JSB wrote:

I just bought a used Valley Avocet as a first kayak.

The sales guy said I would never out grow it.

My problem now is, will I ever grow to it.

Handles nice, size fits me, maneuverable but TIPPY. The tippy is what has my
attention.. I paddle alone, often with few or any other boats of any kind on
the lake.

I swim well, however.

How heavy are you?

From http://www.valleyseakayaks.com/avocet.htm :
"The Avocet is ideal as a general sea kayak for small paddlers,
especially women, or for the average sized paddler it makes a
playful and enjoyable day boat."

I don't think 'playful' is a desirable characteristic in a sea kayak.

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Eiron

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