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![]() You are not, in my opinion, a sap. You are a person that saw somthing wrong in the world (liter), who could quite easily do something about it, and did it. I think the reason people do things like this is because their sense of self only extendes to about the edges of their skin. I don't like to say that such a person is "selfish" because I believe in self interest as a positive force. In my view it was your healthy self interest that made you pick that plastic up. I would pick it up because I have a sense of self that extends to others. To seeing that it's important for me that others are not needlessly hurt, etc. I can't say that I never do something wrong like liter. But I almost always try to pick up more than my share whether I'm out in the boat or walking down the road. The same type of behavior goes for me in other areas like tipping at restaurants, being nice to other dirves on the road even when they are jerks, being kind by letting people go ahead of me in the supermarket line if they have few items, etc. Once in a while I notice that *I've* done something wrong. Maybe I realize that I tipped less because I calculated wrong. Or maybe I'm in a big hurry or a bad mood or just not thinking and I do something I really normally wouldn't. Of course the person I *did* whatever to doesn't know it. But I'm comforted knowing that I'm not usually like that. I realize that we're all human and sometimes make mistakes. Another thing to consider. Sometimes something happened that you don't know about. Maybe that guy put the plastic in his truck but it blew out (or something like that) and for whatever reason he didn't notice. Sloppy, yes. But I try to remember that sometimes other do bad things by "mistake" just as I do. As for being a sap. My American Heritage defines it as, "Slang. A gullible person; a dupe." I can see how picking up after another person might make you feel that you are doing all the work for someone else's fun. But was it really that hard? Doesn't it give you some satisfaction to have done what, at least in your mind, was the right thing? You (and I) don't do these things to help the slob that left it there. We do it for ourselves and for the other good people we respect in the world. |