for which I am personally liable, does he expect me to simply mortgage
my house to pay him more? The young guy who made the racial slur
drives a spanking new Ford 150 with every add-on you can imagine and
his wife drives a 2007 Yukon and he confessed to having $60,000 in cc
debt and is now going on a cruise. HOLY SH#$. What planet do these
people live on?


The U.S.A planet. Congress will make sure they can get even deeper in
debt if they pass the bailout. They don't want to stop the credit
flow. We're becoming a nation of deadbeats. It won't last much
longer - but I said that 10 years ago.
Managing people is always tough work, and takes dedication.
You're getting old, and don't want the hassle after years of hard
work. Seen it happen before to some of the best.
Lay the hiring/personnel off on a young buck you trust, giving just
oversight yourself.
Once you start selling off work to contracting companies, you
essentially lose touch of business purpose and operation.
That's why I mow my own lawn. Its operation is automatic, but its
purpose is to have me mow it. It's all pretty simple, really.

--Vic

--Vic


I know a guy in my business (well, a variation) who loves spending
time aboard his trawler. he has this tiny company In Friday Harbor in
WA. He seems to be retired now because last time I called there he
didnt answer and some young guy did. Seemed an ideal existence do
cool stuff, go to conferences, live in a nice place with a nice
boat...........then retire?

DK October 2nd 08 12:54 AM

A racial incident
 
wrote:
On Oct 1, 2:54 pm, wrote:
On Oct 1, 1:35 pm, "Don White" wrote:



wrote in message
...
I have two guys who work in the machine shop here, an older black guy
who knows everything possible about machining and a younger guy who
sorta gets by. They work well together and are friends. We were
talking about where to go for lunch and the young guy asked 'Wanna go
get Chinese food", "No, we did that last week". Then he asks, "How
about some N*gg*r food". Total silence as the rest of us were
shocked. Then he says "Oh, never mind".
What should I do?
It's your business?
I'd take him aside and tell him that language isn't acceptable. Then have
him apologize to the black guy.
I'd document the meeting just in case something came of this problem in the
future.... you may not have to enter it in the young guys file, but it
should be at hand.
Funny, though, it's ok for some young black people to use that language
among themselves, but no whiteboy had better try it.

I've got a black neighbor who frequently has friends and family over
for parties, I'm always invited. I've never heard any of them ever
utter the word. And they don't call white people names either. He does
however, have a very logical explanation as to why some urban types do
use that word. But, again, it's logical, so it'd be wasted on all of
the Harryclones.


He knows he did wrong. After lunch he apologized to everybody. Said
he was just kidding with his friend and ran his mouth without
thinking. I laid down the law about such stuff.


How does the black guy feel about that? Depending on your state's laws,
you could end up in court for not dismissing the offender. Even if the
black guy is OK with it, make sure he understands you won't tolerate
that behavior.

JimH[_2_] October 2nd 08 01:16 AM

A racial incident
 
On Oct 1, 12:34*pm, wrote:
I have two guys who work in the machine shop here, an older black guy
who knows everything possible about machining and a younger guy who
sorta gets by. *They work well together and are friends. *We were
talking about where to go for lunch and the young guy asked 'Wanna go
get Chinese food", "No, we did that last week". *Then he asks, "How
about some N*gg*r food". *Total silence as the rest of us were
shocked. *Then he says "Oh, never mind".
What should I do?


No offense but consider this...........

You are asking for opinions about how you treat your employees and run
your company from a bunch of folks you have never met, know nothing
about and at a boating NG.

Wow.

Vic Smith October 2nd 08 01:26 AM

A racial incident
 
On Wed, 1 Oct 2008 17:16:14 -0700 (PDT), JimH
wrote:

On Oct 1, 12:34Â*pm, wrote:
I have two guys who work in the machine shop here, an older black guy
who knows everything possible about machining and a younger guy who
sorta gets by. Â*They work well together and are friends. Â*We were
talking about where to go for lunch and the young guy asked 'Wanna go
get Chinese food", "No, we did that last week". Â*Then he asks, "How
about some N*gg*r food". Â*Total silence as the rest of us were
shocked. Â*Then he says "Oh, never mind".
What should I do?


No offense but consider this...........

You are asking for opinions about how you treat your employees and run
your company from a bunch of folks you have never met, know nothing
about and at a boating NG.

Wow.


You are severely underestimating the capabilities of this group.
We're a bunch of regular guys, and gave him good advice.
Maybe he should hire a labor relations consulting firm for the answer?
Hire a lawyer?
No. He caught us sober, and it paid off for him.
Boaters give good advice, because they're good folks.
So there.

--Vic

JimH[_2_] October 2nd 08 01:34 AM

A racial incident
 
On Oct 1, 8:26*pm, Vic Smith wrote:
On Wed, 1 Oct 2008 17:16:14 -0700 (PDT), JimH
wrote:



On Oct 1, 12:34*pm, wrote:
I have two guys who work in the machine shop here, an older black guy
who knows everything possible about machining and a younger guy who
sorta gets by. *They work well together and are friends. *We were
talking about where to go for lunch and the young guy asked 'Wanna go
get Chinese food", "No, we did that last week". *Then he asks, "How
about some N*gg*r food". *Total silence as the rest of us were
shocked. *Then he says "Oh, never mind".
What should I do?


No offense but consider this...........


