"basskisser" wrote in message
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JR North wrote:
Come ON...don't you know that womens bathrooms at gas stations have
grafitti 10X worse than the mens (don't ask how I know). He's unlikely
to offend any female boater types. Takes a sure footed, secure woman to
make a good skipper or mate. No pansy ass, blue-stockings types here.
JR


Bull****.... all of it.


Bassy......swearing may be just as offensive to the women. ;-)

On 7 Jun 2006 07:42:35 -0700, "basskisser" wrote:


Tim wrote:
my 15 yr., old daughter hears worse than that at school.


And that makes it good behavior? What to hell kind of a school does she
go to?

Take a walk down the halls of any school. They're talking that way in 7th
grade. If corrected, the 7th graders will apologize. By the time they're
9th graders, they for sure won't apologize. I had one kid say, "F... you!"
right in my face. He got suspended for a week, but that just makes him
famous.

Very often people will engage in bad behavior simply because it makes them
famous amongst their 'peers'.
--
John H

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***** Have a Spectacular Day! *****
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JohnH wrote:
On 7 Jun 2006 07:42:35 -0700, "basskisser" wrote:


Tim wrote:
my 15 yr., old daughter hears worse than that at school.


And that makes it good behavior? What to hell kind of a school does she
go to?

Take a walk down the halls of any school. They're talking that way in 7th
grade. If corrected, the 7th graders will apologize. By the time they're
9th graders, they for sure won't apologize. I had one kid say, "F... you!"
right in my face. He got suspended for a week, but that just makes him
famous.

Very often people will engage in bad behavior simply because it makes them
famous amongst their 'peers'.
--
John H

Perhaps. Here they seem to do a good job of creating values that are
conducive to getting a decent education and later a job. Our local
highschool is always at or close to the top of the various education
games, debates etc. The *popular* ones here are the ones who rise to
the top academically. At any rate, I doubt that they talk about their
breath smelling like they've had oral sex with a disease ridden
Phillippino prostitute.... and given that this rec.boats is open to
anyone, I don't think such comments are appropriate.

On 7 Jun 2006 12:09:01 -0700, "basskisser" wrote:


JohnH wrote:
On 7 Jun 2006 07:42:35 -0700, "basskisser" wrote:


Tim wrote:
my 15 yr., old daughter hears worse than that at school.


And that makes it good behavior? What to hell kind of a school does she
go to?

Take a walk down the halls of any school. They're talking that way in 7th
grade. If corrected, the 7th graders will apologize. By the time they're
9th graders, they for sure won't apologize. I had one kid say, "F... you!"
right in my face. He got suspended for a week, but that just makes him
famous.

Very often people will engage in bad behavior simply because it makes them
famous amongst their 'peers'.
--
John H

Perhaps. Here they seem to do a good job of creating values that are
conducive to getting a decent education and later a job. Our local
highschool is always at or close to the top of the various education
games, debates etc. The *popular* ones here are the ones who rise to
the top academically. At any rate, I doubt that they talk about their
breath smelling like they've had oral sex with a disease ridden
Phillippino prostitute.... and given that this rec.boats is open to
anyone, I don't think such comments are appropriate.

Only a small percent of the population engage in 'bad' behavior. But the
numbers are big enough to be noticeable. Every school has it's winners and
losers. The winners are popular with winners, the losers with losers. There
are often conflicts between the winners and losers because of envy.
Threatening behavior and intimidation will sometimes allow losers to drag
folks down to their level of performance.

That is the shame of it all.
--
John H

******************************************
***** Have a Spectacular Day! *****
******************************************

basskisser wrote:
Tim wrote:
Odd. You seem to think it's quite exceptable here, though huh?

I have no idea where you cam to that conclusion, and I'm not going to
wersue it any farther.
..

Here they punish kids for that trash talk, as well they should. I want
my kids to grow up to be something besides trash talking street thugs.

I totally agree.
John H's comments were likewise correct. A teacher gets cussed at and
the kid is a hero to his peers. When I was in high school, a kid
through an M-80 in a trash can jsut to impress his other low-life
dudes, and it sent a piece of shrapnel into a girls arm. He was
deffinately kicked out of school, as well as being arrested. One thing
I remember, is when the police cane to pick the kid up, they hand
cuffed him, and he was laughing all the way to the squad car.
Yeah...impressive. A real man...

My daughter is a very clean mouthed kid who is in the top honors, is a
"star" in girls basket ball and volley ball, and for one just finishing
her sophmore year, has written essays to various orgainizations
(American Legion VFW etc), A couple of her papers have reached and won
national competition, and for her rewards, and has recieved four
scholorships...so far.

"I want
my kids to grow up to be something besides trash talking street thugs."

There always have been, and always will be those that choose this type
of path.

and yes, you can hear worse comments than marines at the local high
school.

JohnH wrote:
On 7 Jun 2006 12:09:01 -0700, "basskisser" wrote:


JohnH wrote:
On 7 Jun 2006 07:42:35 -0700, "basskisser" wrote:


Tim wrote:
my 15 yr., old daughter hears worse than that at school.


And that makes it good behavior? What to hell kind of a school does she
go to?

Take a walk down the halls of any school. They're talking that way in 7th
grade. If corrected, the 7th graders will apologize. By the time they're
9th graders, they for sure won't apologize. I had one kid say, "F... you!"
right in my face. He got suspended for a week, but that just makes him
famous.

