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Miech April 8th 05 04:45 PM

sailing with baby
 
We're due in June and would like to hear from people who have experience
sailing with a 0-4 month old. Pros, cons, advice and warnings as well as any
product suggestions to purchase are greatly appreciated. We have had
fabulous feedback from our vessel-specific forum and wanted to tap the
veterans here as well.

(Please no stories about how your son started sailing with you at age 6.
Infants only please!)

Thanks so much,

Jay & Michelle
s/v Elixir
Buzzards Bay



Jim, April 8th 05 05:33 PM

Miech wrote:
Not a personal experience, but one I saw at my YC. When the kid is 4
months or so hang a Jolly Jumper from the cabin top and put the kid in
it. Then heel all you want and the kid will never notice.


We're due in June and would like to hear from people who have experience
sailing with a 0-4 month old. Pros, cons, advice and warnings as well as any
product suggestions to purchase are greatly appreciated. We have had
fabulous feedback from our vessel-specific forum and wanted to tap the
veterans here as well.

(Please no stories about how your son started sailing with you at age 6.
Infants only please!)

Thanks so much,

Jay & Michelle
s/v Elixir
Buzzards Bay



Don White April 8th 05 06:11 PM

Miech wrote:
We're due in June and would like to hear from people who have experience
sailing with a 0-4 month old. Pros, cons, advice and warnings as well as any
product suggestions to purchase are greatly appreciated. We have had
fabulous feedback from our vessel-specific forum and wanted to tap the
veterans here as well.

I wouldn't do it. That's what grandparents are for.....
A break for you and a treat for them...chance to get close to the little
nipper.

Larry W4CSC April 8th 05 07:21 PM

"Miech" wrote in
:

cons,


NOONE who can't SWIM belongs in a boat, adults or, especially that little
baby....

Test it out, "Worst Case Scenario".....put him in whatever PFD you've got
and throw him over the side of the dock. Think he'll "make it"? How will
you feel when he drowns? You can't save him. Hell, adults are lucky just
saving THEMSELVES! The waves at the dock aren't even 5' swells.

I agree with the other poster.....Leave him with grandparents until he can
swim two lengths of the pool. Babies have no business in a boat which may
sink.....neither do non-swimmer adults.

A man drown, just yesterday, when he fell out of a small fishing boat in
the Stono River near Charleston. Two reasons he drowned....no
PFD...couldn't swim. As narrow as the Stono River is all the way to
Kiawah, if he could swim he didn't need a PFD. He could swim TO SHORE! He
was 53 years old, alone and should have known better. His boat was fine
floating with the tide. He simply fell out of it while fishing.

Please leave the baby with grandma.....for me?




[email protected] April 8th 05 09:56 PM

We lined the v-berth with blankets and put one of those things that
keep babies from falling down stairs across the doorway so she couldnt
fall out of the v-berth.

Basic rule, nobody comes out of the cabin without a life jacket. This
means me, passengers and the baby.

Our scariest experience was with our youngest when she was two. We had
anchored at Dog island. She slept in the port berth with a lee-cloth.
Unlike the two older ones who would always sleep through the night,
Katie NEVER sleeps it seems and wakes up at 6 every morn and is
seriously independent. We had not spent the night aboard with her till
she was two so hadn't considered her lack of sleep problem. Around
6:00 am, I woke up in the v-berth thinking "Somethings wrong", poked my
head out and "Where's Katie", then "OH MY GOD, Where is KATIE", jumped
out of the v-berth, no sign of her. Ran out the companionway, no sign
of her My blood turning to ice and suddenly realizing the worst.
Suddenly, she pokes her head over the transom where she is standing on
the boarding ladder, feet in the water points down and says "Hishies
down dere". Next night she slept in the V-berth with us and we piled
all the pots on the companionway steps so they would make noise.
Believe it or not I still sail with them, Katie especially (she is 8
now).
When my son was 3, we were sailing our old 23' boat from Apalachicola
to Shell Point, Fl which means we have to go about 8 miles offshore to
clear a shoal. It was just a little choppy. It was his birthday so my
wife had made a cake. In the cabin, we lit the candles and sang. He
looked at the cake, got an odd look on his face and suddenly puked all
over it.


Jeff April 8th 05 11:00 PM

Miech wrote:
We're due in June and would like to hear from people who have experience
sailing with a 0-4 month old. Pros, cons, advice and warnings as well as any
product suggestions to purchase are greatly appreciated. We have had
fabulous feedback from our vessel-specific forum and wanted to tap the
veterans here as well.

Our daughter was born in August (9 years ago). She came to the boat
almost every weekend that fall, but we only went out if we had a very
experienced crew - people we could trust the boat with if my wife and
I both got preoccupied with the baby.

During the winter she took an infant swimming class at the Y. This
goes a long way towards "drown proofing" a child. The following
summer, she was with us for a full season. The only concession to our
normal cruising itinerary was that we went to the Vineyard rather than
Maine. Our boat at the time was a Nonsuch, with a large, deep
cockpit and easy to handle rig. We put a gate in the forward cabin,
turning the berth into a crib. Padding all around meant that she
would be comfortable and safe even in nasty weather. In one episode
we were coming out of the Cape Cod Canal into Buzzards Bay, and the
current against a strong SW wind had built up the infamous square
waves. Amelia slept through that, but she "took air" on every wave.

Everyone will tell you the baby must wear a PFD, but no one has made
one that will fit a baby under a year old. Ours spent a lot of
cockpit time strapped into an old car seat, which was lashed to the
bulkhead under the dodger. This brings up an other point - a baby can
only tolerate a tiny bit of Sun - make sure you have good shade for
the cockpit.

One more thing - an infant has a very limited horizon. Not only will
your child not remember anything from this age, he will not really
notice it either. Taking him out a this age will not make him a
better sailor, and will not be any more stimulating than a lot of much
safer experiences. You didn't mention what size or type of boat you
have, but if its small, or tippy, or bouncy, you should be very, very
cautious, at least until the child is a year old.

Padeen April 8th 05 11:42 PM

Not sailing, but had my son when living on the Yukon river; he went canoeing
and spent his seventh night and years after in camps along the river. Our
strict policy was this: On the river one of us ALWAYS wore a PFD and had
responsibility for ONLY him if confronted with an emergency. I strongly
disagree with Larry and others on this; with careful preparation you can
avoid confining your offspring to a skinner box for their first years, and
reap handsome rewards later for your efforts.
Padeen

"Miech" wrote in message
...
We're due in June and would like to hear from people who have experience
sailing with a 0-4 month old. Pros, cons, advice and warnings as well as

any
product suggestions to purchase are greatly appreciated. We have had
fabulous feedback from our vessel-specific forum and wanted to tap the
veterans here as well.

(Please no stories about how your son started sailing with you at age 6.
Infants only please!)

Thanks so much,

Jay & Michelle
s/v Elixir
Buzzards Bay





Paul Schilter April 8th 05 11:53 PM

dbohara,
That was a good story with a funny ending. I could just picture it. :-)
Paul


wrote:
We lined the v-berth with blankets and put one of those things that
keep babies from falling down stairs across the doorway so she couldnt
fall out of the v-berth.

Basic rule, nobody comes out of the cabin without a life jacket. This
means me, passengers and the baby.

