Since we are now into our 2nd week at Bar Harbor it would be hard to
quibble with your picks. There are some other anchorages near here
that offer more in terms of scenic beauty but less in the way of
cruising amenities such as restaurants, fuel, marine supplies,
groceries, laundry, WiFi, etc. We've found Bar Harbor to be a very
friendly little place where people will go out of there way to lend a
hand when you need it.

With regard to Stonington, I would pick either nearby Mystic Seaport or
Fishers Island West Harbor first. Dodsons has always been a first rate
boatyard however so maybe Stonington gets the nod if you need work done.