"Lady Pilot" wrote in message
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"Bob Crantz" wrote:
I wouldn't consider her an a**hole, unless she had malicious intent not
standing watches.

Some people have no idea or no control over what they are.

Oh sure they do, I believe. It's all in the motivation to get someone to
change.

I said "some people". Outside of that grouping, there are some people that
do change.



You can't change them and getting mad at them doesn't do squat.

Very true!

The best is to accept them for what they are and avoid them at all cost.

Why would you do that? Unless of course you didn't have the time or
interest into investing in their lives...

Or you don't want the consequences. Screw ups are screw ups. If you are into
codependency then it may be worth it.

Amen!



LP