You are asking for opinions about how you treat your employees and run
your company from a bunch of folks you have never met, know nothing
about and at a boating NG.


Wow.


You are severely underestimating the capabilities of this group.
We're a bunch of regular guys, and gave him good advice.
Maybe he should hire a labor relations consulting firm for the answer?
Hire a lawyer?
No. *He caught us sober, and it paid off for him.
Boaters give good advice, because they're good folks.
So there.

--Vic


" Boaters give good advice, because they're good folks."

Huh?

Whatever.




[email protected] October 2nd 08 02:54 AM

A racial incident
 
On Oct 1, 8:34 pm, JimH wrote:
On Oct 1, 8:26 pm, Vic Smith wrote:



On Wed, 1 Oct 2008 17:16:14 -0700 (PDT), JimH
wrote:


On Oct 1, 12:34 pm, wrote:
I have two guys who work in the machine shop here, an older black guy
who knows everything possible about machining and a younger guy who
sorta gets by. They work well together and are friends. We were
talking about where to go for lunch and the young guy asked 'Wanna go
get Chinese food", "No, we did that last week". Then he asks, "How
about some N*gg*r food". Total silence as the rest of us were
shocked. Then he says "Oh, never mind".
What should I do?


No offense but consider this...........


You are asking for opinions about how you treat your employees and run
your company from a bunch of folks you have never met, know nothing
about and at a boating NG.


Wow.


You are severely underestimating the capabilities of this group.
We're a bunch of regular guys, and gave him good advice.
Maybe he should hire a labor relations consulting firm for the answer?
Hire a lawyer?
No. He caught us sober, and it paid off for him.
Boaters give good advice, because they're good folks.
So there.


--Vic


" Boaters give good advice, because they're good folks."

Huh?

Whatever.


Am not likely to make serious decisions based on advice from an
unqualified group. This is all mostly friendly talk. However, you do
represent the sorta average man on the street as you dont know me you
might be kinda sorta maybe possibly unbiased (except Harry of
course). On boating matters, I might even take y'all seriously.
However, the electrolyte thing is prob good advice and cheap to
implement.

Calif Bill October 2nd 08 03:36 AM

A racial incident
 

"Don White" wrote in message
...

wrote in message
...
On Oct 1, 3:09 pm, A Real Boater wrote:
wrote:
On Oct 1, 2:54 pm, wrote:
On Oct 1, 1:35 pm, "Don White" wrote:

wrote in message
...
I have two guys who work in the machine shop here, an older black
guy
who knows everything possible about machining and a younger guy who
sorta gets by. They work well together and are friends. We were
talking about where to go for lunch and the young guy asked 'Wanna
go
get Chinese food", "No, we did that last week". Then he asks, "How
about some N*gg*r food". Total silence as the rest of us were
shocked. Then he says "Oh, never mind".
What should I do?
It's your business?
I'd take him aside and tell him that language isn't acceptable. Then
have
him apologize to the black guy.
I'd document the meeting just in case something came of this problem
in the
future.... you may not have to enter it in the young guys file, but
it
should be at hand.
Funny, though, it's ok for some young black people to use that
language
among themselves, but no whiteboy had better try it.
I've got a black neighbor who frequently has friends and family over
for parties, I'm always invited. I've never heard any of them ever
utter the word. And they don't call white people names either. He
does
however, have a very logical explanation as to why some urban types
do
use that word. But, again, it's logical, so it'd be wasted on all of
the Harryclones.

He knows he did wrong. After lunch he apologized to everybody. Said
he was just kidding with his friend and ran his mouth without
thinking. I laid down the law about such stuff.

Be thankful you don't have a Justwaitaloogy working for you...you'd have
daily fistfights.


I hate having employees. If you ever start your own company, avoid
employees at all costs. Keep people as indep. contractors if
possible. Employees expect you to take care of them and I dont want
to take care of anybody. Am tired of personality conflicts, tired of
worrying about their job security, what about mine? Tired of the
friggin paperwork for each one of em. NJ wants me to garnish one guys
wages for back child support, like hell, that isnt my business.
Workers comp insurance, you gotta be kidding, My god, I was better off
by myself. "I have a Ph.D. and should be making X $/hr" one whines
and I think "In yer friggin dreams, go try to get that around here".
I cut hours of one part timer who didnt get along with anybody and he
blurted out "I just took on $30,000 debt" and my jaw nearly hit the
floor. "Is that my business", I think. What about my company debt
for which I am personally liable, does he expect me to simply mortgage
my house to pay him more? The young guy who made the racial slur
drives a spanking new Ford 150 with every add-on you can imagine and
his wife drives a 2007 Yukon and he confessed to having $60,000 in cc
debt and is now going on a cruise. HOLY SH#$. What planet do these
people live on?
Sorry bout the tirade, just venting


Actually, that kind of crap eventually affects us all.
At some point he'll default on his payments and will either declare
bankruptcy, or will go on some orderly payment scheme at minimal interest.
The sensible people like me end up paying more.
I sure hope there are some good financing schemes this spring when i need
a new SUV.
On the other hand, my investments aren't doing anything..... might be
smarter to apply some monies from there to a new vehicle.


