"Gould 0738" wrote in message
Bull****. If he's effeminate, then that's Mother Nature. If he ends up
liking other men, then that's a lifestyle *choice*.
Do you remember the day you "chose" between straight and gay?
You don't "choose" to be straight. Everybody is "straight" by default. You
choose the alternative. That's why homosexuality is also called an
Gays don't chose to be gay, any more than the rest of choose to be hetero.