Our scariest experience was with our youngest when she was two. We had
anchored at Dog island. She slept in the port berth with a lee-cloth.
Unlike the two older ones who would always sleep through the night,
Katie NEVER sleeps it seems and wakes up at 6 every morn and is
seriously independent. We had not spent the night aboard with her till
she was two so hadn't considered her lack of sleep problem. Around
6:00 am, I woke up in the v-berth thinking "Somethings wrong", poked my
head out and "Where's Katie", then "OH MY GOD, Where is KATIE", jumped
out of the v-berth, no sign of her. Ran out the companionway, no sign
of her My blood turning to ice and suddenly realizing the worst.
Suddenly, she pokes her head over the transom where she is standing on
the boarding ladder, feet in the water points down and says "Hishies
down dere". Next night she slept in the V-berth with us and we piled
all the pots on the companionway steps so they would make noise.
Believe it or not I still sail with them, Katie especially (she is 8
now).
When my son was 3, we were sailing our old 23' boat from Apalachicola
to Shell Point, Fl which means we have to go about 8 miles offshore to
clear a shoal. It was just a little choppy. It was his birthday so my
wife had made a cake. In the cabin, we lit the candles and sang. He
looked at the cake, got an odd look on his face and suddenly puked all
over it.


kth April 9th 05 01:41 AM

My baby was born last June and already has more sea time than most
adults I know. For me, I was concerned about finding a properly fitted
PFD and to make sure it did it's job. I bought three different types
(all type 3 but different styles) and tried them out. The one that
worked best and looked fairly comfortable on her. It was purchased
from West Marine and was the least expensive of the three. I first
tried it out in a tub and then a few weeks later in a pool.

Aside from that I used the car seat last summer (didnt strap her in).
Even though she still fits in it, I dont think Ill be using it this
summer.

Miech wrote:
We're due in June and would like to hear from people who have

experience
sailing with a 0-4 month old. Pros, cons, advice and warnings as well

as any
product suggestions to purchase are greatly appreciated. We have had
fabulous feedback from our vessel-specific forum and wanted to tap

the
veterans here as well.

(Please no stories about how your son started sailing with you at age

6.
Infants only please!)

Thanks so much,

Jay & Michelle
s/v Elixir
Buzzards Bay



[email protected] April 9th 05 05:04 AM

My parents raised 9 kids and took us all on crazy trips. They never
sailed but did seem to do everything they could afford to do with all
of us, mostly involving a canoe on various Fl bodies of water. If I
suggested they babysit while we went sailing, they'd think we were a
family disgracce. Besides, with 18 grandkids ( I may have lost count),
atking time to babysit in anything except an emergency would make it
impossible for them to do anything. Your kids are part of your life,
you should be able to figure out how to take them.
Congratulations on the little one BTW.

kth wrote:
My baby was born last June and already has more sea time than most
adults I know. For me, I was concerned about finding a properly

fitted
PFD and to make sure it did it's job. I bought three different types
(all type 3 but different styles) and tried them out. The one that
worked best and looked fairly comfortable on her. It was purchased
from West Marine and was the least expensive of the three. I first
tried it out in a tub and then a few weeks later in a pool.

Aside from that I used the car seat last summer (didnt strap her in).
Even though she still fits in it, I dont think Ill be using it this
summer.

Miech wrote:
We're due in June and would like to hear from people who have

experience
sailing with a 0-4 month old. Pros, cons, advice and warnings as

well
as any
product suggestions to purchase are greatly appreciated. We have

had
fabulous feedback from our vessel-specific forum and wanted to tap

the
veterans here as well.

(Please no stories about how your son started sailing with you at

age
6.
Infants only please!)

Thanks so much,

Jay & Michelle
s/v Elixir
Buzzards Bay



rhys April 9th 05 05:40 AM

On Fri, 8 Apr 2005 11:45:00 -0400, "Miech"
wrote:

We're due in June and would like to hear from people who have experience
sailing with a 0-4 month old. Pros, cons, advice and warnings as well as any
product suggestions to purchase are greatly appreciated. We have had
fabulous feedback from our vessel-specific forum and wanted to tap the
veterans here as well.


Well, this depends on the type of sailing, location and time of year,
but here's some generalizations. Our son is now 3 1/2 and we are on
Lake Ontario with a 33 foot C&C designed racer-cruiser from the '70s
(tiller and narrow beam, pretty spartan by today's standards).

1) He first sailed at five days...attached to his mother for the most
part.

2) At seven months he was in a Bjorn chest carrier on either of us to
get on and off the boat. We used netting in the V-berth once he
started to roll around a bit.

3) We lashed him into a car seat wearing a PFD, and lashed old
kapok-style vests around the car seat for cushioning and floatation.
Then we lashed the whole lot into the cockpit, put on some sunscreen
and a floppy hat and went sailing. No problem.

4) The problematic part (1 year-2 1/2 or so) wherein he could walk but
didn't necessarily "get" boat safety is over. He had a vest-style PFD
with crotch strap and neck strap, and did not leave the cockpit
unescorted at any point. Last year (2 1/2) he did have the run of the
cabin, unless he was naughty, and then into the netted V-berth (or
"brig"). His PFD has a lanyard and a Gibb snapshackle. He is snapped
on in the cockpit while under way.

5) This year he is 3 1/2 (4 in early September) and he has a new PFD.
He knows port from starboard, is starting his knots, and will steer a
course this summer under close supervision and only near otherwise
unoccupied plastic marker buoys. I am considering pad eyes and
jacklines.

A few observations: Bring hats, juice and sunscreen and
sweater/windbreakers. Children suffer more from weather, thrist and
wind. Bring a musical instrument (on a lanyard) and tell them they can
finally play as loudly as they like...in the V-berth. This works quite
well, as the sounds of wind and water overwhelm the sounds of say, the
spastic tambourine, whilst letting you know exactly where Young Cap'n
Bligh is.

Bring snacks that can go overboard: fruit slices, carrots...NOT
potatos chips, which are greasy and make a mess. Small and often keeps
'em cheerful.

Bring little activity bags with medium sized toys that don't come
apart, or lively picture books with nautical themes. A surprising
favourite, considering he can't read very well yet, has been a
sailboat spotter's guide. Anything to do with pirates and the
opportunity to yell "arrr!" and "avast ye!" at passing craft seems to
be very popular.

Let them...within reason...work the boat. This could include buoy
spotting, "locate the nav hazard", listen for traffic on the VHF,
watch for "special birds" or just vocalizing mental checklists and
"consulting" the child. Use 'nautical language' on the boat, if you
intend to use it at all, as the extra effort to figure out a proxy
language will keep the kid's mind working. "Keeping watch" can help a
child learn to read clocks and to read the numbers on a compass.

The point? If he/she feels a part of the boat, they will take an
interest. You want crew, not another passenger.

This year I will teach him to swim and to identify sails and start to
watch the weather. At six we will suggest junior sail school in
Optimists. My fairly intense training of him is partly safety
oriented, and partly because we want to world cruise for five or so
years starting when he's seven or eight. A familiarity with shipboard
routine...and disciplines...will help him and his parents.

Hope this helps,

R.

rhys April 9th 05 05:46 AM

On Fri, 08 Apr 2005 14:21:58 -0400, Larry W4CSC
wrote:

Please leave the baby with grandma.....for me?


