katysails wrote
Bart, you are one sad, poor man....

It is plain
that learning is less important to girls, while boys pay
attention and learn.

Bull****

Think back to when you were a teenager katy. I've been
able to get boys to study when they were not focused, but
girls give up quit, and run away to talk with their girl friends.
Send them to their room and they are on the phone or
in a chat room. Disconnecting the phone and internet just
made them more ingenious at sneaking out, using borrowed
cell phones, or pouring on the tears until someone else gives
in to them.


Young girls are emotional and spend all their time thinking
about boys, cloths, getting married, and children.

Bull****

This is what teenage girls tell me. I've seen it. It is not
bull**** in the majority of the cases. .


girls don't pay attention and rarely
have career goals when they are young.

more bull****

That my impression too. When I ask them what their
career goals are they often chose lofty goals, and take
no steps in that directions. When I try to mentor them
and tell them what the need to do to work towards that
goals they ignore they alwasy lose interest. They like
the idea of having a lofty goal, but don't care to put
much effort into persuing it--until they get older.


...and the rest is just more and more of the same crap......

You hang around with very strange women if that's the impression you have
of
them....the women I know are directed, goal oriented people with carefully
planned out careers...they have climbed up the ladder to the positions
they
hold...

I have to agree with you. Many of the women I meet are very
strange. It is clear to me that age is the key factor in determining
the maturity of a woman. Often it is not until around age 30-40 that they
begin to rely on their brains instead of their bodies


Many women tend to lack trust, be anxious, and overreact.

The nicest type of woman is the helper type. They are real team
players as long as they get what they want. These can be generous,
caring and nurturing and display enormous empathy.

In most cases women have agendas that are visible to men, but
invisible to themselves.

Often they are manipulative--a skill perfected in childhood
they rarely grow out of. Often they don't comprehend how transparent
their games are, because men give them room to hang themselves.

Many times women have fear of abandonment issues because
of their parents broken marriages. I've met a number of women
who continually tested me, by acting crazy, just to see if I'll leave
them. Passing the test only means a new harder test in a couple
of weeks--because they are convinced men always leave their
women. Finally it reaches a point where you have the choice
of physical abuse or leaving--I chose the latter. Or if you spot
this characteristic early you can leave the relationship before being
tortured too long. These sorts of women like underdog causes
but winning is not important, it is the struggle they enjoy.

Many women I meet can't complete things. They start something
take it 90% of the way and then stop and move on to something
else.

A man can tell a woman straight out what is important to him and
what is not, and women will most often agree with everything he
says, but in reality ignore it, and work towards changing his views
to hers. They figure that "Love" will change his mind, or hope to
get married and force the change.
mind later.

The most common tpe of woman I meet is the impulsivesocialite
sophisticate. Underneath that is a woman who is extremely selfish
and ready to drop her friends and plans if something else more
engaging comes also.



Unfortunately, Heinlein's little quip isn't really a truism....Many women
do
not do as they please...they try to please men....they have been taught
culturally that that is the way to succeed...those are the women you speak
of...women who have been trained by men to act that way....Stepford
Women....So don't complain about the monsters that you have made...(for
examples, just read some of Horvath's posts regarding women...)

That is exactly my point. When they do as they please they are focused
on boys. Meanwhile the boys aren't interested at that age.





--
katysails
s/v Chanteuse
Kirie Elite 32
http://katysails.tripod.com

"Women and cats will do as they please, and men and dogs should relax
and get used to the idea." - Robert A. Heinlein



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