"Scotty" wrote
Better at what?

Better at understanding their boat. Better at getting the most out of it.

yeah, you learned how to lose. that will come in real handy
at the next anchorage.

Open your mind, Scotty. I never said anything about learning to lose. Nobody has
to learn how to lose. You automatically lose unless you win. There's only one winner
but there's lots of losers. It's not a bad thing to lose. It's more normal than winning.
When you lose you can learn if you ask yourself why you lost....

Cheers,
Ellen