All grandmas are dead, alas. My sister and my wife's brother are 40
miles away and we don't have a car...we have a boat and a nearly paid
off mortgage because we don't have a car G and we intend to go
cruising while still young, or in my case, youngish for cruising.

You do what you can, Larry. My kid is learning to swim this year and
is very agile and safety-conscious on the boat, as are we. Is the
danger of being on the boat balanced by the danger he doesn't
experience being driven ten miles a day in a big city? Can't say, but
for now, he comes with us and we sail as safely as we can.

R.


Larry W4CSC April 9th 05 01:56 PM

rhys wrote in
:

You do what you can, Larry. My kid is learning to swim this year and
is very agile and safety-conscious on the boat, as are we. Is the


Excellent care. But, alas, they are taking a tiny baby to sea. The baby
cannot appreciate or comprehend anything about being on the boat, so we're
not giving him/her the experience of a lifetime. What we ARE doing is
placing the baby in danger. The baby can't swim and the parents can't save
the baby if the boat sinks because they may not be able to save themselves.
Oh, I've read all these wonderful stories of the baby that's been to sea
since he was 5 days old. But, it only has to happen just ONCE. The baby
lost at sea, the parents survive...but to what? They've killed their baby.
How awful that must feel, no matter how macho their stupid asses are.....

When the child is fully concious as to his surroundings, has learned to
swim the length of the pool and is large enough to wear a proper
PFD....then, and only then, should the child be on a boat.

But not a defenseless, helpless baby!

How stupid.....disgusting. They put the child in danger just so they don't
have to sacrifice their own pleasure..... The baby and the nursing mother
belong at home.



Stephen Trapani April 9th 05 04:32 PM

Larry W4CSC wrote:

rhys wrote in
:


You do what you can, Larry. My kid is learning to swim this year and
is very agile and safety-conscious on the boat, as are we. Is the



Excellent care. But, alas, they are taking a tiny baby to sea. The baby
cannot appreciate or comprehend anything about being on the boat, so we're
not giving him/her the experience of a lifetime. What we ARE doing is
placing the baby in danger. The baby can't swim and the parents can't save
the baby if the boat sinks because they may not be able to save themselves.
Oh, I've read all these wonderful stories of the baby that's been to sea
since he was 5 days old. But, it only has to happen just ONCE. The baby
lost at sea, the parents survive...but to what? They've killed their baby.
How awful that must feel, no matter how macho their stupid asses are.....

When the child is fully concious as to his surroundings, has learned to
swim the length of the pool and is large enough to wear a proper
PFD....then, and only then, should the child be on a boat.

But not a defenseless, helpless baby!

How stupid.....disgusting. They put the child in danger just so they don't
have to sacrifice their own pleasure..... The baby and the nursing mother
belong at home.


And how long should they wait before bringing a baby home to a normal
house? Right outside the door are dangerous roads and highways!

Stephen

Don White April 9th 05 05:32 PM

It's not just the water...I've never fallen overboard in years of
sailing......but I did get hit in the head by a boom on a Mirage 33 when
the skipper gibed without notice, and I was thrown into the end of the
boom scratching my glasses when the helmsman ran us aground on another
occasion. I also chipped my oldest son's front tooth at age 5. He was
playing in the cabin of my smaller centerboard weekend style sailboat
and lost his balance when I tacked. Sh*t happens.

Gordon April 9th 05 09:10 PM

My neighbors went aboard their 39' SV when the first baby was a few months
old. They went to Mexico on the boat and proceded to have 4 more children,
all onboard the same boat. They lived on it for 13 years and home schooled
the kids.The only reson they moved off was to give the kids more interaction
with others and to enjoy high school things. The last of the five are now
close to finishing college!
G
wrote in message
oups.com...
My parents raised 9 kids and took us all on crazy trips. They never
sailed but did seem to do everything they could afford to do with all
of us, mostly involving a canoe on various Fl bodies of water. If I
suggested they babysit while we went sailing, they'd think we were a
family disgracce. Besides, with 18 grandkids ( I may have lost count),
atking time to babysit in anything except an emergency would make it
impossible for them to do anything. Your kids are part of your life,
you should be able to figure out how to take them.
Congratulations on the little one BTW.

kth wrote:
My baby was born last June and already has more sea time than most
adults I know. For me, I was concerned about finding a properly

fitted
PFD and to make sure it did it's job. I bought three different types
(all type 3 but different styles) and tried them out. The one that
worked best and looked fairly comfortable on her. It was purchased
from West Marine and was the least expensive of the three. I first
tried it out in a tub and then a few weeks later in a pool.

Aside from that I used the car seat last summer (didnt strap her in).
Even though she still fits in it, I dont think Ill be using it this
summer.

Miech wrote:
We're due in June and would like to hear from people who have

experience
sailing with a 0-4 month old. Pros, cons, advice and warnings as

well
as any
product suggestions to purchase are greatly appreciated. We have

had
fabulous feedback from our vessel-specific forum and wanted to tap

the
veterans here as well.

(Please no stories about how your son started sailing with you at

age
6.
Infants only please!)

Thanks so much,

Jay & Michelle
s/v Elixir
Buzzards Bay





Padeen April 10th 05 01:05 AM

Have any kids, Larry?

I had two, now I have one. Lost the second @ 4 yrs to drowning in his
grandparent's backyard swimming pool. S*it does happen, even in the home
environment. We, his parents, did survive, overcame the horrors of guilt,
and have a healthy life.

The point? Babies need care and supervision everywhere, all the time. This
can be provided almost anywhere, including on a sailboat. Avoiding sailing
because of uncontrollable catastrophes is like refusing to ride in an
automobile because of the annual highway death toll. OTOH, providing a
child with the confined and continual care a cruising lifestyle encompasses
has considerable advantages over tot-care, traffic, neighborhood crime,
suburban rat-racing, TV, mall crawlers, and backyard swimming pools.

Padeen


"Larry W4CSC" wrote in message
...
rhys wrote in
:

You do what you can, Larry. My kid is learning to swim this year and
is very agile and safety-conscious on the boat, as are we. Is the


Excellent care. But, alas, they are taking a tiny baby to sea. The baby
cannot appreciate or comprehend anything about being on the boat, so we're
not giving him/her the experience of a lifetime. What we ARE doing is
placing the baby in danger. The baby can't swim and the parents can't

save
the baby if the boat sinks because they may not be able to save

themselves.
Oh, I've read all these wonderful stories of the baby that's been to sea
since he was 5 days old. But, it only has to happen just ONCE. The baby
lost at sea, the parents survive...but to what? They've killed their

baby.
How awful that must feel, no matter how macho their stupid asses are.....

When the child is fully concious as to his surroundings, has learned to
swim the length of the pool and is large enough to wear a proper
PFD....then, and only then, should the child be on a boat.

But not a defenseless, helpless baby!

How stupid.....disgusting. They put the child in danger just so they

don't
have to sacrifice their own pleasure..... The baby and the nursing mother
belong at home.





Jonathan April 10th 05 03:49 AM

My daughter was born on April 16, and went out with us from the
beginning of the sailing season in MA onward. First year is easiest
because she could be strapped into a car seat and we knew she would stay
put. After she began to move, one adult always had to have her within
arm's reach.

