Take responsibility for your life and quit blaming others.

Funny- I would have thought that when a person:

I spent 16 years going to night school, working full time, playing by the
rules,
married, kids. I have the highest tech education there is BSEE embedded
systems development.
Also over 23 years experience in the engineering field.

they *were* taking a decent measure of responsibility for life.

When a law abiding citizen is mugged by a criminal, was the law abiding citizen
"irresponsible"?