hk wrote:

The powers that be willing, my wife will be "Dr. Karen" sometime this
year, and there is no achievement in my life or hers that will make me
prouder. It'll be one hell of an accomplishment, far outreaching
anything I have ever done or even considered doing in the "academic" world.

Perhaps she'll have time now to help you with your on line persona.
Nothing will make her prouder than helping you clean up your act. Go
ahead. Make her proud.