"DSK" wrote in message
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Bob Crantz wrote:
I wouldn't consider her an a**hole, unless she had malicious intent not
standing watches.


How much "malicious" intent would she need? If somebody has to stand her
watch and theirs too, then she either needs to make it up to them or she's
being an asshole.


Some people have no idea or no control over what they are. You can't
change them and getting mad at them doesn't do squat. The best is to
accept them for what they are and avoid them at all cost.


hmmm... "at all costs" gives me an idea. Can I just offer people money to
go away & not bother me?

"Here's $5, get lost and stay there."

DSK

You hit a good point Doug. Sometimes the best way to get rid of someone is
to loan them money. They will never pay you back, but they will avoid you
too. Costs you less in the long term too.

Some people have personality disorders. They can't change, they can't help
it. They just don't get it. They may act as assholes, but for them it is not
a matter of choice. They have mental problems. Just go to the other side of
the street when you see them coming.