Not much different with you. Leasing a vehicle when there are not tax
advantages. If you have a business, or have to have a car for business,
then leasing makes sense. But for all others, it is buying a car with no
down payment. And there are big restrictions on mileage. Go over that 10K
miles / year, and the cost per mile can be huge. Maybe the guy bought the
vehicles, cause he got 0% financing. Which is not 0%. You can have 0% or
some rebate. You bought down the loan to 0%.



BAR[_2_] October 2nd 08 03:51 AM

A racial incident
 
Calif Bill wrote:
"Don White" wrote in message
...
wrote in message
...
On Oct 1, 3:09 pm, A Real Boater wrote:
wrote:
On Oct 1, 2:54 pm, wrote:
On Oct 1, 1:35 pm, "Don White" wrote:
wrote in message
...
I have two guys who work in the machine shop here, an older black
guy
who knows everything possible about machining and a younger guy who
sorta gets by. They work well together and are friends. We were
talking about where to go for lunch and the young guy asked 'Wanna
go
get Chinese food", "No, we did that last week". Then he asks, "How
about some N*gg*r food". Total silence as the rest of us were
shocked. Then he says "Oh, never mind".
What should I do?
It's your business?
I'd take him aside and tell him that language isn't acceptable. Then
have
him apologize to the black guy.
I'd document the meeting just in case something came of this problem
in the
future.... you may not have to enter it in the young guys file, but
it
should be at hand.
Funny, though, it's ok for some young black people to use that
language
among themselves, but no whiteboy had better try it.
I've got a black neighbor who frequently has friends and family over
for parties, I'm always invited. I've never heard any of them ever
utter the word. And they don't call white people names either. He
does
however, have a very logical explanation as to why some urban types
do
use that word. But, again, it's logical, so it'd be wasted on all of
the Harryclones.
He knows he did wrong. After lunch he apologized to everybody. Said
he was just kidding with his friend and ran his mouth without
thinking. I laid down the law about such stuff.
Be thankful you don't have a Justwaitaloogy working for you...you'd have
daily fistfights.
I hate having employees. If you ever start your own company, avoid
employees at all costs. Keep people as indep. contractors if
possible. Employees expect you to take care of them and I dont want
to take care of anybody. Am tired of personality conflicts, tired of
worrying about their job security, what about mine? Tired of the
friggin paperwork for each one of em. NJ wants me to garnish one guys
wages for back child support, like hell, that isnt my business.
Workers comp insurance, you gotta be kidding, My god, I was better off
by myself. "I have a Ph.D. and should be making X $/hr" one whines
and I think "In yer friggin dreams, go try to get that around here".
I cut hours of one part timer who didnt get along with anybody and he
blurted out "I just took on $30,000 debt" and my jaw nearly hit the
floor. "Is that my business", I think. What about my company debt
for which I am personally liable, does he expect me to simply mortgage
my house to pay him more? The young guy who made the racial slur
drives a spanking new Ford 150 with every add-on you can imagine and
his wife drives a 2007 Yukon and he confessed to having $60,000 in cc
debt and is now going on a cruise. HOLY SH#$. What planet do these
people live on?
Sorry bout the tirade, just venting

Actually, that kind of crap eventually affects us all.
At some point he'll default on his payments and will either declare
bankruptcy, or will go on some orderly payment scheme at minimal interest.
The sensible people like me end up paying more.
I sure hope there are some good financing schemes this spring when i need
a new SUV.
On the other hand, my investments aren't doing anything..... might be
smarter to apply some monies from there to a new vehicle.


Not much different with you. Leasing a vehicle when there are not tax
advantages. If you have a business, or have to have a car for business,
then leasing makes sense. But for all others, it is buying a car with no
down payment. And there are big restrictions on mileage. Go over that 10K
miles / year, and the cost per mile can be huge. Maybe the guy bought the
vehicles, cause he got 0% financing. Which is not 0%. You can have 0% or
some rebate. You bought down the loan to 0%.


Your typical consumer purchaser of a vehicle should purchase with the
intent of keeping the vehicle for 10+ years. The last vehicle we bought
wast the F-150 SuperCrew. Cost $425 a month for 5 years, yes 5 years.
Now we are effectively saving $425 a month for the past 2 years and for
the next 3 to 6 years until we need to purchase another vehicle for me.
By that time we will have save up enough money to do an outright
purchase of the next vehicle. But, we will finance the next vehicle
because it doesn't make sense to stop the money saved from working for
us. I figure that we will still be making 3 or 4 percent while we are
paying off the next vehicle's loan.

