Shooter of teen has a secret life.

"owns at least 10 guns..."

“My ex, West Wilder (Donald West Wilder II owner of WWC Inc. - West
Wilder Consulting Incorporated) is the worst person I have ever dated.
Near the end of our relationship, I got pregnant. Once he found out I
was pregnant, he began to assault me. After the third assault, I
called the Sheriff’s office and filed a report with them. I didn’t
press charges as I didn’t think it was in the best interests of my
unborn child. The day after he found out about me calling the police,
he pressed charges against me and had a restraining order issued
against me. In court, he had pictures of cat scratches and said that I
left them. He denied hitting me first. He made up a lot of things and
now I have a criminal trial pending. Now, he claims to fear for his
safety with me. I’m a 5ft4, overweight pregnant girl. He’s a volunteer
fire fighter with the Sterling Volunteer Fire Department, so he has to
be strong enough to pull people from burning buildings. Also, he owns
approximately 10 guns. I own no guns. Also, after the incident, he got
coverage at the fire station the next night to take care of my because
when he assaulted me he hurt my back. If I was in fear for my safety,
I wouldn’t take off from what I was supposed to do to take care of the
person I was in fear of. He was also emotionally abusive of his
ex-wife and he was emotionally abusive of me for many months (we dated
for about a year). He destroyed both her self-esteem and mine. It will
take me a long time to get back to where I was before we were
together. During the course of our relationship he cheated on me at
least once and didn’t say anything until explicitly questioned with
the dates and everything. He went out with another woman on my
birthday (I was on vacation at the time). I still do not know all the
details of what happened. All he admitted to was going out with her
and going back to her place and kissing. Of course, I suspect that
more happened. WARNING - EXPLICIT CONTENT FOLLOWS. Mr. Wilder is a
closeted kinky cross-dresser. During the course of our relationship, I
was forced to engage in the most disgusting (IMO) sexual acts. One
night, tied me up, blindfolded me, gagged me, attached a dildo to the
gag and made me penetrate his anus with my mouth. I couldn’t easily
object as I was tied up and gagged so I was forced to do it. This is
but one example of the things I had to do. I had to call him ‘Ma’am’
during sex and he would often wear women’s clothes to bed.
Additionally, in regards to my pregnancy, he refused to pay for any of
my pre-natal expenses even though he makes more than $100,000 more per
year than I do. I’ve been forced to cover everything myself. His
lawyer, while refusing to pay for any pre-natal care and saying
“regardless as to the paternity of the child” also says that Mr.
Wilder may sue for custody. I fear for the safety of my child. He
knowingly potentially exposed a child to BDSM activities with his
ex-wife. He also watched his ex-step-daughter shower until she was 9
years old (and he hasn’t seen her since then). I fear for the welfare
of any child he may be around. Please, have more respect for yourself
than I did. Do NOT date West Wilder”