Frank wrote:

Why do you feel that your 14-year-old is unqualified? Maybe we have
different definitions of "qualified to stand watch" but I'd rely on my
12-year-old daughter under these circumstances. Maybe this is the
universe giving him an opportunity to show you he's more responsible
than you think? I know I tend to underestimate my kids 'cause I think
of them as having been newborns about 5 minutes ago. They're often
capable of so much more than I give them credit for.

I say, give him the opportunity to show his mettle. It'll be a great
bonding and growth experience for both of you!


When I was 14 I took watches at the helm at night in small craft warning
seas in the Molokai channel in my Dad's Blanchard 33.' One crew member
sleeping below, the other sleeping beside me in the cockpit.

Stephen