Bruce,
Lets define detonation first, just so we are both on the same sheet of
music. Detonation is the collision of two simultaneous spreading flame
fronts sweeping across the combustion chamber. When the two flame fronts
collide, the remaining fuel burns at an explosive rate causing both a very
rapid rise in cylinder pressure and temperature. Under normal operation the
fuel/ air charge ignites from a single point in the squish area of the
combustion chamber and ignition propagates at a controlled rate so that all
the fuel is burning before the piston starts its downward travel. This is
timed so that the maximum cylinder pressure achieved from the burn occurs at
the most advantageous crankshaft angle. The start of the ignition cycle is
supposed to be controlled by spark timing on gasoline engines and injector
timing on diesels. The extent of the damage caused by this phenomena is a
product of the remaining fuel yet unburned at the time of the collision. You
are correct when you stated that detonation can be observed in many other
engine types. In point of fact, it can also occur in firearms. All fuels are
designed to burn at a controlled rate and temperature, but when those
parameters are exceeded, the burn characteristics of the fuel change.

I disagree with your statement that your experiences are at odds with mine.
I don't think they are. Your experience in Iran as the first example, I
suggest, was not detonation, it was overheating caused by the lean
condition. This violated the stoichiometric ratio of fuel and air that
gasoline is designed to burn within and the burn temperature rose to
abnormal levels overheating the piston causing thermal expansion beyond the
available space for this (piston/cylinder clearance), hence the seizure.
This is also the case in racing two stroke motorcycles. In the old days lube
oil was added to the fuel at fueling time, which made the fuel air ratio
important for lubrication as well as burn parameters. On all later model
high performance two stroke engines, a separate oil pump was employed that
metered oil into the air fuel stream from a separate oil tank eliminating
this fuel/oil dependency. It may be necessary to state that lean is mean.
All internal combustion engines are really hot air engines and it is the
displacement difference of the ingested air at atmospheric temperatures
verses the same air heated by fuel combustion that drives the piston
downward, not the exhaust gases of the fuel burned. So, it stands to reason
that the more heat generated during the ignition cycle, the greater the
cylinder pressure achieved. Maximum heat is generated in the leaner side of
stoichiometric, so it can be a fine line between max power and disaster.
Now, I am not saying detonation did not occur, I was not there, but if it
did occur, it was a secondary effect, not primary and in point of fact, the
addition of excessive oil in the fuel aggravated the condition.

In the case of Detroit Diesel engines (DDA), yes, they very happily will run
on their own lube oil, but that is not detonation it is simply compression
ignition, as the self ignition temperature of lube oil and diesel fuel is
similar. This fact supports my original statement that the addition of lube
oil causes detonation in gasoline engines, because gasoline self ignites at
a higher temperature than lube oil. Please recall the big warning sign in
the cabs of the military trucks with multi fuel engines stating not to use
high octane gasoline. This is because the compression temperature rise in
not sufficient to ignite that fuel.

Please note that I have avoided the causes of detonation because there are
many. This discussion is only about the presence of lube oil in gasoline and
there is a limit of tolerance before the compression ignition of the oil
takes place prior to the occurrence of the spark. This causes pinging which
is normally heard by the operator, but if this warning is ignored and wide
open throttle (WOT) is used, you can expect melted parts.
Steve