Calif Bill October 2nd 08 04:25 AM

A racial incident
 

"BAR" wrote in message
. ..
Calif Bill wrote:
"Don White" wrote in message
...
wrote in message
...
On Oct 1, 3:09 pm, A Real Boater wrote:
wrote:
On Oct 1, 2:54 pm, wrote:
On Oct 1, 1:35 pm, "Don White" wrote:
wrote in message
...
I have two guys who work in the machine shop here, an older black
guy
who knows everything possible about machining and a younger guy
who
sorta gets by. They work well together and are friends. We were
talking about where to go for lunch and the young guy asked 'Wanna
go
get Chinese food", "No, we did that last week". Then he asks,
"How
about some N*gg*r food". Total silence as the rest of us were
shocked. Then he says "Oh, never mind".
What should I do?
It's your business?
I'd take him aside and tell him that language isn't acceptable.
Then have
him apologize to the black guy.
I'd document the meeting just in case something came of this
problem in the
future.... you may not have to enter it in the young guys file, but
it
should be at hand.
Funny, though, it's ok for some young black people to use that
language
among themselves, but no whiteboy had better try it.
I've got a black neighbor who frequently has friends and family over
for parties, I'm always invited. I've never heard any of them ever
utter the word. And they don't call white people names either. He
does
however, have a very logical explanation as to why some urban types
do
use that word. But, again, it's logical, so it'd be wasted on all of
the Harryclones.
He knows he did wrong. After lunch he apologized to everybody. Said
he was just kidding with his friend and ran his mouth without
thinking. I laid down the law about such stuff.
Be thankful you don't have a Justwaitaloogy working for you...you'd
have
daily fistfights.
I hate having employees. If you ever start your own company, avoid
employees at all costs. Keep people as indep. contractors if
possible. Employees expect you to take care of them and I dont want
to take care of anybody. Am tired of personality conflicts, tired of
worrying about their job security, what about mine? Tired of the
friggin paperwork for each one of em. NJ wants me to garnish one guys
wages for back child support, like hell, that isnt my business.
Workers comp insurance, you gotta be kidding, My god, I was better off
by myself. "I have a Ph.D. and should be making X $/hr" one whines
and I think "In yer friggin dreams, go try to get that around here".
I cut hours of one part timer who didnt get along with anybody and he
blurted out "I just took on $30,000 debt" and my jaw nearly hit the
floor. "Is that my business", I think. What about my company debt
for which I am personally liable, does he expect me to simply mortgage
my house to pay him more? The young guy who made the racial slur
drives a spanking new Ford 150 with every add-on you can imagine and
his wife drives a 2007 Yukon and he confessed to having $60,000 in cc
debt and is now going on a cruise. HOLY SH#$. What planet do these
people live on?
Sorry bout the tirade, just venting
Actually, that kind of crap eventually affects us all.
At some point he'll default on his payments and will either declare
bankruptcy, or will go on some orderly payment scheme at minimal
interest.
The sensible people like me end up paying more.
I sure hope there are some good financing schemes this spring when i
need a new SUV.
On the other hand, my investments aren't doing anything..... might be
smarter to apply some monies from there to a new vehicle.


Not much different with you. Leasing a vehicle when there are not tax
advantages. If you have a business, or have to have a car for business,
then leasing makes sense. But for all others, it is buying a car with no
down payment. And there are big restrictions on mileage. Go over that
10K miles / year, and the cost per mile can be huge. Maybe the guy
bought the vehicles, cause he got 0% financing. Which is not 0%. You
can have 0% or some rebate. You bought down the loan to 0%.


Your typical consumer purchaser of a vehicle should purchase with the
intent of keeping the vehicle for 10+ years. The last vehicle we bought
wast the F-150 SuperCrew. Cost $425 a month for 5 years, yes 5 years. Now
we are effectively saving $425 a month for the past 2 years and for the
next 3 to 6 years until we need to purchase another vehicle for me. By
that time we will have save up enough money to do an outright purchase of
the next vehicle. But, we will finance the next vehicle because it doesn't
make sense to stop the money saved from working for us. I figure that we
will still be making 3 or 4 percent while we are paying off the next
vehicle's loan.


Depends on what the actual rate the loan on the car carries. When I bought
my 2004 Chevy diesel, you got 0% or $2500 back. What is the actual rate on
the loan? How much rate drop over 3-4-5 years does $2500 buy you. Since I
pay cash for cars and boats, I took the $2500.



BAR[_2_] October 2nd 08 11:57 AM

A racial incident
 
Calif Bill wrote:
"BAR" wrote in message
. ..
Calif Bill wrote:
"Don White" wrote in message
...
wrote in message
...
On Oct 1, 3:09 pm, A Real Boater wrote:
wrote:
On Oct 1, 2:54 pm, wrote:
On Oct 1, 1:35 pm, "Don White" wrote:
wrote in message
...
I have two guys who work in the machine shop here, an older black
guy
who knows everything possible about machining and a younger guy
who
sorta gets by. They work well together and are friends. We were
talking about where to go for lunch and the young guy asked 'Wanna
go
get Chinese food", "No, we did that last week". Then he asks,
"How
about some N*gg*r food". Total silence as the rest of us were
shocked. Then he says "Oh, never mind".
What should I do?
It's your business?
I'd take him aside and tell him that language isn't acceptable.
Then have
him apologize to the black guy.
I'd document the meeting just in case something came of this
problem in the
future.... you may not have to enter it in the young guys file, but
it
should be at hand.
Funny, though, it's ok for some young black people to use that
language
among themselves, but no whiteboy had better try it.
I've got a black neighbor who frequently has friends and family over
for parties, I'm always invited. I've never heard any of them ever
utter the word. And they don't call white people names either. He
does
however, have a very logical explanation as to why some urban types
do
use that word. But, again, it's logical, so it'd be wasted on all of
the Harryclones.
He knows he did wrong. After lunch he apologized to everybody. Said
he was just kidding with his friend and ran his mouth without
thinking. I laid down the law about such stuff.
Be thankful you don't have a Justwaitaloogy working for you...you'd
have
daily fistfights.
I hate having employees. If you ever start your own company, avoid
employees at all costs. Keep people as indep. contractors if
possible. Employees expect you to take care of them and I dont want
to take care of anybody. Am tired of personality conflicts, tired of
worrying about their job security, what about mine? Tired of the
friggin paperwork for each one of em. NJ wants me to garnish one guys
wages for back child support, like hell, that isnt my business.
Workers comp insurance, you gotta be kidding, My god, I was better off
by myself. "I have a Ph.D. and should be making X $/hr" one whines
and I think "In yer friggin dreams, go try to get that around here".
I cut hours of one part timer who didnt get along with anybody and he
blurted out "I just took on $30,000 debt" and my jaw nearly hit the
floor. "Is that my business", I think. What about my company debt
for which I am personally liable, does he expect me to simply mortgage
my house to pay him more? The young guy who made the racial slur
drives a spanking new Ford 150 with every add-on you can imagine and
his wife drives a 2007 Yukon and he confessed to having $60,000 in cc
debt and is now going on a cruise. HOLY SH#$. What planet do these
people live on?
Sorry bout the tirade, just venting
Actually, that kind of crap eventually affects us all.
At some point he'll default on his payments and will either declare
bankruptcy, or will go on some orderly payment scheme at minimal
interest.
The sensible people like me end up paying more.
I sure hope there are some good financing schemes this spring when i
need a new SUV.
On the other hand, my investments aren't doing anything..... might be
smarter to apply some monies from there to a new vehicle.