Lots of good times, that she doesn't remember, but one that she seems to
is hanging a baby swing from the boom at anchor. She wore a life jacket
even though the boom was centered in the cockpit. She had a great 360
degree view and collected a lot of comments :)

The Martins started their family while sailing around the world on a
highly modified Cal 25 and they offer some specific tips and stories at
SetSail.com: http://www.setsail.com/s_logs/martin/martin.html

Use common sense, be careful, and everything should be fine.

Little things to remember, juice boxes need to be in hard holders
otherwise they get squeezed and juice gets all over the cockpit. Hats
and airy long sleeve clothes in addition to sunblock. If you get into
the pacifier routine, keep an extra package of one or two on board all
the time, in addition to the stuff that travels with the diaper/day bag.
A weekend can be ruined by losing the damn thing. If you keep emergency
food onboard, be sure to add "kid stuff" to the supplies, in the event
that motor and wind conspire to make it impossible to come in one night.

Yes, it can be stressful, but it needn't keep you tied to the dock to
have a small child with you.

Good luck,

Jonathan

Miech wrote:

We're due in June and would like to hear from people who have experience
sailing with a 0-4 month old. Pros, cons, advice and warnings as well as any
product suggestions to purchase are greatly appreciated. We have had
fabulous feedback from our vessel-specific forum and wanted to tap the
veterans here as well.

(Please no stories about how your son started sailing with you at age 6.
Infants only please!)

Thanks so much,

Jay & Michelle
s/v Elixir
Buzzards Bay



Larry W4CSC April 10th 05 05:07 AM

Stephen Trapani wrote in
:

And how long should they wait before bringing a baby home to a normal
house? Right outside the door are dangerous roads and highways!

Stephen



What's this? Denial?

Being on a boat is much more dangerous, especially to a defenseless infant,
than riding in a carseat.


Brian Whatcott April 10th 05 05:15 AM

I hesitate to mention it....but an economist was talking on NPR, this
morning.
He had controversial views on the crime wave vs abortion, and on swim
pools vs guns.

Here was his assertion on swim pools:
there are X children drowned each year in swim pools.
(He mentioned a figure - I think it was in the hundreds.)

There are Y children killed each year from gun-shot wounds from
home-based weapons.

the gun-deaths Y are less than the drowning numbers X
but there are about as many guns as the US population numbers.
And there are many less swim pools than the US population.
HENCE, home swim-pools are MUCH more dangerous than
home-owners guns....

His views on abortion are even more inflammatory - that there is a
clear relation between the beginning of the option to choose abortion,
and 20 years later, the reduction in violent crime. His assertion:
that unwanted children suffer adverse consequences of being raised in
an unwanted or insufficient family environment.

Brian Whatcott


On Sun, 10 Apr 2005 00:05:36 GMT, "Padeen"
wrote:

Have any kids, Larry?

I had two, now I have one. Lost the second @ 4 yrs to drowning in his
grandparent's backyard swimming pool. S*it does happen, even in the home
environment. We, his parents, did survive, overcame the horrors of guilt,
and have a healthy life.

The point? Babies need care and supervision everywhere, all the time. This
can be provided almost anywhere, including on a sailboat. Avoiding sailing
because of uncontrollable catastrophes is like refusing to ride in an
automobile because of the annual highway death toll. OTOH, providing a
child with the confined and continual care a cruising lifestyle encompasses
has considerable advantages over tot-care, traffic, neighborhood crime,
suburban rat-racing, TV, mall crawlers, and backyard swimming pools.

Padeen


"Larry W4CSC" wrote in message
...
rhys wrote in
:

You do what you can, Larry. My kid is learning to swim this year and
is very agile and safety-conscious on the boat, as are we. Is the


Excellent care. But, alas, they are taking a tiny baby to sea. The baby
cannot appreciate or comprehend anything about being on the boat, so we're
not giving him/her the experience of a lifetime. What we ARE doing is
placing the baby in danger. The baby can't swim and the parents can't

save
the baby if the boat sinks because they may not be able to save

themselves.
Oh, I've read all these wonderful stories of the baby that's been to sea
since he was 5 days old. But, it only has to happen just ONCE. The baby
lost at sea, the parents survive...but to what? They've killed their

baby.
How awful that must feel, no matter how macho their stupid asses are.....

When the child is fully concious as to his surroundings, has learned to
swim the length of the pool and is large enough to wear a proper
PFD....then, and only then, should the child be on a boat.

But not a defenseless, helpless baby!

How stupid.....disgusting. They put the child in danger just so they

don't
have to sacrifice their own pleasure..... The baby and the nursing mother
belong at home.





Evan Gatehouse April 10th 05 05:39 AM

Our daughter was born in September but didn't start sailing until she
was about 8 months old for a 2 week trip. We did live on our 30' boat
though :).

When she was 8 months old she wasn't walking so she spent a lot of the
time underway when in a car seat under the dodger to keep her from the
sun. She loved dinghy rides and dragging her hand in the water. A 0-4
month old doesn't need much to keep her amused. Keep her hydrated, out
of the sun, and comfortable and they will be fine.

People that have their babies wear a lifejacket in a car seat sound a
bit much though! If the baby is strapped in the car seat, and the car
seat is attached to the boat, why bother?

Suggestions: have the boat set up to be easily single handed, including
an autopilot if at all possible. Make meals in advance or keep them
very simple when underway. Be conservative about your sailing
destinations & the weather. Allow lots of play time before & after the
sailing part of the day.

At age 8 months she was easier to handle than the following summer, when
we moved, had a smaller (24' San Juan) boat. That summer she wore a PFD
in the cockpit (a tether was not a good idea for her active little
self). This 1-1/2 - 2-1/2 age range was more challenging; as somebody
said lots of activities but not much brains for safety.

New "boat specific" toys & activities when she/he gets older are great
(bubbles, pouring water in the cockpit, pretend fishing rods).

The next year we got a bigger 40' catamaran. She is pretty happy with
her next size up lifejacket. She has to wear it out of the cockpit on
deck. Since our boat doesn't heel we are less worried about losing her,
though one day we'll get lifelines (seriously). At this age she loves
our trampolines and her real fishing rod and going with dad to set the
crab trap.

She has fallen out of a dinghy while rowing with cousins at age 2-3/4.
Wearing her PFD she starting swimming for the big boat. Her only worry
was her hat had covered her eyes and couldn't see too well where she was
going.

Stephen Trapani April 10th 05 06:07 AM

Larry W4CSC wrote:

Stephen Trapani wrote in
:


And how long should they wait before bringing a baby home to a normal
house? Right outside the door are dangerous roads and highways!

Stephen




What's this? Denial?

Being on a boat is much more dangerous, especially to a defenseless infant,
than riding in a carseat.


Well, we're talking about defended infants, defended by good parents
doing their job as best they can. No one was asking for help with
unattended infants.

You really think the percentage of infants killed per activity is more
on boats than in cars? I'm guessing cars are *way* more dangerous, eg,
result in way more serious injuries and deaths per amount of participants.

Stephen

Peter April 10th 05 06:38 AM

Larry W4CSC wrote:

Stephen Trapani wrote in
:


And how long should they wait before bringing a baby home to a normal
house? Right outside the door are dangerous roads and highways!


What's this? Denial?

Being on a boat is much more dangerous, especially to a defenseless infant,
than riding in a carseat.


