So why should we have to back into a slip?

Because you were talking about having to climb over bow pulpits to get off a
boat.
Then there was the bowsprit thing. Personally I'd like to keep a chainsaw
at my marina to take care of the dimwits who park their bowsprit equiped boats
with the bowsprit protruding half way over the pier.
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