"Clams Canino" wrote:
Don't assume she won't go to bat for him

I haven't assumed that. But she's the one with the say so in this
whole thing and we haven't heard from her. All we can do is offer the
boyfriend advice and it's not his house.

Fact is you can still do whatever you want

Of course you can. If you're willing to put your girlfriend at risk
while risking zip zero nada yourself.

By the time they can properly react to
the dreaded boat being serviced.... it's already gone.

And you hope that's the end of it, for the girlfriend's sake. And if
by some wild chance you're wrong, it's no skin off the boyfriend's
nose, and to hell with the girlfriend.

And the ****er is,
you give them the credit for "being right" - so you took it out.

I said they (HOA) were right?? Excuse meeee??? I have no more clue
who's right than you do. All I know is this whole thing is between the
HOA and the girlfriend. The boyfriend isn't on the deed, doesn't pay
the mortgage, the taxes, the insurance, doesn't even live there, and
he has NO standing whatsoever with the HOA. To argue with them, he's
GOT to put his girlfriend in the middle.

Then do it again - and again - making sure they win every single battle and
still loose the war.

Good luck

(Just grow a pair, and use them as Squeak Toys)

Apparently, I'm not the one that's missing a pair. So you would allow
your girlfriend to accept 100% of the risk for YOUR 100% benefit?

Rick