I haven't seen any figures on risk broken down to include only infants,
but the overall risk of fatality when sailing is given as 0.12 per
million hours at:
web.usna.navy.mil/~phmiller/phmSAS04.ppt (slide 12)
while the risk for riding in a passenger car is estimated at 0.47 per
million hours at:
http://www.magma.ca/~ocbc/comparat.html

I realize both studies are a bit dated, and cars have gotten a little
safer in the last decade, but I doubt any change would be large enough
to make cars safer than sailing. More current statistics would be
welcomed.

Based on the above numbers it appears that if the risk of taking the
child on an afternoon drive is considered acceptable then going sailing
for the afternoon should be acceptable as well provided that normal
precautions appropriate to each activity are followed.



Rosalie B. April 10th 05 01:31 PM

Larry W4CSC wrote:

Stephen Trapani wrote in
:

And how long should they wait before bringing a baby home to a normal
house? Right outside the door are dangerous roads and highways!

Stephen

What's this? Denial?

Being on a boat is much more dangerous, especially to a defenseless infant,
than riding in a carseat.


The denial is on your part.

You are not looking at the actual hazard which is much less in boating
than in driving. You are just accustomed to driving - it is a
necessary part of life for almost all parents, and so we accept the
hazard. It has been made safer with the addition of car seats and car
crash protection etc, but it is still dangerous. You are more
outraged by the smaller hazard in boating because it is not necessary.

Just like refueling a gasoline automobile is dangerous. We have all
kinds of rules for refueling a boat with gasoline, but we do cars all
the time, and people are so used to it that they stand there and smoke
while they do it.

An infant is not defenseless if there are parent(s) who are vigilant
and aware - whether the hazard is a bear in the woods, or crime in the
streets or the hazard of drowning.

Plus I don't think you are really processing what people are saying
about how they are dealing with an infant. A child before they walk
is much less at risk than a toddler - generally they stay where you
put them. If a mom is 'wearing' the child, the child goes where the
mom goes - on board or overboard. If the child is in a car seat tied
down in the boat, it's no more unsafe than a car seat in a car. In
either case, the safety of the child depends on the safe operation of
the vehicle.

The crunch comes when the child is more mobile. We have had toddlers
on the boat and we require that all persons wear PFDs unless they are
below in the cabin with a parent (these were grandchildren). The
child sometimes pitched a fit, but they wore the PFD anyway. One of
them was sitting on his mom's lap while she steered, and he unscrewed
the wheel. But it is a sailboat, and that was pretty quickly fixed.
It wasn't life threatening.

The really dangerous part is getting from the dock to the boat.


grandma Rosalie

Jeff April 10th 05 01:43 PM

Larry W4CSC wrote:

And how long should they wait before bringing a baby home to a normal
house? Right outside the door are dangerous roads and highways!


What's this? Denial?

Being on a boat is much more dangerous, especially to a defenseless infant,
than riding in a carseat.

Denial? Maybe not. The CG Accident reports started reporting "AGE OF
INJURED VICTIM BY TYPE OF VESSEL" in the last two reports. The total
number of injuries for children under 12 in auxiliary sailboats in
2002 and 2003 is one. They don't have the same breakdown in previous
years, but the rough evidence implies this is not an anomaly.
(Especially if you don't count the two children that drowned in a Mac
26x rollover 4 years ago.) Infants don't belong on jetskis, but I'm
not sure you can make a case that a well handled larger sailboat is
that dangerous.

http://www.uscgboating.org/statistic...stics_2003.pdf

BTW, shortly before leaving on our trip our 4 year old daughter hit a
post running into the day care center. We spent a morning in the ER
having here forehead superglued together. This was worse than any
injury on our year long cruise. In fact, since I got out of dinghy
sailing, there's never been an injury on any kind in any of my boats.
However, several months after returning from the trip, my wife blew
out her Achilles playing soccer. I'm not at all convinced cruising is
more dangerous than being on land, especially if appropriate care is
taken.

[email protected] April 10th 05 03:06 PM

A good way for little ones to have fun on a hot day of sailing: Put up
the bimini, stop up the cockpit drains and flood the cockpit with about
1.5" water. The little ones splash around and have a ball. It keeps
your feet cool too.

Jeff wrote:
Larry W4CSC wrote:

And how long should they wait before bringing a baby home to a

normal
house? Right outside the door are dangerous roads and highways!


What's this? Denial?

Being on a boat is much more dangerous, especially to a defenseless

infant,
than riding in a carseat.

Denial? Maybe not. The CG Accident reports started reporting "AGE

OF
INJURED VICTIM BY TYPE OF VESSEL" in the last two reports. The total


number of injuries for children under 12 in auxiliary sailboats in
2002 and 2003 is one. They don't have the same breakdown in previous


years, but the rough evidence implies this is not an anomaly.
(Especially if you don't count the two children that drowned in a Mac


26x rollover 4 years ago.) Infants don't belong on jetskis, but I'm
not sure you can make a case that a well handled larger sailboat is
that dangerous.

http://www.uscgboating.org/statistic...stics_2003.pdf

BTW, shortly before leaving on our trip our 4 year old daughter hit a


post running into the day care center. We spent a morning in the ER
having here forehead superglued together. This was worse than any
injury on our year long cruise. In fact, since I got out of dinghy
sailing, there's never been an injury on any kind in any of my boats.


However, several months after returning from the trip, my wife blew


out her Achilles playing soccer. I'm not at all convinced cruising

is
more dangerous than being on land, especially if appropriate care is
taken.



Larry W4CSC April 10th 05 08:30 PM

Evan Gatehouse wrote in
:

People that have their babies wear a lifejacket in a car seat sound a
bit much though! If the baby is strapped in the car seat, and the car
seat is attached to the boat, why bother?



* 30' boat flips from rogue wave. Adults thrown overboard. Child strapped
in car seat, car seat attached to boat is now underwater, face-down, in
inverted boat.....or on bottom of lake/river/ocean in sunken boat.

** 30' boat sliced open from uncharted rock 2' underwater. Boat sinks in
seconds as adults scramble to unstrap child from stupid, non-PFD car seat.
Adults not wearing PFDs drown trying to save him.

Any more stupid questions this afternoon?

What brand/model of infant PFD can that 8-month-old tiny baby wear that's
on your boat? If we put the baby in it and throw him overboard, assuming
he is not strapped down to the sinking hulk headed for the bottom, will he
breathe any water into his lungs? Will his head slip through the hole if
you're not there to hold him in it?

Why bother?

Geez.....................(d^:)


Larry W4CSC April 10th 05 08:31 PM

Stephen Trapani wrote in
:

Well, we're talking about defended infants, defended by good parents
doing their job as best they can. No one was asking for help with
unattended infants.


Defended? Strapped in a carrier, strapped to the boat? "Go down with the
ship" is it? Someone bragged about this in this thread.

You really think the percentage of infants killed per activity is more
on boats than in cars? I'm guessing cars are *way* more dangerous, eg,
result in way more serious injuries and deaths per amount of
participants.

Hmm....millions of infants ride in cars/trucks/SUVs every day. How many
ride in boats....tops....100?

