"ladysailor" wrote
There are many reasons why I choose not to go on this passage.

First of all we have this little dog on board who is too fastidious to
pee or poop on the boat. He will wait up to three days before he lets
loose. The other thing about our little Buddy is that there are some
places we intend to visit where he is just not welcome so, he must go
home to Oregon to be taken care of by our good friend Buck who is also
taking care of our house.

That's a good reason. I have a cat and I love him more than I love most people.
You gotta take good care of your pets and their needs so I agree with you
on this one.

On the way north I will have the time to stop and visit with my mom who
is well into her eighties and won't be around much longer. I also
want to spend time with my sister, brother, daughter and grandkids
before I take off for who knows how long.

That's a very good reason. Spend time with family whenever you can. You never
know if it's gonna be the last time....

As far as missing out on the longest passage from point A to point B on
the planet earth? Well, guess I'm just going to have to miss it.
This is Mike's big adventure and I want him to have it but I just
can't wrap my head around a month out on the open sea with three men
and me. Phew!

For me that'd be the best part. :-) Three men all to myself. That's
a good thing. Are they all good-looking studly manly men?

The fact is, I have truly enjoyed the short passages (three or four
days) with just us two. The navigation, the sail tweaking, the watches
and especially the land fall. It always feels good to get where
you're going and especially sweet when it's just us.

Yah, me too. I like sailing but I like arriving someplace probably better.
Landfalling is the best part of sailing, I think. But I never went across any
ocean.

I know that the air fare is expensive and the logistics of the whole
thing are not quite clear but, I'm sure it will all work out.

It will. And ya gotta do what ya gotta do.

Now, with all that said. The subject has come up recently that this is
an El Nino year and the possibility of not going this season at all is
very real. I'll keep you posted.

I heard El Niño's winding down. Keep your fingers crossed.

So, there you have it Ne... Ellen. Hope I answered all your questions.

Thanks, good post. I hope you have a good trip. Land leg and sea leg.

Cheers,
Ellen