On Mon, 19 Jan 2009 03:51:19 +0100 (CET), Anonymous
wrote this crap:

Well, I'm in this situation. If someone would like to offer
some meaninful comments, I probably don't want to hear them...

I met this women recently. She is foreign-born, blonde, long hair,
intelligent, and generally a wonderful person. She is also significantly
younger than me (about 15 years younger). We seem to have a lot of
common interests, including boating and music, etc. She's 23.


She has a green card and is presently unemployed, but looking for
work.


So far, our dates have consisted of playing volleyball together, having
dinner, and talking for several hours. (The dinner, etc. was an
invitation, which she accepted.) We have another date scheduled for
this coming Friday...dinner and some entertainment in San Francisco.
She seems enthusiastic about going and told me (a couple of times)
how much she enjoyed dinner last time.


In fact, when we parted after talking for oh so many hours, I got
the impression that I could have kissed her goodnight if I had
tried. We were a few feet apart as we were saying goodnight and
our eyes sort of locked for an indescribable moment.


So, all this seems rather idyllic (even more so now that I've
written it down), but that still leaves me with some sort of
strange paranoia. I've had a couple of long-term relationships
but I've never felt anything like what I feel about her. I can't
stop thinking about her (and, no, I'm not just thinking about
sex . I'm concerned that I'll do something silly and scare
her off or that she doesn't have anything like the feelings I
have for her.


So I guess I'm interested in hearing what the wonderful women
of the net have to say about all this (sure, I'll listen
indulgently to the guys too . Is there anything I should
do, not do, try to do, try not to do? Yes, I'll be myself --
who else would you suggest -- Elvis?


Disclaimer to those who might know me: All characters are
fictitious... including me....


So, there it is....



Forget it. My sister isn't interested in you.




I'm Horvath and I approve of this post.