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Default The 'anonymous' caller

On Jan 7, 11:49*am, "Reginald P. Smithers III, Esq."
wrote:
Reginald P. Smithers III, Esq. wrote:

wrote:


Blah, blah, blah......Blah, blah, blah, blah.... * we get it Harry....
You are the only one here that is not secure with his lack of
education to the point you have to lie about it... *hummmmm


If I was Harry's wife I would wonder why Harry was so ashamed of my
career choices and my life, that he would have to make up the Dr. Dr.
story. *If you ever want to know when Harry is lying, you will notice he
will go into a very boring, long winded description of the lie. *When he
is telling the truth, he immediately asks you if you want to place a wager.


By the way, Harry's elaborate lies are not unique to Harry. *See if
these descriptions remind you of anyone you know.

from Truth and Deception"
"Lying starts at a young age. People lie to protect their self esteem.
They do not want to feel inferior. They lie to be noticed and to make
their lives seem more exciting. It makes them feel better. But only
temporarily. That lie will be uncovered and we will need to lie to cover
that lie and it seems to never stop. It can get very complicated. They
can't remember what they have lied about or who they have lied to. Their
lying begins to hurt others around them. "

from The American Academy of Child and Adolescent Psychiatry (AACAP):
"Lying that may indicate emotional problems:
Some children, who know the difference between truthfulness and lying,
tell elaborate stories which appear believable. Children or adolescents
usually relate these stories with enthusiasm because they receive a lot
of attention as they tell the lie.

Other children or adolescents, who otherwise seem responsible, fall into
a pattern of repetitive lying. They often feel that lying is the easiest
way to deal with the demands of parents, teachers and friends. These
children are usually not trying to be bad or malicious but the
repetitive pattern of lying becomes a bad habit. "

from :
Pathological Liar

A pathological liar is usually defined as someone who lies incessantly
to get their way and does so with little concern for others.
Pathological lying is often viewed as coping mechanism developed in
early childhood and it is often associated with some other type of
mental health disorder. A pathological liar is often goal-oriented
(i.e., lying is focused - it is done to get one's way). Pathological
liars have little regard or respect for the rights and feelings of
others. A pathological liar often comes across as being manipulative,
cunning and self-centered.

Compulsive Liar

A compulsive liar is defined as someone who lies out of habit. Lying is
their normal and reflexive way of responding to questions. Compulsive
liars bend the truth about everything, large and small. For a compulsive
liar, telling the truth is very awkward and uncomfortable while lying
feels right. Compulsive lying is usually thought to develop in early
childhood, due to being placed in an environment where lying was
necessary. For the most part, compulsive liars are not overly
manipulative and cunning (see, Pathological Liar), rather they simply
lie out of habit - an automatic response which is hard to break and one
that takes its toll on a relationship (see, how to cope with a
compulsive liar).


Look whos spouting Pschology..." Multiple Miggs " himself.