AS,

I don't like to recommend boats to anyone. You sound like you should
know what you want. If you want stern accommondationss you should maybe
look at the Catalina 34 short rig. A nice sailor with a good size 1/4
Cabin. Better headroom. There are many boats with 1/4 cabins, I'm just
more familiar with the Cat.34.

Ole Thom