A narcissist often criticises or villifies others but hates it when
others criticise him or her.
A narcissist likes to receive praise from others but often dislikes to
hear other people being praised.
Therefore, if you are in the habit of often speaking well of people
(always giving praise when praise is due) then you may soon encounter
objections from narcissists who hate to see others being praised. In
this way, you may start to see narcissists raising their heads above
the parapet, thereby giving you clues as to which people are most
narcissistic.
A narcissist likes to ask favours of others but dislikes it when
others ask too many favours of him or her.
A narcissist can be dishonest but at the same time is a master of
disguise and can lie very convincingly.
A narcissist thinks that he or she is entitled to special privileges
or special treatment.
A narcissist dislikes others to be late when meeting him or her.
A narcissist is interpersonally exploitative and takes advantage of
others to achieve his or her own ends.
A narcissist has little or no empathy and is unwilling or unable to
recognize or identify with the feelings and needs of others.
A narcissist is often envious of others or believes that others are
envious of him or her.
A narcissist seeks to control the family finances.
A narcissist often has an arrogant affect (e.g. haughty behaviours or
attitudes).

The narcissist doesn't believe in equality, or at least not when it
affects him. Equality would seem demeaning to the narcissist if it
applied to him

He's an expert at detraction and calumny. He can gossip with an
innocent composure. He can assassinate a person's reputation and yet
make the assassination seem like decent conversation.

He will often project, criticising you for the very things that he
himself is guilty of. He might gallingly tell you that you have no
sympathy, or that you are a control freak, or that you were trying to
be the centre of attention when the visitors were in. He might even
tell you that you are behaving hysterically when you are not even
angry. Listen carefully to what he accuses you of because it might
well tell you what he is doing, thinking or planning.

The narcissist seems to be very focused on his/her own needs and
preferences and consequently seems almost oblivious to the needs of
others or contemptuous of the preferences of others. The exception is
when the narcissist is in the company of someone whom he/she is
seeking to impress.

On May 27, 1:29*pm, HK wrote:
Wizard of Woodstock wrote:
On Wed, 27 May 2009 08:54:40 -0700 (PDT), wrote:

He's an expert at detraction and calumny

I had some calumny once - I got sick from it.

Or was that clam chowder?

Oh - wait - that was alum powder.

Sorry.

I'd bet $100 Loogy-for-brains would have to look up calumny to know what
it means.

It's nice you are helping the handicapped by reading his posts, Tom.

Notice if you will, the following excerpt from the article:

A narcissist often criticises or villifies others but hates it when
others criticise him or her.

And

A narcissist often has an arrogant affect (e.g. haughty behaviours or
attitudes).

And finally:

A narcissist often criticises or villifies others but hates it when
others criticise him or her.

Gee, Harry, you're too much of a narcissist to even stop posting to a
thread about narcissists! Thank you for making fortifying my point.

HK wrote:
Wizard of Woodstock wrote:
On Wed, 27 May 2009 08:54:40 -0700 (PDT), wrote:

He's an expert at detraction and calumny

I had some calumny once - I got sick from it.

Or was that clam chowder?

Oh - wait - that was alum powder.

Sorry.



I'd bet $100 Loogy-for-brains would have to look up calumny to know what
it means.

It's nice you are helping the handicapped by reading his posts, Tom.

Had to look it up myself. Not surprised that it was on your most read
word list though.

On May 27, 1:58*pm, jim7856 wrote:
HK wrote:
Wizard of Woodstock wrote:
On Wed, 27 May 2009 08:54:40 -0700 (PDT), wrote:

He's an expert at detraction and calumny

I had some calumny once - I got sick from it.

Or was that clam chowder?

Oh - wait - that was alum powder.

Sorry.

I'd bet $100 Loogy-for-brains would have to look up calumny to know what
it means.

It's nice you are helping the handicapped by reading his posts, Tom.

Had to look it up myself. Not surprised that it was on your most read
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It is great that Harry knows some archaic words. That must make a
wonder career. Oh, wait, his wife supports him.