Very often people will engage in bad behavior simply because it makes them
famous amongst their 'peers'.
--
John H

Perhaps. Here they seem to do a good job of creating values that are
conducive to getting a decent education and later a job. Our local
highschool is always at or close to the top of the various education
games, debates etc. The *popular* ones here are the ones who rise to
the top academically. At any rate, I doubt that they talk about their
breath smelling like they've had oral sex with a disease ridden
Phillippino prostitute.... and given that this rec.boats is open to
anyone, I don't think such comments are appropriate.

Only a small percent of the population engage in 'bad' behavior. But the
numbers are big enough to be noticeable. Every school has it's winners and
losers. The winners are popular with winners, the losers with losers. There
are often conflicts between the winners and losers because of envy.
Threatening behavior and intimidation will sometimes allow losers to drag
folks down to their level of performance.

That is the shame of it all.
--
John H

Hell, that starts in grade school.

On 7 Jun 2006 13:31:13 -0700, "basskisser" wrote:


JohnH wrote:
On 7 Jun 2006 12:09:01 -0700, "basskisser" wrote:


JohnH wrote:
On 7 Jun 2006 07:42:35 -0700, "basskisser" wrote:


Tim wrote:
my 15 yr., old daughter hears worse than that at school.


And that makes it good behavior? What to hell kind of a school does she
go to?

Take a walk down the halls of any school. They're talking that way in 7th
grade. If corrected, the 7th graders will apologize. By the time they're
9th graders, they for sure won't apologize. I had one kid say, "F... you!"
right in my face. He got suspended for a week, but that just makes him
famous.

Very often people will engage in bad behavior simply because it makes them
famous amongst their 'peers'.
--
John H

Perhaps. Here they seem to do a good job of creating values that are
conducive to getting a decent education and later a job. Our local
highschool is always at or close to the top of the various education
games, debates etc. The *popular* ones here are the ones who rise to
the top academically. At any rate, I doubt that they talk about their
breath smelling like they've had oral sex with a disease ridden
Phillippino prostitute.... and given that this rec.boats is open to
anyone, I don't think such comments are appropriate.

Only a small percent of the population engage in 'bad' behavior. But the
numbers are big enough to be noticeable. Every school has it's winners and
losers. The winners are popular with winners, the losers with losers. There
are often conflicts between the winners and losers because of envy.
Threatening behavior and intimidation will sometimes allow losers to drag
folks down to their level of performance.

That is the shame of it all.
--
John H

Hell, that starts in grade school.

And often continues into adulthood!
--
John H

******************************************
***** Have a Spectacular Day! *****
******************************************

That's nothing. Back in the late '60's, I had a 5 yr old tell me F***
You! and try to spit on me because I wouldn't buy him a candy bar at the
corner store we were next to. I would have loved to meet his parents and
tell them off, but they prolly would have shot me.
JR

JohnH wrote:



Take a walk down the halls of any school. They're talking that way in 7th
grade. If corrected, the 7th graders will apologize. By the time they're
9th graders, they for sure won't apologize. I had one kid say, "F... you!"
right in my face. He got suspended for a week, but that just makes him
famous.

Very often people will engage in bad behavior simply because it makes them
famous amongst their 'peers'.
--
John H

******************************************
***** Have a Spectacular Day! *****
******************************************


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Tim wrote:
basskisser wrote:
Tim wrote:
Odd. You seem to think it's quite exceptable here, though huh?

I have no idea where you cam to that conclusion, and I'm not going to
wersue it any farther.
.

Here they punish kids for that trash talk, as well they should. I want
my kids to grow up to be something besides trash talking street thugs.

I totally agree.
John H's comments were likewise correct. A teacher gets cussed at and
the kid is a hero to his peers. When I was in high school, a kid
through an M-80 in a trash can jsut to impress his other low-life
dudes, and it sent a piece of shrapnel into a girls arm. He was
deffinately kicked out of school, as well as being arrested. One thing
I remember, is when the police cane to pick the kid up, they hand
cuffed him, and he was laughing all the way to the squad car.
Yeah...impressive. A real man...

My daughter is a very clean mouthed kid who is in the top honors, is a
"star" in girls basket ball and volley ball, and for one just finishing
her sophmore year, has written essays to various orgainizations
(American Legion VFW etc), A couple of her papers have reached and won
national competition, and for her rewards, and has recieved four
scholorships...so far.

"I want
my kids to grow up to be something besides trash talking street thugs."

There always have been, and always will be those that choose this type
of path.

and yes, you can hear worse comments than marines at the local high
school.

Yep, again, if you choose to associate with thugs, you will hear that
kind of crap. But, once again, you fail to understand that we as
humans, can decide not to talk like that, especially in a newsgroup
that is frequented by many who probably really don't want to hear about
someone having oral sex with Philippino whores.

Gene Kearns wrote:
On Tue, 06 Jun 2006 14:50:37 -0400, Harry Krause
wrote:



I'm not a prude of any sort, but perhaps you should try to refrain from
that a little, there are women who read this stuff. A little respect is
a good thing.


Oh, come on. Stop netcopping.


You are trying to say, uh, "Innocence Abused," perhaps?

http://redwing.hutman.net/%7Emreed/index.htm

Heeheehee, he's Innocence Abused while at least one of the women he
refers to (namely me) would be more likely classed as Toxic Granny.