I'm not going to drag the scenario of what we went through on this public
forum, Max, but suffice it to say, the "sister protector" as you called her
was after one thing...money...and if you sit through Care Conferences that
involve family members, that is what motivates most people in their
decisions about nursing homes, health care, etc. Mom's money is now being
used to take care of her. We do not care if there is nothing left over when
she goes. Unfortunately, that was not the case on the other side. the
other thing is that she lives in Minnesota, removed from the situation. And
like I said, we see Mom every day. We go in at mealtime and feed her. I do
some of her personal care. So, in retrospect, your judgment of me is about
par with mine of you...and that's the last of this discussion.

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