Db,

My solution; Teach all your family to sail the boat. You go along for
the ride. You offer your advice; GENTLY! Teach all and every crew to
sail the boat and if you make them happy learning, with your advice,
they will soon be looking to try a get to the situations that use to
frighten them.




http://community.webtv.net/tassail/ThomPage

http://community.webtv.net/tassail/Pneuma