Yeah, I remember those things from when I worked at the psych hospital.
There were a lot of women there (patients) that were just like you. They
were always searching for something that they couldn't find and never happy
with what they had. Life just passed them by. Sort of like what life is
doing with you. Single, alone, raising boys without a father to guide them.
Why don't you prove your worth to this group and go out and get a boat and
learn to sail? At least then you'd have some validity. And it would be
something that your boys could do that might put them in a position to
interact with men.
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"katysails" wrote:
I fly solo, thank you...
Yeah, right! In your dreams, katy. You can't fly solo when your husband
is always right next to you, or coming to your rescue with a lame DVD...
Do you have any idea what projecting is, katy?
http://www.mentalhealth.com/dis1/p21-pe07.html
and there's this too:
http://www.heretical.com/sexsci/bpsychol.html
2a. Freudian Projection
The following is a collection of definitions of
projection from orthodox psychology texts. In this
system the distinct mechanism of projecting own
unconscious or undesirable characteristics onto an
opponent is called Freudian Projection.
a.. "A defense mechanism in which the individual
attributes to other people impulses and traits that he
himself has but cannot accept. It is especially likely
to occur when the person lacks insight into his own
impulses and traits."
b.. "The externalisation of internal unconscious
wishes, desires or emotions on to other people. So, for
example, someone who feels subconsciously that they
have a powerful latent homosexual drive may not
acknowledge this consciously, but it may show in their
readiness to suspect others of being homosexual."
c.. "Attributing one's own undesirabe traits to other
people or agencies, e.g., an aggressive man accuses
other people of being hostile."
d.. "The individual perceives in others the motive he
denies having himself. Thus the cheat is sure that
everyone else is dishonest. The would-be adulterer
accuses his wife of infidelity."
e.. "People attribute their own undesirable traits
onto others. An individual who unconsciously recognises
his or her aggressive tendencies may then see other
people acting in an excessively aggressive way."
f.. "Projection is the opposite defence mechanism to
identification. We project our own unpleasant feelings
onto someone else and blame them for having thoughts
that we really have."
Not to mention just about every logical fallacy known
to man. Conversational terrorism at its finest.
I hope this helps.
LP
"Capt. NealŪ" wrote:
Keep it up. Just keep it up. Pretty soon you'll be joining Katysails
on that free trip to the Moon.