On Wed, 27 May 2009 13:29:58 -0400, HK wrote:

Wizard of Woodstock wrote:
On Wed, 27 May 2009 08:54:40 -0700 (PDT), wrote:

He's an expert at detraction and calumny

I had some calumny once - I got sick from it.

Or was that clam chowder?

Oh - wait - that was alum powder.

Sorry.



I'd bet $100 Loogy-for-brains would have to look up calumny to know what
it means.

It's nice you are helping the handicapped by reading his posts, Tom.

Harry, I was at Breezy Point on Monday. Thought I'd stop by and say
'hello', but I lost your address when my hard drive blew up. Please
repost it.

TIA.
--

John H

On May 27, 3:01*pm, John H wrote:
On Wed, 27 May 2009 13:29:58 -0400, HK wrote:
Wizard of Woodstock wrote:
On Wed, 27 May 2009 08:54:40 -0700 (PDT), wrote:

He's an expert at detraction and calumny

I had some calumny once - I got sick from it.

Or was that clam chowder?

Oh - wait - that was alum powder.

Sorry.

I'd bet $100 Loogy-for-brains would have to look up calumny to know what
it means.

It's nice you are helping the handicapped by reading his posts, Tom.

Harry, I was at Breezy Point on Monday. Thought I'd stop by and say
'hello', but I lost your address when my hard drive blew up. Please
repost it.

TIA.
--

John H- Hide quoted text -

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Boy, the word calumny (that Harry thinks I don't know what it means)
sure fits Harry to a tee, doesn't it?

On May 27, 1:29*pm, HK wrote:
Wizard of Woodstock wrote:
On Wed, 27 May 2009 08:54:40 -0700 (PDT), wrote:

He's an expert at detraction and calumny

I had some calumny once - I got sick from it.

Or was that clam chowder?

Oh - wait - that was alum powder.

Sorry.

I'd bet $100 Loogy-for-brains would have to look up calumny to know what
it means.

It's nice you are helping the handicapped by reading his posts, Tom.

A warning to anyone here reading that doesn't know our friend Harry...
He is not good for a bet so don't waste your time...

On May 27, 3:42*pm, wrote:
On May 27, 1:29*pm, HK wrote:





Wizard of Woodstock wrote:
On Wed, 27 May 2009 08:54:40 -0700 (PDT), wrote:

He's an expert at detraction and calumny

I had some calumny once - I got sick from it.

Or was that clam chowder?

Oh - wait - that was alum powder.

Sorry.

I'd bet $100 Loogy-for-brains would have to look up calumny to know what
it means.

It's nice you are helping the handicapped by reading his posts, Tom.

A warning to anyone here reading that doesn't know our friend Harry...
He is not good for a bet so don't waste your time...- Hide quoted text -

- Show quoted text -

Boy, you're not kidding there! He's backed out of more bets than Pete
Rose!

On May 27, 12:29*pm, HK wrote:
Wizard of Woodstock wrote:
On Wed, 27 May 2009 08:54:40 -0700 (PDT), wrote:

He's an expert at detraction and calumny

I had some calumny once - I got sick from it.

Or was that clam chowder?

Oh - wait - that was alum powder.

Sorry.

I'd bet $100 Loogy-for-brains would have to look up calumny to know what
it means.

It's nice you are helping the handicapped by reading his posts, Tom.

Hey Harry, Old Boy. What was the new Supreme Court nominee like when
you were at Yale with her? Did you date? With you self proclaimed
sexual prowess, I was just wondering if ....

wrote:
On May 27, 1:29 pm, HK wrote:
Wizard of Woodstock wrote:
On Wed, 27 May 2009 08:54:40 -0700 (PDT), wrote:
He's an expert at detraction and calumny
I had some calumny once - I got sick from it.
Or was that clam chowder?
Oh - wait - that was alum powder.
Sorry.
I'd bet $100 Loogy-for-brains would have to look up calumny to know what
it means.

It's nice you are helping the handicapped by reading his posts, Tom.

A warning to anyone here reading that doesn't know our friend Harry...
He is not good for a bet so don't waste your time...


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