Another problem someone mentioned was the PFD problem. Our law says:

"All boats must have at least one Type I, II, III or V
personal flotation device that is U.S. Coast Guard–
approved, wearable and of the proper size for each
person onboard. Sizing for PFDs is based on body
weight and chest size.
.. South Carolina law requires all children under 12 years of
age to wear a U.S. Coast Guard–approved Type I, II, III or
V PFD while on board a Class A (less than 16 ft. long)
boat or PWC. The PFD must be fastened and of the
proper size for the child."

Moot point...no baby PFD, no baby on a boat. The smallest CG-approved PFD
I've seen from Wally World or Waste Marine looks to be made for a kid of 3-
5?

http://www.nodakoutdoors.com/valleyoutdoors25.php
Here's a webpage from a North Dakota game warden who's laws are more strict
than South Carolina's with some really great ideas like:
"If you don’t have a PFD that fits your child, or it’s too hot for them to
wear it, stay on shore."
The boat ran aground because someone was not paying attention. The poor
kid was in a carseat, not a PFD as required. Do carseats float UPRIGHT?
Interesting to test....in the worst waves and wakes you boat in?

The article says:
"Upon arrival I found two young parents tending to a newborn baby who
didn’t have any type of PFD. The baby was in a car seat and thankfully all
was fine, aside from the boat, which came to rest up a steep wooded
incline, indicating a lack of attention while operating the vessel. I still
to this day think of how haunting the memory would’ve been had the car seat
been jolted out of the boat and into the lake.

For several years I checked boats and watercraft and was continually
disappointed in
compliance with PFD laws, especially the one that applies to children.

While only youngsters 10 and under must be wearing a Coast Guard approved
PFD
while in a boat, the common response was, “I couldn’t find one that fits,”
or “it was too hot to put them in a PFD.” While politely replying that the
law requires youngsters to wear PFDs, I was always reminded of what could
have happened if that baby in the carseat had accidentally wound up in the
lake."

The big boat lobby in SC has this requirement limited to only boats UNDER
SIXTEEN FEET that the kid has to have a PFD on under 12:
From the SCDNR rules manual:
"South Carolina law requires all children under 12 years of
age to wear a U.S. Coast Guard–approved Type I, II, III or
V PFD while on board a Class A (less than 16 ft. long)
boat or PWC. The PFD must be fastened and of the
proper size for the child."

If the 6-year-old who can't swim is standing on the bow of the 32' bubble
boat without a PFD on, the big boat lobby says that's OK. We can't
prosecute the parents, in SC, because the baby was strapped in the car seat
which was secured to the port cockpit seating and went down when the boat
broached or pitchpoled or flipped over in the 40' Cigarette Boat going,
legally, 102 mph across the harbor.

We have a long history, by the way, of not prosecuting people with money in
SC....

They'd be covered if they had a baby PFD stowed away in a plastic bag in
the quarter berth.

http://www.stearnsinc.com/NC_Product...tegoryID=45350
18
Cheap Stearns vest for small child...I doubt the straps will keep a BABY in
it.

http://www.mustangsurvival.com/produ...uct.php?id=397
This one from Mustang Survival fits chests 18 to 20". How big around are
little babies 5 days old? They don't look that big when they pop out of
Mom.

Here's an INFLATABLE!
http://www.storesonline.com/site/405...uct/999-773260
Comes in a convenient airline seat storage pouch for the quarter berth.
"Under 35 pounds". Does that mean 14 lbs 9 oz? That's "Under 35 pounds",
isn't it? Will the baby be able to pull the ripcord? It gets dumber and
dumber. The FAA did some good. I suspect the reason for this being on the
market is the TSO forced airlines to change to new, improved child vests so
they dumped this on the market to unload them.

equipped.com has an interesting website that resulted in testing with
infants to see what worked or not:
http://www.equipped.com/avvests.htm#kidvest
I like the idea of the Hoover FV-2000 ($185-225) which is a CAPSULE that
not only protect the infant from breathing in water but isolates him from
the hypothermia that's killing Mom and Dad in their life jackets. They
mention some shortfalls but it's a great idea. The airlines are much more
afraid of the babys' lawyers than daddy is on his boat.

Let's send the CG inspectors around to all the posters with babies aboard
to see if they actually DO have a baby PFD I had a hard time finding on the
net, putting it on the baby to see how it fits and what his/her survival
chances are and write their sorry asses up when they produce the 7-year-
old's cutesy life vest with the Mickey Mouse and CG labels that have no
chance of saving the poor baby.....whos head slips easily through the big
hole.

What's on YOUR boat, eh?



Larry W4CSC April 10th 05 08:40 PM

wrote in
oups.com:

A good way for little ones to have fun on a hot day of sailing: Put up
the bimini, stop up the cockpit drains and flood the cockpit with about
1.5" water. The little ones splash around and have a ball. It keeps
your feet cool too.


One of the best uses I've found for the 9.6 Watertender one of the boaters
on the dock gave me to get rid of it is to set it out in my yard and drop
the waterhose into it. It's a great, indestructable kiddie pool for my
neighbors' kids to play in. How many kiddie pools have 3 seats and 4 drink
holders?!...(c;

We like it better than lining my neighbor's Ford F-150 pickup bed with
plastic sheeting and filling it because the boat leaves the truck free for
adult use...
http://www.bestofhumor.com/html/Redn...ming-Pool.html
http://www.dobhran.com/humor/GRhumor484.htm



Jeff April 10th 05 11:11 PM

Larry W4CSC wrote:
Evan Gatehouse wrote in
:


People that have their babies wear a lifejacket in a car seat sound a
bit much though! If the baby is strapped in the car seat, and the car
seat is attached to the boat, why bother?




* 30' boat flips from rogue wave. Adults thrown overboard. Child strapped
in car seat, car seat attached to boat is now underwater, face-down, in
inverted boat.....or on bottom of lake/river/ocean in sunken boat.

** 30' boat sliced open from uncharted rock 2' underwater. Boat sinks in
seconds as adults scramble to unstrap child from stupid, non-PFD car seat.
Adults not wearing PFDs drown trying to save him.

Any more stupid questions this afternoon?


No, I think you have the "stupid question" market sewn up, Larry.

You're argument is based on events that are extremely rare. Cruising
sailboats don't sink very often, and they don't capsize. The one case
I know of where a keel got ripped off actually had a young child on
board, but there were no injuries.

The statistics are quite clear: cruising boats are vastly safer than
riding in a car. For example, almost 300,000 children are injured
each year in car accidents. This means that one out of every 250
families has a child injured. Given that there are about 230,000 aux
sailboats, one might expect 1000 injuries, but in fact there was only
1 in the last two years.




What brand/model of infant PFD can that 8-month-old tiny baby wear that's
on your boat? If we put the baby in it and throw him overboard, assuming
he is not strapped down to the sinking hulk headed for the bottom, will he
breathe any water into his lungs? Will his head slip through the hole if
you're not there to hold him in it?


So, how many sailboats do you think sink every year? Its about 4, or
about two for every 100,000. How many infants do you think die from
all accidents? The rate is about 22 per 100,000. Actually the odds
sinking are about the same as drowning in the bathtub.



Why bother?


Why not? The most dangerous part of sailing is driving to the marina.

Rosalie B. April 11th 05 01:04 AM

Larry W4CSC wrote:

Evan Gatehouse wrote in
:

People that have their babies wear a lifejacket in a car seat sound a
bit much though! If the baby is strapped in the car seat, and the car
seat is attached to the boat, why bother?


