A new life
 

On Sat, 31 Mar 2007 19:48:08 GMT, John Cairns
wrote:

http://entertainment.webshots.com/ph...31781966UXVgSj

Divorce in progress, bumped into this place, don't believe in
coincidences anymore. Can purchase a slip directly across the street in
the background, giving it serious thought. It's a little bit further to
open water than my old marina, but the idea of having my boat about 100
feet away is very appealing.

John Cairns


as one who spent eight years of his boat owning history 800 miles from
his boat, 100' sounds like a dream.

Frank

A new life
 

wrote:
John Cairns wrote:
http://entertainment.webshots.com/ph...31781966UXVgSj

Divorce in progress, bumped into this place, don't believe in
coincidences anymore. Can purchase a slip directly across the street in
the background, giving it serious thought. It's a little bit further to
open water than my old marina, but the idea of having my boat about 100
feet away is very appealing.


Sorry to hear of the divorce. It may be the best thing for you at this
point, but it's still a damn shame to see what was once a good and
promising love (and it must have been, if you married her) go so far
astray that you don't even want it back. I hope that things go as
smoothly for you as they can.

As for the new place, it looks nice & 100' from the boat sounds like
fun. But don't be seduced by trying to show off for revenge. Keep an
eye on the long term.

Sincere best wishes to you, John
Doug King


Naah, the soon to be x doesn't even know about it. I told her what I
wanted to do, that I had an offer on the place and it had been accepted.
She went back and forth about signing the 3 pieces of paper required by
the lender-most lenders in fact.A week before the closing she was still
waffling and I was at my wits end, the owners have a place in Venice,
Fla and they're ready to leave Mi. Had a flash of divine inspiration,
called the credit union and they said fine, we don't need her to sign
anything, they got me approved and all of the paperwork done in time for
the closing. AFAIK, she still doesn't know I'm here, she made the
helpful suggestion to have the home phone put in my name(she moved out
with the kid in mid-January), I did that and had the phone and Internet
moved to the new address. Wonder when she's going to find out? Would
love to see the look on her face when she does. This was an incredibly
sweet deal, it came completely furnished with some really nice nautical
artwork, all with local associations,everything, big ass flat screen tv
with home theater, truly amazing, all I had to do was bring my clothing
and food and the kitties-no dogs, thank you-and I was all set. Will post
up some pics of some of the artwork.

John Cairns

A new life
 

John Cairns wrote:
wrote:

John Cairns wrote:

http://entertainment.webshots.com/ph...31781966UXVgSj

Divorce in progress, bumped into this place, don't believe in
coincidences anymore. Can purchase a slip directly across the street in
the background, giving it serious thought. It's a little bit further to
open water than my old marina, but the idea of having my boat about 100
feet away is very appealing.


Sorry to hear of the divorce. It may be the best thing for you at this
point, but it's still a damn shame to see what was once a good and
promising love (and it must have been, if you married her) go so far
astray that you don't even want it back. I hope that things go as
smoothly for you as they can.

As for the new place, it looks nice & 100' from the boat sounds like
fun. But don't be seduced by trying to show off for revenge. Keep an
eye on the long term.

Sincere best wishes to you, John
Doug King


Naah, the soon to be x doesn't even know about it. I told her what I
wanted to do, that I had an offer on the place and it had been accepted.
She went back and forth about signing the 3 pieces of paper required by
the lender-most lenders in fact.A week before the closing she was still
waffling and I was at my wits end, the owners have a place in Venice,
Fla and they're ready to leave Mi. Had a flash of divine inspiration,
called the credit union and they said fine, we don't need her to sign
anything, they got me approved and all of the paperwork done in time for
the closing. AFAIK, she still doesn't know I'm here, she made the
helpful suggestion to have the home phone put in my name(she moved out
with the kid in mid-January), I did that and had the phone and Internet
moved to the new address. Wonder when she's going to find out? Would
love to see the look on her face when she does. This was an incredibly
sweet deal, it came completely furnished with some really nice nautical
artwork, all with local associations,everything, big ass flat screen tv
with home theater, truly amazing, all I had to do was bring my clothing
and food and the kitties-no dogs, thank you-and I was all set. Will post
up some pics of some of the artwork.

