"narcissists can't see that they have a problem; it's always somebody else
who
has the problem and needs to change"

"narcissists hate their real selves, they don't want to change -- they
want the world to change. And they criticize, gripe, and complain about
almost everything and almost everyone almost all the time. There are usually
a favored few whom narcissists regard as absolutely above reproach, even for
egregious misconduct or actual crime, and about whom they won't brook the
slightest criticism. These are people the narcissists are terrified of,
though they'll tell you that what they feel is love and respect; apparently
they don't know the difference between fear and love. Narcissists just get
worse and worse as they grow older; their parents and other authority
figures that they've feared die off, and there's less and less outside
influence to keep them in check"

"John H." wrote in message
...
On Thu, 15 Dec 2005 14:38:41 -0500, Harry Krause
wrote:

John H. wrote:
On Thu, 15 Dec 2005 14:07:28 -0500, "Wm Shakespeare Smithers" The
WordSmith wrote:



I believe Harry has a data base going in which he stores every bit of
personal information he can
glean from his readings on the group.
--

You might want to consider joining a 12-step program for psychotics.
You're out of touch with reality.

Was that supposed to be a denial?

What do you think of Wayne's idea? Pretty good, huh? We could all try to
keep the name-calling,
snarkiness, etc. out of the group.
--
John Herring

Hope your Christmas is Spectacular!
...and your New Year even Better!