Not much different with you. Leasing a vehicle when there are not tax
advantages. If you have a business, or have to have a car for business,
then leasing makes sense. But for all others, it is buying a car with no
down payment. And there are big restrictions on mileage. Go over that
10K miles / year, and the cost per mile can be huge. Maybe the guy
bought the vehicles, cause he got 0% financing. Which is not 0%. You
can have 0% or some rebate. You bought down the loan to 0%.

Your typical consumer purchaser of a vehicle should purchase with the
intent of keeping the vehicle for 10+ years. The last vehicle we bought
wast the F-150 SuperCrew. Cost $425 a month for 5 years, yes 5 years. Now
we are effectively saving $425 a month for the past 2 years and for the
next 3 to 6 years until we need to purchase another vehicle for me. By
that time we will have save up enough money to do an outright purchase of
the next vehicle. But, we will finance the next vehicle because it doesn't
make sense to stop the money saved from working for us. I figure that we
will still be making 3 or 4 percent while we are paying off the next
vehicle's loan.


Depends on what the actual rate the loan on the car carries. When I bought
my 2004 Chevy diesel, you got 0% or $2500 back. What is the actual rate on
the loan? How much rate drop over 3-4-5 years does $2500 buy you. Since I
pay cash for cars and boats, I took the $2500.


I never pay cash for cars or boats. Always pay with somebody else's
money and pay it back over time with cheaper money.



[email protected] October 2nd 08 01:31 PM

A racial incident
 
On Oct 1, 8:34*pm, JimH wrote:
On Oct 1, 8:26*pm, Vic Smith wrote:





On Wed, 1 Oct 2008 17:16:14 -0700 (PDT), JimH
wrote:


On Oct 1, 12:34*pm, wrote:
I have two guys who work in the machine shop here, an older black guy
who knows everything possible about machining and a younger guy who
sorta gets by. *They work well together and are friends. *We were
talking about where to go for lunch and the young guy asked 'Wanna go
get Chinese food", "No, we did that last week". *Then he asks, "How
about some N*gg*r food". *Total silence as the rest of us were
shocked. *Then he says "Oh, never mind".
What should I do?


No offense but consider this...........


You are asking for opinions about how you treat your employees and run
your company from a bunch of folks you have never met, know nothing
about and at a boating NG.


Wow.


You are severely underestimating the capabilities of this group.
We're a bunch of regular guys, and gave him good advice.
Maybe he should hire a labor relations consulting firm for the answer?
Hire a lawyer?
No. *He caught us sober, and it paid off for him.
Boaters give good advice, because they're good folks.
So there.


--Vic


" Boaters give good advice, because they're good folks."

Huh?

Whatever.- Hide quoted text -

- Show quoted text -


It's okay, Jim, I think he meant BESIDES you and your lover/clone
Harry.

Robert Jones[_2_] October 2nd 08 02:29 PM

A racial incident
 

"JimH" wrote in message
...

No offense but consider this...........

You are asking for opinions about how you treat your employees and run
your company from a bunch of folks you have never met, know nothing
about and at a boating NG.

Wow.

Great insight from someone who hasn't even earned the love and respect of
his kids. No offense.


[email protected] October 2nd 08 03:10 PM

A racial incident
 
On Oct 2, 8:31 am, wrote:
On Oct 1, 8:34 pm, JimH wrote:



On Oct 1, 8:26 pm, Vic Smith wrote:


On Wed, 1 Oct 2008 17:16:14 -0700 (PDT), JimH
wrote:


On Oct 1, 12:34 pm, wrote:
I have two guys who work in the machine shop here, an older black guy
who knows everything possible about machining and a younger guy who
sorta gets by. They work well together and are friends. We were
talking about where to go for lunch and the young guy asked 'Wanna go
get Chinese food", "No, we did that last week". Then he asks, "How
about some N*gg*r food". Total silence as the rest of us were
shocked. Then he says "Oh, never mind".
What should I do?


No offense but consider this...........


You are asking for opinions about how you treat your employees and run
your company from a bunch of folks you have never met, know nothing
about and at a boating NG.


