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On 8/28/2013 5:11 PM, wrote:
On Wed, 28 Aug 2013 16:58:47 -0400, "F.O.A.D." wrote: On 8/28/13 4:16 PM, wrote: On Wed, 28 Aug 2013 15:58:34 -0400, "F.O.A.D." wrote: Rehab, any kind, is generally ineffective over the long haul. People either decide to stop or they don't but you can't make them if they don't want to. Right, so let's not even try, right? The question is "how many times"? The guy next door to me has been to rehab about 10 times, at tax payer expense and it has not made a lick of difference. He calls it "going to the spa" This is the same guy who has been "Baker acted" about a dozen times (involuntary assessment for "up to 72 hours") He has that down to about 4 hours because he knows what to say. They tried jail the last time and he was supposed to be locked up for a while but I still see him walking around. (if you can call that shuffling stumble "walking") I tried to help for years but I gave up on him 3 arrests ago. This guy can really tell a story and make you believe he wants to get better but once a junkie, always a junkie. Well, we all know that your years of experience with the addict next door plus, of course, your years of experience treating addicts of all varieties plus your educational background plus your years of supervision give you the wherewithal to make black or white pronouncements about the efficacy of all manner of treatment for all manner of addicts. There's no question that successfully treating substance abuse is not an easy task, and that a high percentage of addicts fall back into their bad habits. But that doesn't mean we should give up on addicts and addiction treatment. Oh, and "once a junkie, always a junkie" is hyperbolic bull****. How many do you know? How many were cured? The guy next door is just a good example of lots of experience I have with a number of these people. Maybe it is just because I don't live in that rarified air of academia you live in. Addicts there are more deeply closeted and hidden from view by families rich enough to keep them under wraps. I have known lots of junkies, ran into a bunch over the last twenty years in Essex area... I really can't think of one who has successfully kicked yet. In fact, I can't think of one that isn't on a downward spiral with maybe some slow decent periods, but still all in all, on the way down... |
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On 8/28/13 5:24 PM, JustWaitAFrekinMinute wrote:
On 8/28/2013 5:11 PM, wrote: On Wed, 28 Aug 2013 16:58:47 -0400, "F.O.A.D." wrote: On 8/28/13 4:16 PM, wrote: On Wed, 28 Aug 2013 15:58:34 -0400, "F.O.A.D." wrote: Rehab, any kind, is generally ineffective over the long haul. People either decide to stop or they don't but you can't make them if they don't want to. Right, so let's not even try, right? The question is "how many times"? The guy next door to me has been to rehab about 10 times, at tax payer expense and it has not made a lick of difference. He calls it "going to the spa" This is the same guy who has been "Baker acted" about a dozen times (involuntary assessment for "up to 72 hours") He has that down to about 4 hours because he knows what to say. They tried jail the last time and he was supposed to be locked up for a while but I still see him walking around. (if you can call that shuffling stumble "walking") I tried to help for years but I gave up on him 3 arrests ago. This guy can really tell a story and make you believe he wants to get better but once a junkie, always a junkie. Well, we all know that your years of experience with the addict next door plus, of course, your years of experience treating addicts of all varieties plus your educational background plus your years of supervision give you the wherewithal to make black or white pronouncements about the efficacy of all manner of treatment for all manner of addicts. There's no question that successfully treating substance abuse is not an easy task, and that a high percentage of addicts fall back into their bad habits. But that doesn't mean we should give up on addicts and addiction treatment. Oh, and "once a junkie, always a junkie" is hyperbolic bull****. How many do you know? How many were cured? The guy next door is just a good example of lots of experience I have with a number of these people. Maybe it is just because I don't live in that rarified air of academia you live in. Addicts there are more deeply closeted and hidden from view by families rich enough to keep them under wraps. I have known lots of junkies, ran into a bunch over the last twenty years in Essex area... I really can't think of one who has successfully kicked yet. In fact, I can't think of one that isn't on a downward spiral with maybe some slow decent periods, but still all in all, on the way down... Indeed, I am sure you and your gang of fellow junkies are on the way down. |
