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On 18 Jan 2009 13:10:02 -0600, Dave wrote:

On Sat, 17 Jan 2009 20:40:01 -0500, said:

Waiter isn't derogatory. It's sexist. They call them all "waitpersons"
now, or if that's too clumsy, they call them "servers".


I don't. It's either a waiter or a waitress. And if that offend those
present, tough ****.


Anything polite to get their attention.
"Waiter"
"Waitress"
"Garcon"
"Miss"
"Mister"
"Honey"
"Doll"
"Friend"
"Pal"
"Joe"
"Mac"
"Bub"
Depends how you say it. And a smile can erase misinterpretation.
The biggest politeness is in the tip.
But if you have to actually think about how to address somebody,
you've probably already lost the PC battle.

--Vic



How about jerk-off....

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