* 30' boat flips from rogue wave. Adults thrown overboard. Child strapped
in car seat, car seat attached to boat is now underwater, face-down, in
inverted boat.....or on bottom of lake/river/ocean in sunken boat.

How many rogue waves are there in rivers or lakes OT one of the Great
Lakes? Even in the ocean, I haven't seen any rogue waves - relatively
rare.

** 30' boat sliced open from uncharted rock 2' underwater. Boat sinks in
seconds as adults scramble to unstrap child from stupid, non-PFD car seat.
Adults not wearing PFDs drown trying to save him.

The adults should also be wearing PFDs. I think the likelihood of
that happening is also rare - more likely where you are would be them
being run over by a freighter.

How about the hazard of a semi-truck overturning on your car? It does
happen (the instance I'm thinking of it killed the mom, but the baby
was OK), but it's pretty rare.

Any more stupid questions this afternoon?

What brand/model of infant PFD can that 8-month-old tiny baby wear that's
on your boat? If we put the baby in it and throw him overboard, assuming


First some people check the PFD out on their child (like in a pool)
before they go out. So they will know that it fits. Not necessary to
throw the kid overboard.

Second - an 8 month old baby is not *that* tiny. My four were all
over 8 lbs when born, and they went up from there. One or two of them
were walking by 8 months. So not that helpless either.

he is not strapped down to the sinking hulk headed for the bottom, will he
breathe any water into his lungs? Will his head slip through the hole if
you're not there to hold him in it?

Why bother?

Geez.....................(d^:)


grandma Rosalie

Stephen Trapani April 11th 05 04:54 AM

Larry W4CSC wrote:

Stephen Trapani wrote in
:


Well, we're talking about defended infants, defended by good parents
doing their job as best they can. No one was asking for help with
unattended infants.



Defended? Strapped in a carrier, strapped to the boat? "Go down with the
ship" is it? Someone bragged about this in this thread.


Barring very bad luck those infants can be defended, or rescued, like
one referred to in this thread was.

You really think the percentage of infants killed per activity is more
on boats than in cars? I'm guessing cars are *way* more dangerous, eg,
result in way more serious injuries and deaths per amount of
participants.


Hmm....millions of infants ride in cars/trucks/SUVs every day. How many
ride in boats....tops....100?


By now you've seen the URLs and stats. The percentage of infants killed
on the road is higher, so, still more dangerous for any one infant on
the road.

Another problem someone mentioned was the PFD problem. Our law says:

"All boats must have at least one Type I, II, III or V
personal flotation device that is U.S. Coast Guard–
approved, wearable and of the proper size for each
person onboard. Sizing for PFDs is based on body
weight and chest size.
. South Carolina law requires all children under 12 years of
age to wear a U.S. Coast Guard–approved Type I, II, III or
V PFD while on board a Class A (less than 16 ft. long)
boat or PWC. The PFD must be fastened and of the
proper size for the child."

Moot point...no baby PFD, no baby on a boat. The smallest CG-approved PFD
I've seen from Wally World or Waste Marine looks to be made for a kid of 3-
5?


If you're trying to say that rescuing an infant with or without a
flotation device is more difficult than rescuing any other person who
can't swimm, then I'm not sure I agree. My father in law told me about
his fear of the water coming from once when he was drowning and he
almosts drowned one guy trying to rescue him. An infant would be way
easier than that!

[...]
They'd be covered if they had a baby PFD stowed away in a plastic bag in
the quarter berth.

http://www.stearnsinc.com/NC_Product...tegoryID=45350
18
Cheap Stearns vest for small child...I doubt the straps will keep a BABY in
it.

http://www.mustangsurvival.com/produ...uct.php?id=397
This one from Mustang Survival fits chests 18 to 20". How big around are
little babies 5 days old? They don't look that big when they pop out of
Mom.


If you're trying to say that PFDs for infants are harder to find than
for anyone else, well, it seems you may be right. Sounds like they need
some kind of special rig. HEY SOMEONE INVENT SOMETHING! ;-)

Here's an INFLATABLE!
http://www.storesonline.com/site/405...uct/999-773260
Comes in a convenient airline seat storage pouch for the quarter berth.
"Under 35 pounds". Does that mean 14 lbs 9 oz? That's "Under 35 pounds",
isn't it? Will the baby be able to pull the ripcord? It gets dumber and
dumber. The FAA did some good. I suspect the reason for this being on the
market is the TSO forced airlines to change to new, improved child vests so
they dumped this on the market to unload them.

equipped.com has an interesting website that resulted in testing with
infants to see what worked or not:
http://www.equipped.com/avvests.htm#kidvest
I like the idea of the Hoover FV-2000 ($185-225) which is a CAPSULE that
not only protect the infant from breathing in water but isolates him from
the hypothermia that's killing Mom and Dad in their life jackets. They
mention some shortfalls but it's a great idea. The airlines are much more
afraid of the babys' lawyers than daddy is on his boat.


Hm, sounds like a good idea!

Let's send the CG inspectors around to all the posters with babies aboard
to see if they actually DO have a baby PFD I had a hard time finding on the
net, putting it on the baby to see how it fits and what his/her survival
chances are and write their sorry asses up when they produce the 7-year-
old's cutesy life vest with the Mickey Mouse and CG labels that have no
chance of saving the poor baby.....whos head slips easily through the big
hole.


Probably another good idea.

What's on YOUR boat, eh?


Just those for the four of us with a few cheap extras. So, okay, no
infants on board unless they have the right PFD! As it is now, anyone
anywhere near being able to fall in the water wears a PFD, including me.
Oh yeah, and anyone who's had more than two drinks who is anywhere near
able to fall in the water also wears a line! ;-)

Stephen

kth April 11th 05 01:11 PM

As I mentioned in another earlier posting, I found a PFD that fits
comfortably (and correctly) on my little one. The brand name is "sea
fit" purchased from west marine and was sized for infants less than 30
pounds. I mentioned I had purchased others as well but when she was a
week old this one fit the best. -We had water tested them as well.-

Most of the smaller ones you see do start at 30 pounds but if you look
you will find the smaller types. For the smallest of babies, look for
the type that has the closed back (with no flotation along the back) so
that is has a wider range of adjustment. I chose to stay away from the
types that only had the starps across the back. The one I use has
thinner flotation in the headrest, making it more comfortable, while
still doing it's job.


Padeen April 11th 05 09:07 PM

Larry, I think you're missing an important point: People who take small
children on the water are advocating the most effective PFD ever used - the
live, thinking, caring, responding, type AAA; an adult wearing a suitable
PFD with just the child's wellbeing in mind. This type provides a level of
safety no manufactured piece of cloth and floatation can ever begin to
emulate.

You won't find any of these on the shelf of any PFD store, nor will you find
CG specs for manufacturers to follow. What you can find, if you look and
listen, are experienced parents who have been taking their babies on the
water for years and have developed very safe methods for protecting the
lives of their offspring in most any life-threatening situation. This takes
the general form of having an adult wearing a PFD in constant proximity to
the child, with the child's welfare his sole responsibility in the event of
a problem.

