My wife was the same way when I bought a 14' powered aluminum boat for
fishing. I took the power squadron course, because I hadn't managed a boat
since I was 14 years old (and was 47 when I got the new boat). I brought
home dozens of books from the library, and babbled endlessly about safety
issues. And, I reminded her that icebergs are rare in Rochester NY. She
finally caved in.

In your case, you might call around to marinas and find out if any local
organizations offer sailing lessons for newbies. Convince her that you're
not going to go out in the boat with zero knowledge.

"Matt" wrote in message
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Hello,
I'm considering buying a sail boat within the next year or so (still
have to learn how to sail one first). I'm looking at a family cruiser
between 28-30 feet long. My wife is afraid that I'll capsize the
thing our first trip out. I just can't believe they make "family
cruisers" able to capsize in normal conditions.

Let's assume I do everything wrong our first time out. I keep the
sail tight while sailing abeam of the wind (sorry about terminology,
still learning), we hit rough water, and a storm starts. Is there any
chance I can capsize?

Thanks,
-Matt