Wow.


You are severely underestimating the capabilities of this group.
We're a bunch of regular guys, and gave him good advice.
Maybe he should hire a labor relations consulting firm for the answer?
Hire a lawyer?
No. He caught us sober, and it paid off for him.
Boaters give good advice, because they're good folks.
So there.


--Vic


" Boaters give good advice, because they're good folks."


Huh?


Whatever.- Hide quoted text -


- Show quoted text -


It's okay, Jim, I think he meant BESIDES you and your lover/clone
Harry.


I desperately need a newer truck. My old Nissan with 315,000 miles is
far beyond dead and has now achieved automotive zombie status. She
has no clutch anymore and nothing on her works. However, I always
tell myself, ok, just another couple months. I have not had car
payments in 20 yrs and loathe the idea. Then there is the down
payment which I dont have right now. I wont do payments over $300/
month or for more then 4 yrs so I need a big downpayment. Then there
is insurance on a new vehicle...........OK, I just talked myself into
keeping the zombie for another 6 months.

A Real Boater October 2nd 08 03:18 PM

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wrote:

I desperately need a newer truck. My old Nissan with 315,000 miles is
far beyond dead and has now achieved automotive zombie status. She
has no clutch anymore and nothing on her works. However, I always
tell myself, ok, just another couple months. I have not had car
payments in 20 yrs and loathe the idea. Then there is the down
payment which I dont have right now. I wont do payments over $300/
month or for more then 4 yrs so I need a big downpayment. Then there
is insurance on a new vehicle...........OK, I just talked myself into
keeping the zombie for another 6 months.



There are plenty of recent vintage low mileage used trucks on the market
right now, and at prices so low they seem other-worldly.

[email protected] October 2nd 08 04:49 PM

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On Oct 2, 10:10*am, wrote:
On Oct 2, 8:31 am, wrote:





On Oct 1, 8:34 pm, JimH wrote:


On Oct 1, 8:26 pm, Vic Smith wrote:


On Wed, 1 Oct 2008 17:16:14 -0700 (PDT), JimH
wrote:


On Oct 1, 12:34 pm, wrote:
I have two guys who work in the machine shop here, an older black guy
who knows everything possible about machining and a younger guy who
sorta gets by. *They work well together and are friends. *We were
talking about where to go for lunch and the young guy asked 'Wanna go
get Chinese food", "No, we did that last week". *Then he asks, "How
about some N*gg*r food". *Total silence as the rest of us were
shocked. *Then he says "Oh, never mind".
What should I do?


No offense but consider this...........


You are asking for opinions about how you treat your employees and run
your company from a bunch of folks you have never met, know nothing
about and at a boating NG.


Wow.


You are severely underestimating the capabilities of this group.
We're a bunch of regular guys, and gave him good advice.
Maybe he should hire a labor relations consulting firm for the answer?
Hire a lawyer?
No. *He caught us sober, and it paid off for him.
Boaters give good advice, because they're good folks.
So there.


--Vic


" Boaters give good advice, because they're good folks."


Huh?


Whatever.- Hide quoted text -


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It's okay, Jim, I think he meant BESIDES you and your lover/clone
Harry.


I desperately need a newer truck. *My old Nissan with 315,000 miles is
far beyond dead and has now achieved automotive zombie status. *She
has no clutch anymore and nothing on her works. *However, I always
tell myself, ok, just another couple months. *I have not had car
payments in 20 yrs and loathe the idea. *Then there is the down
payment which I dont have right now. *I wont do payments over $300/
month or for more then 4 yrs so I need a big downpayment. *Then there
is insurance on a new vehicle...........OK, I just talked myself into
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Same here, I hate payments on something that is going down in value. I
still miss my Jeep, but the problem was that it was handling worse all
the time, and those old school steering knuckles are a bitch to get
right. If your Nissan runs okay, I'd put a clutch in it some weekend!

DK October 3rd 08 12:32 AM

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BAR wrote:


Your typical consumer purchaser of a vehicle should purchase with the
intent of keeping the vehicle for 10+ years. The last vehicle we bought
wast the F-150 SuperCrew. Cost $425 a month for 5 years, yes 5 years.
Now we are effectively saving $425 a month for the past 2 years and for
the next 3 to 6 years until we need to purchase another vehicle for me.
By that time we will have save up enough money to do an outright
purchase of the next vehicle. But, we will finance the next vehicle
because it doesn't make sense to stop the money saved from working for
us. I figure that we will still be making 3 or 4 percent while we are
paying off the next vehicle's loan.


Unless you get an outstanding interest rate (less than prime, for
example), you are better off paying cash. You aren't "making" anything
while you pay off a loan - you are paying interest on a depreciating asset.

You are also only "saving $425 a month" if you have no repair expenses.
That's the risk you take when you keep a vehicle for a long time
beyond it's warranty.


DK October 3rd 08 12:37 AM

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BAR wrote:


I never pay cash for cars or boats. Always pay with somebody else's
money and pay it back over time with cheaper money.



I don't understand your theory. In the end, you are paying for it with
your money and you are paying more than the selling price unless you
found a 0% deal.

What it "cheaper money"? I'd like to get some!