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![]() wrote in message ... On Wed, 28 Aug 2013 15:58:34 -0400, "F.O.A.D." wrote: Rehab, any kind, is generally ineffective over the long haul. People either decide to stop or they don't but you can't make them if they don't want to. Right, so let's not even try, right? The question is "how many times"? The guy next door to me has been to rehab about 10 times, at tax payer expense and it has not made a lick of difference. He calls it "going to the spa" This is the same guy who has been "Baker acted" about a dozen times (involuntary assessment for "up to 72 hours") He has that down to about 4 hours because he knows what to say. They tried jail the last time and he was supposed to be locked up for a while but I still see him walking around. (if you can call that shuffling stumble "walking") I tried to help for years but I gave up on him 3 arrests ago. This guy can really tell a story and make you believe he wants to get better but once a junkie, always a junkie. ---------------------------------- Yesterday I ran into a guy I know but had not seen in about a year. He's an alcoholic and drug abuser. It culminated in a boating accident where he was found partially responsible in another person's death due to operating a boat while intoxicated. He didn't serve any jail time but entered rehab. I've seen him off an on since and he had remained totally sober. Until 3 months ago. After seven years of not drinking, he was at a party and someone started making Mimosas. All it took was one and he's back to drinking again. Sad. |
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On 8/28/13 5:35 PM, wrote:
On Wed, 28 Aug 2013 17:23:40 -0400, "F.O.A.D." wrote: On 8/28/13 5:11 PM, wrote: How many do you know? How many were cured? The guy next door is just a good example of lots of experience I have with a number of these people. Maybe it is just because I don't live in that rarified air of academia you live in. Addicts there are more deeply closeted and hidden from view by families rich enough to keep them under wraps. You may have "experienced" relationships of some sort with a limited number of addicts, but you have no professional education, experience, or credentials in addiction or its treatment, nor are you considered any sort of expert in the field. You have a few anecdotes. OK your turn. Show me some peer reviewed studies about the 10 year success of "rehab". I'm sure you can do your own lit search. Have at it. |
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![]() On Tue, 27 Aug 2013 21:33:33 -0400, "F.O.A.D." wrote: (CN) - An avowed atheist who was jailed for refusing to participate in a 12-step treatment program deserves a new trial of his civil rights claims, the 9th Circuit ruled. Herr Krause should be outraged by this but, I doubt he will be. http://www.nypost.com/p/news/opinion..._sip_of_water_ 7zwT2vBrUGqhDzasfQxkKK |
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On Wednesday, August 28, 2013 5:46:52 PM UTC-4, BAR wrote:
Herr Krause should be outraged by this but, I doubt he will be. http://www.nypost.com/p/news/opinion..._sip_of_water_ 7zwT2vBrUGqhDzasfQxkKK Herr Krause hasn't come "out " yet...... |
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On Wednesday, August 28, 2013 11:12:24 AM UTC-5, F.O.A.D. wrote:
On 8/28/13 11:22 AM, wrote: On Tue, 27 Aug 2013 21:33:33 -0400, "F.O.A.D." wrote: (CN) - An avowed atheist who was jailed for refusing to participate in a 12-step treatment program deserves a new trial of his civil rights claims, the 9th Circuit ruled. Barry Hazle sued his parole officer, several California corrections officials and Westcare Corp. after they revoked his probation for a drug conviction because of his "congenial" refusal to recognize a higher power, as the 12-step recovery method requires. Hazle said he told officials several times about his atheism and reluctance to participate in religious treatment programs after pleading no-contest in 2006 to possession of methamphetamine. Nonetheless, in 2007 he was paroled to a 90-day residential program that offered only the 12 Steps, many of which call for explicit acceptance of God. When he refused to participate, staff reported Hazle to his parole officer, saying that he was being "disruptive, though in a congenial way, to the staff as well as other students," according to the ruling. Hazle then found himself back in prison for another 100 days. His federal civil rights action sought damages for false imprisonment, among other things. U.S. District Judge Garland Burrell in San Francisco found the defendants were indeed liable for depriving Hazle of his First Amendment rights and turned the issue over to a jury to determine the amount of damages. The jury awarded zero damages. Hazle shot back with a motion for a new trial, but was denied. A three-judge panel of the 9th Circuit reversed Friday, finding that Hazle was entitled to something. "The district judge's finding of liability establishes that Hazle suffered actual injury