John Cairns

Kids won't tell her when you have them over?

A new life
 

katy wrote:

Kids won't tell her when you have them over?

My son-will be 17 in July-is really ****ed off at me, blames me for
everything, and my crazy wife is probably doing nothing to dissuade him
of that notion. I have to go through her to see him, and at present, due
to the nature of our last conversation, I told her that she needed to
communicate through her lawyer only. She's done some incredibly ****ty
things since this all began, starting with almost completely looting our
joint accounts, ending with her sending my son over to pick up MY mail,
she had already submitted a change of address at this point and was
receiving her mail.In my son's defense, he has Asperberger's and he
probably didn't realize what he was doing, doubt if my wife told him.
I've had to go to extraordinary lengths to cover my ass. She swore up
and down that she would not drag my son into this, she has done exactly
that. Best I can say for her is that she has a serious mental illness,
or suffers from some kind of psychotic break with reality. Haven't
actually spoken with my son since January and I miss him terribly. Gonna
try to ambush him at the end of the week, would like him to see my new
place and let him know that he's always welcome.

John Cairns

A new life
 

John Cairns wrote:
katy wrote:

Kids won't tell her when you have them over?

My son-will be 17 in July-is really ****ed off at me, blames me for
everything, and my crazy wife is probably doing nothing to dissuade him
of that notion. I have to go through her to see him, and at present, due
to the nature of our last conversation, I told her that she needed to
communicate through her lawyer only. She's done some incredibly ****ty
things since this all began, starting with almost completely looting our
joint accounts, ending with her sending my son over to pick up MY mail,
she had already submitted a change of address at this point and was
receiving her mail.In my son's defense, he has Asperberger's and he
probably didn't realize what he was doing, doubt if my wife told him.
I've had to go to extraordinary lengths to cover my ass. She swore up
and down that she would not drag my son into this, she has done exactly
that. Best I can say for her is that she has a serious mental illness,
or suffers from some kind of psychotic break with reality. Haven't
actually spoken with my son since January and I miss him terribly. Gonna
try to ambush him at the end of the week, would like him to see my new
place and let him know that he's always welcome.

John Cairns

Oh, John..that's too bad...if your son's been diagnosed and your wife is
showing symptoms, there's a good chance she's bi=polar...the two
syndromes share the smae genetic markers and there is a predilection for
bi-polars to have auticstic kids and visa versa...sorry for all your
troubles, but the house is excellent (even if it IS in Michigan!)...

A new life
 

"katy" wrote in message
...
John Cairns wrote:
katy wrote:

Kids won't tell her when you have them over?

My son-will be 17 in July-is really ****ed off at me, blames me for
everything, and my crazy wife is probably doing nothing to dissuade
him of that notion. I have to go through her to see him, and at
present, due to the nature of our last conversation, I told her that
she needed to communicate through her lawyer only. She's done some
incredibly ****ty things since this all began, starting with almost
completely looting our joint accounts, ending with her sending my son
over to pick up MY mail, she had already submitted a change of
address at this point and was receiving her mail.In my son's defense,
he has Asperberger's and he probably didn't realize what he was
doing, doubt if my wife told him. I've had to go to extraordinary
lengths to cover my ass. She swore up and down that she would not
drag my son into this, she has done exactly that. Best I can say for
her is that she has a serious mental illness, or suffers from some
kind of psychotic break with reality. Haven't actually spoken with my
son since January and I miss him terribly. Gonna try to ambush him at
the end of the week, would like him to see my new place and let him
know that he's always welcome.

John Cairns

Oh, John..that's too bad...if your son's been diagnosed and your wife
is showing symptoms, there's a good chance she's bi=polar...the two
syndromes share the smae genetic markers and there is a predilection
for bi-polars to have auticstic kids and visa versa...sorry for all
your troubles, but the house is excellent (even if it IS in
Michigan!)...

All this foolish talk makes me wish for the good old days when women had
nervous breakdowns and kids were just a little slow (mentally retarded).
Now that we got all politically correct, we have to contend with a
plethora of inane syndromes and bogus disorders to clutter up the
landscape and swell the drug company coffers. Everybody's a victim of
something or other. Pathetic!

Wilbur Hubbard