Harry  wrote:

You're a homophobe...

You're probably the homophobe, although you'll never get it.

You repeatedly make derogatory comments about men engaging in anal sex,
accusing people you don't like of enjoying it. So often do you reference
it that others have questioned your male homosexual anal fixation.

It may be that you're speaking from experience and now there's a
self-loathing about having engaged in it.

Or, you are the homophobe.

Johnson