when he was unconstitutionally incarcerated," Judge Stephen Reinhardt wrote for the court. "Given this undisputed finding that Hazle's constitutional rights were violated, and applying the rule that the award of compensatory damages is mandatory when the existence of actual injury is beyond dispute, we hold that the district judge erred in refusing to hold that Hazle was, as a matter of law, entitled to compensatory damages. We therefore reverse the district judge's denial of Hazle's motion for a new trial." http://tinyurl.com/p4pmh65 - - - Ahh, the religious. Has anyone had any better success with drug addiction? The 12-Step programs are self-help and reassurance programs, they are not the sort of "therapy" many addicts need. That therapy incorporates traditional therapy, whether individual or group, and in many cases, prescription therapy. If a drug addict goes cold turkey by himself/herself and right into some 12-step program, the addict has a good chance of falling over and dying. The religious underpinnings and overlay of 12-step programs are off-putting for many addicts. A lot of people simply don't want religion shoved down their throats. " The religious underpinnings and overlay of 12-step programs are off-putting for many addicts. " There's a lot of substance/alcohol abusers who while in the `12-step' programs , follow the religious overtones closely. |
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![]() "Tim" wrote in message ... On Wednesday, August 28, 2013 11:12:24 AM UTC-5, F.O.A.D. wrote: On 8/28/13 11:22 AM, wrote: The religious underpinnings and overlay of 12-step programs are off-putting for many addicts. A lot of people simply don't want religion shoved down their throats. There's a lot of substance/alcohol abusers who while in the `12-step' programs , follow the religious overtones closely. --------------------- Last year when I was involved with a family member's rehab and first steps with recovery I got a copy of the "Big Book" to read what the 12 step thing was all about. I had never heard of the "Big Book" and had only heard about the "12 step program" in the form of jokes. I had no clue what they actually were. Pretty naïve I guess for a guy my age. I confess that I didn't read the Big Book cover to cover, but I read enough to get the history, ideas and concepts. I didn't think it overly pushes religion at all, and certainly doesn't push any particular theology. I got the it really doesn't care what you believe in as long as you acknowledge that there are bigger things in the universe than yourselves. I was also fortunate to have several people who I had met (mostly through the guitar shop) who confided their status as recovering addicts to me. Prior to that I had no idea. They helped me and my wife deal with my family member's addiction and explained their respective adaptations of and implementation of the 12 step program as it applied to them . Some took it more literally than others, but it seemed to benefit them all. I certainly don't think it "shoves" religion down anyone's throats. |
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On 8/28/2013 9:31 PM, Mr. Luddite wrote:
"Tim" wrote in message ... On Wednesday, August 28, 2013 11:12:24 AM UTC-5, F.O.A.D. wrote: On 8/28/13 11:22 AM, wrote: The religious underpinnings and overlay of 12-step programs are off-putting for many addicts. A lot of people simply don't want religion shoved down their throats. There's a lot of substance/alcohol abusers who while in the `12-step' programs , follow the religious overtones closely. --------------------- Last year when I was involved with a family member's rehab and first steps with recovery I got a copy of the "Big Book" to read what the 12 step thing was all about. I had never heard of the "Big Book" and had only heard about the "12 step program" in the form of jokes. I had no clue what they actually were. Pretty naïve I guess for a guy my age. I confess that I didn't read the Big Book cover to cover, but I read enough to get the history, ideas and concepts. I didn't think it overly pushes religion at all, and certainly doesn't push any particular theology. I got the it really doesn't care what you believe in as long as you acknowledge that there are bigger things in the universe than yourselves. I was also fortunate to have several people who I had met (mostly through the guitar shop) who confided their status as recovering addicts to me. Prior to that I had no idea. They helped me and my wife deal with my family member's addiction and explained their respective adaptations of and implementation of the 12 step program as it applied to them . Some took it more literally than others, but it seemed to benefit them all. I certainly don't think it "shoves" religion down anyone's throats. It certainly trumps any treatment Harry has offered up. ? ? What's the weather forecast for your 20 early Thursday PM? |
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