Calif Bill October 3rd 08 12:44 AM

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wrote in message
...
On Oct 2, 8:31 am, wrote:
On Oct 1, 8:34 pm, JimH wrote:



On Oct 1, 8:26 pm, Vic Smith wrote:


On Wed, 1 Oct 2008 17:16:14 -0700 (PDT), JimH
wrote:


On Oct 1, 12:34 pm, wrote:
I have two guys who work in the machine shop here, an older black
guy
who knows everything possible about machining and a younger guy
who
sorta gets by. They work well together and are friends. We were
talking about where to go for lunch and the young guy asked 'Wanna
go
get Chinese food", "No, we did that last week". Then he asks,
"How
about some N*gg*r food". Total silence as the rest of us were
shocked. Then he says "Oh, never mind".
What should I do?


No offense but consider this...........


You are asking for opinions about how you treat your employees and
run
your company from a bunch of folks you have never met, know nothing
about and at a boating NG.


Wow.


You are severely underestimating the capabilities of this group.
We're a bunch of regular guys, and gave him good advice.
Maybe he should hire a labor relations consulting firm for the
answer?
Hire a lawyer?
No. He caught us sober, and it paid off for him.
Boaters give good advice, because they're good folks.
So there.


--Vic


" Boaters give good advice, because they're good folks."


Huh?


Whatever.- Hide quoted text -


- Show quoted text -


It's okay, Jim, I think he meant BESIDES you and your lover/clone
Harry.


I desperately need a newer truck. My old Nissan with 315,000 miles is
far beyond dead and has now achieved automotive zombie status. She
has no clutch anymore and nothing on her works. However, I always
tell myself, ok, just another couple months. I have not had car
payments in 20 yrs and loathe the idea. Then there is the down
payment which I dont have right now. I wont do payments over $300/
month or for more then 4 yrs so I need a big downpayment. Then there
is insurance on a new vehicle...........OK, I just talked myself into
keeping the zombie for another 6 months.


Look at Craigs list and salvage titles.



Calif Bill October 3rd 08 12:45 AM

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"BAR" wrote in message
. ..
Calif Bill wrote:
"BAR" wrote in message
. ..
Calif Bill wrote:
"Don White" wrote in message
...
wrote in message
...
On Oct 1, 3:09 pm, A Real Boater wrote:
wrote:
On Oct 1, 2:54 pm, wrote:
On Oct 1, 1:35 pm, "Don White" wrote:
wrote in message
...
I have two guys who work in the machine shop here, an older
black guy
who knows everything possible about machining and a younger guy
who
sorta gets by. They work well together and are friends. We
were
talking about where to go for lunch and the young guy asked
'Wanna go
get Chinese food", "No, we did that last week". Then he asks,
"How
about some N*gg*r food". Total silence as the rest of us were
shocked. Then he says "Oh, never mind".
What should I do?
It's your business?
I'd take him aside and tell him that language isn't acceptable.
Then have
him apologize to the black guy.
I'd document the meeting just in case something came of this
problem in the
future.... you may not have to enter it in the young guys file,
but it
should be at hand.
Funny, though, it's ok for some young black people to use that
language
among themselves, but no whiteboy had better try it.
I've got a black neighbor who frequently has friends and family
over
for parties, I'm always invited. I've never heard any of them ever
utter the word. And they don't call white people names either. He
does
however, have a very logical explanation as to why some urban
types do
use that word. But, again, it's logical, so it'd be wasted on all
of
the Harryclones.
He knows he did wrong. After lunch he apologized to everybody.
Said
he was just kidding with his friend and ran his mouth without
thinking. I laid down the law about such stuff.
Be thankful you don't have a Justwaitaloogy working for you...you'd
have
daily fistfights.
I hate having employees. If you ever start your own company, avoid
employees at all costs. Keep people as indep. contractors if
possible. Employees expect you to take care of them and I dont want
to take care of anybody. Am tired of personality conflicts, tired of
worrying about their job security, what about mine? Tired of the
friggin paperwork for each one of em. NJ wants me to garnish one
guys
wages for back child support, like hell, that isnt my business.
Workers comp insurance, you gotta be kidding, My god, I was better
off
by myself. "I have a Ph.D. and should be making X $/hr" one whines
and I think "In yer friggin dreams, go try to get that around here".
I cut hours of one part timer who didnt get along with anybody and he
blurted out "I just took on $30,000 debt" and my jaw nearly hit the
floor. "Is that my business", I think. What about my company debt
for which I am personally liable, does he expect me to simply
mortgage
my house to pay him more? The young guy who made the racial slur
drives a spanking new Ford 150 with every add-on you can imagine and
his wife drives a 2007 Yukon and he confessed to having $60,000 in cc
debt and is now going on a cruise. HOLY SH#$. What planet do these
people live on?
Sorry bout the tirade, just venting
Actually, that kind of crap eventually affects us all.
At some point he'll default on his payments and will either declare
bankruptcy, or will go on some orderly payment scheme at minimal
interest.
The sensible people like me end up paying more.
I sure hope there are some good financing schemes this spring when i
need a new SUV.
On the other hand, my investments aren't doing anything..... might be
smarter to apply some monies from there to a new vehicle.

