On Sun, 27 Nov 2005 10:16:25 -0500, Harry Krause wrote:

I find it intriguing that virtually none of the righties here are
willing to reveal much of anything about themselves, but they are always
probing others for information they can use later.

The best response to any of the secretive righties who want information?
Up yours.

Hertvik is a perfect case in point. And, of course, the classics are
Skipper and Smithers, the conjoined bottom-feeders.


Wow. To a 'T'!

The narcissist expects that you will be devastated by the withdrawal of her/his
divine attention, so that after a while -- a few weeks or months (i.e., the next
time the narcissist needs to use you for something) -- the narcissist will
expect you to have learned your lesson and be eager to return to the fold. If
you have learned your lesson, you won't answer that call. They can't see that
they have a problem; it's always somebody else who has the problem and needs to
change. Therapies work at all only when the individual wants to change and,
though narcissists hate their real selves, they don't want to change -- they
want the world to change. * And they criticize, gripe, and complain about almost
everything and almost everyone almost all the time.*
--
John H

"It's not a *baby* kicking, beautiful bride, it's just a fetus!"
[A Self-obsessed Hypocrite]