My opinion is that people either like sailing or they do not. If they do
not, then trickery and cajolery are just props...and the boat becomes a
floating condo...much better if the non-sailor just stays home and pursues
something they like to do rather than inflict their angst on everyone else
that likes to sail...

"Donal" wrote in message
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"katysails" wrote in message
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Want me to talk to her?


Definitely not!!!!

I'd guess that less than 20% of the spouses in my sailing club are willing
sailors/crew. I'm in fortunate 20%. I want to keep it that way.

IMHO, the key is to make sailing a relaxing, stress free experience for
people who are not keen sailors. That way they will go out again.




Regards


Donal
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