Not much different with you. Leasing a vehicle when there are not tax
advantages. If you have a business, or have to have a car for
business, then leasing makes sense. But for all others, it is buying a
car with no down payment. And there are big restrictions on mileage.
Go over that 10K miles / year, and the cost per mile can be huge.
Maybe the guy bought the vehicles, cause he got 0% financing. Which is
not 0%. You can have 0% or some rebate. You bought down the loan to
0%.
Your typical consumer purchaser of a vehicle should purchase with the
intent of keeping the vehicle for 10+ years. The last vehicle we bought
wast the F-150 SuperCrew. Cost $425 a month for 5 years, yes 5 years.
Now we are effectively saving $425 a month for the past 2 years and for
the next 3 to 6 years until we need to purchase another vehicle for me.
By that time we will have save up enough money to do an outright
purchase of the next vehicle. But, we will finance the next vehicle
because it doesn't make sense to stop the money saved from working for
us. I figure that we will still be making 3 or 4 percent while we are
paying off the next vehicle's loan.


Depends on what the actual rate the loan on the car carries. When I
bought my 2004 Chevy diesel, you got 0% or $2500 back. What is the
actual rate on the loan? How much rate drop over 3-4-5 years does $2500
buy you. Since I pay cash for cars and boats, I took the $2500.


I never pay cash for cars or boats. Always pay with somebody else's money
and pay it back over time with cheaper money.



Depends how much you can get on your money and how much you have to pay for
that money.



Mike[_10_] October 3rd 08 01:10 AM

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"DK" wrote in message
...
BAR wrote:


I never pay cash for cars or boats. Always pay with somebody else's money
and pay it back over time with cheaper money.



I don't understand your theory. In the end, you are paying for it with
your money and you are paying more than the selling price unless you found
a 0% deal.

What it "cheaper money"? I'd like to get some!


That approach only works with an asset that appreciates in value. You know,
like real estate used to g. With a depreciating asset like a car or boat,
it's only good at 0% interest as you say.

--Mike



D.Duck October 3rd 08 01:27 AM

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"Mike" wrote in message
...

"DK" wrote in message
...
BAR wrote:


I never pay cash for cars or boats. Always pay with somebody else's
money and pay it back over time with cheaper money.



I don't understand your theory. In the end, you are paying for it with
your money and you are paying more than the selling price unless you
found a 0% deal.

What it "cheaper money"? I'd like to get some!


That approach only works with an asset that appreciates in value. You
know, like real estate used to g. With a depreciating asset like a car
or boat, it's only good at 0% interest as you say.

--Mike


Any zero percent deal I've seen on cars always resulted in a higher selling
price. Every case I looked into resulted in higher *net* than paying cash,
even considering the interest lost from where ever the cash was held.

I have done a few zero percent deals on consumer electronics where you pay
the same whether you take advantage of the no interest or pay cash. We are
now watching our new large screen HDTV with zero percent interest payments
over two years.



DK October 3rd 08 01:35 AM

A racial incident
 
D.Duck wrote:
"Mike" wrote in message
...
"DK" wrote in message
...
BAR wrote:

I never pay cash for cars or boats. Always pay with somebody else's
money and pay it back over time with cheaper money.


I don't understand your theory. In the end, you are paying for it with
your money and you are paying more than the selling price unless you
found a 0% deal.

What it "cheaper money"? I'd like to get some!

That approach only works with an asset that appreciates in value. You
know, like real estate used to g. With a depreciating asset like a car
or boat, it's only good at 0% interest as you say.

--Mike


Any zero percent deal I've seen on cars always resulted in a higher selling
price. Every case I looked into resulted in higher *net* than paying cash,
even considering the interest lost from where ever the cash was held.

I have done a few zero percent deals on consumer electronics where you pay
the same whether you take advantage of the no interest or pay cash. We are
now watching our new large screen HDTV with zero percent interest payments
over two years.



I take advantage of those deals, too. If Best Buy wants to finance my
TV or refrigerator for 24 months, with zero interest, why not? I'm
still making a few buck in my money market savings.

JimH[_2_] October 3rd 08 01:42 AM

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On Oct 2, 7:37*pm, DK wrote:
BAR wrote:

I never pay cash for cars or boats. Always pay with somebody else's
money and pay it back over time with cheaper money.


I don't understand your theory. *In the end, you are paying for it with
your money and you are paying more than the selling price unless you
found a 0% deal.

What it "cheaper money"? *I'd like to get some!


From 2002 through 2007 my investments earned 10+% (often significantly
higher) while car and boat loans were below that.

Not a hard thing to understand but we all know why you don't.


[email protected] October 3rd 08 03:06 AM

A racial incident
 
On Oct 2, 8:42 pm, JimH wrote:
On Oct 2, 7:37 pm, DK wrote:

BAR wrote:


I never pay cash for cars or boats. Always pay with somebody else's
money and pay it back over time with cheaper money.


I don't understand your theory. In the end, you are paying for it with
your money and you are paying more than the selling price unless you
found a 0% deal.


What it "cheaper money"? I'd like to get some!


From 2002 through 2007 my investments earned 10+% (often significantly
higher) while car and boat loans were below that.

Not a hard thing to understand but we all know why you don't.


Am on 2nd clutch and this time it isnt the clutch but is the
transmission simply being too worn to shift smoothly. I dont
understand transmissions so I cannot say why, Worn out rear end with
differential making noise, cannot align her anymore due to all the
front end being worn out. Yes, could rebuild her but I'd get
revolution from my wife if I decided to. 2nd engine is at only
115,000 miles though.
Am I living in the past thinking that $20,000 is too much to pay for a
double cab truck with less than 30,000 miles?


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