Padeen



Jeff & Suz Nelson April 12th 05 02:22 AM

We had both our kids on board at 6 months...would have been earlier, but
they were born
after the harbour froze over. Our son was severely disabled but enjoyed
sailing for the
6 years of his life, our daughter is now 7.
Kids 0 - aprox 2 (before walking) easy to care for, use a car seat and
ensure they don't
get too much sun.
Ensure they have lots of fluids and
things to eat.
Kids 2 - 5 (help!) They walk but don't understand the dangers. Ensure
they've got a
good life jacket, have someone tend them full
time. Some people have
used netting to help keep them contained, we
used jacklines and vigilent
mom.
Kids above that...well, I'm still learning. I've always tried to give them
something to do
on the boat. Putting flemish coils in lines after we're docked, spooling up
the unloaded
winch after a tack, spotting navigation buoys (they're eyes are much better
than mine).
etc etc. Lots of snack food and lots of water. Games to play in the cabin
etc.

Good book called "Babies Aboard" by Lindsay Green has lots of usefull ideas
and comments.
Available at Amazon and I'm sure most nautical type places.

Hope this helps a little...
Cheers,
Jeff
C&C 30

"Miech" wrote in message
...
We're due in June and would like to hear from people who have experience
sailing with a 0-4 month old. Pros, cons, advice and warnings as well as
any product suggestions to purchase are greatly appreciated. We have had
fabulous feedback from our vessel-specific forum and wanted to tap the
veterans here as well.

(Please no stories about how your son started sailing with you at age 6.
Infants only please!)

Thanks so much,

Jay & Michelle
s/v Elixir
Buzzards Bay




Jeff & Suz Nelson April 12th 05 02:26 AM

Larry, read that section again on PFD's. I think you'll find a couple of
exceptions.
a) if your chest is greater than 54 inches
b) an infant.

Infant survival time in the water is very short as they get hypothermia very
very quickly.
So, the best idea is not to let them get in the water. That being said, you
can stay home
in your house or you can live life to the fullest. Everybodies gotta die
sometime, and
tragedies happen...That's life, so to speak.

Jeff

"Larry W4CSC" wrote in message
...
Stephen Trapani wrote in
:

Well, we're talking about defended infants, defended by good parents
doing their job as best they can. No one was asking for help with
unattended infants.


Defended? Strapped in a carrier, strapped to the boat? "Go down with the
ship" is it? Someone bragged about this in this thread.

You really think the percentage of infants killed per activity is more
on boats than in cars? I'm guessing cars are *way* more dangerous, eg,
result in way more serious injuries and deaths per amount of
participants.

Hmm....millions of infants ride in cars/trucks/SUVs every day. How many
ride in boats....tops....100?

Another problem someone mentioned was the PFD problem. Our law says:

"All boats must have at least one Type I, II, III or V
personal flotation device that is U.S. Coast Guard-
approved, wearable and of the proper size for each
person onboard. Sizing for PFDs is based on body
weight and chest size.
. South Carolina law requires all children under 12 years of
age to wear a U.S. Coast Guard-approved Type I, II, III or
V PFD while on board a Class A (less than 16 ft. long)
boat or PWC. The PFD must be fastened and of the
proper size for the child."

Moot point...no baby PFD, no baby on a boat. The smallest CG-approved PFD
I've seen from Wally World or Waste Marine looks to be made for a kid of
3-
5?

http://www.nodakoutdoors.com/valleyoutdoors25.php
Here's a webpage from a North Dakota game warden who's laws are more
strict
than South Carolina's with some really great ideas like:
"If you don't have a PFD that fits your child, or it's too hot for them to
wear it, stay on shore."
The boat ran aground because someone was not paying attention. The poor
kid was in a carseat, not a PFD as required. Do carseats float UPRIGHT?
Interesting to test....in the worst waves and wakes you boat in?

The article says:
"Upon arrival I found two young parents tending to a newborn baby who
didn't have any type of PFD. The baby was in a car seat and thankfully all
was fine, aside from the boat, which came to rest up a steep wooded
incline, indicating a lack of attention while operating the vessel. I
still
to this day think of how haunting the memory would've been had the car
seat
been jolted out of the boat and into the lake.

For several years I checked boats and watercraft and was continually
disappointed in
compliance with PFD laws, especially the one that applies to children.

While only youngsters 10 and under must be wearing a Coast Guard approved
PFD
while in a boat, the common response was, "I couldn't find one that fits,"
or "it was too hot to put them in a PFD." While politely replying that the
law requires youngsters to wear PFDs, I was always reminded of what could
have happened if that baby in the carseat had accidentally wound up in the
lake."

The big boat lobby in SC has this requirement limited to only boats UNDER
SIXTEEN FEET that the kid has to have a PFD on under 12:
From the SCDNR rules manual:
"South Carolina law requires all children under 12 years of
age to wear a U.S. Coast Guard-approved Type I, II, III or
V PFD while on board a Class A (less than 16 ft. long)
boat or PWC. The PFD must be fastened and of the
proper size for the child."

If the 6-year-old who can't swim is standing on the bow of the 32' bubble
boat without a PFD on, the big boat lobby says that's OK. We can't
prosecute the parents, in SC, because the baby was strapped in the car
seat
which was secured to the port cockpit seating and went down when the boat
broached or pitchpoled or flipped over in the 40' Cigarette Boat going,
legally, 102 mph across the harbor.

We have a long history, by the way, of not prosecuting people with money
in
SC....

They'd be covered if they had a baby PFD stowed away in a plastic bag in
the quarter berth.

http://www.stearnsinc.com/NC_Product...tegoryID=45350
18
Cheap Stearns vest for small child...I doubt the straps will keep a BABY
in
it.

http://www.mustangsurvival.com/produ...uct.php?id=397
This one from Mustang Survival fits chests 18 to 20". How big around are
little babies 5 days old? They don't look that big when they pop out of
Mom.

Here's an INFLATABLE!
http://www.storesonline.com/site/405...uct/999-773260
Comes in a convenient airline seat storage pouch for the quarter berth.
"Under 35 pounds". Does that mean 14 lbs 9 oz? That's "Under 35 pounds",
isn't it? Will the baby be able to pull the ripcord? It gets dumber and
dumber. The FAA did some good. I suspect the reason for this being on
the
market is the TSO forced airlines to change to new, improved child vests
so
they dumped this on the market to unload them.

equipped.com has an interesting website that resulted in testing with
infants to see what worked or not:
http://www.equipped.com/avvests.htm#kidvest
I like the idea of the Hoover FV-2000 ($185-225) which is a CAPSULE that
not only protect the infant from breathing in water but isolates him from
the hypothermia that's killing Mom and Dad in their life jackets. They
mention some shortfalls but it's a great idea. The airlines are much more
afraid of the babys' lawyers than daddy is on his boat.

Let's send the CG inspectors around to all the posters with babies aboard
to see if they actually DO have a baby PFD I had a hard time finding on
the
net, putting it on the baby to see how it fits and what his/her survival
chances are and write their sorry asses up when they produce the 7-year-
old's cutesy life vest with the Mickey Mouse and CG labels that have no
chance of saving the poor baby.....whos head slips easily through the big
hole.

What's on YOUR boat, eh?





Padeen April 13th 05 08:06 AM

Interesting, J&S. Not to contradict you, as I have only anecdotal
experience, but I found my kids to be more cold resistant than most adults,
including me. Can you point me to some studies/ data that suggest this?
Thanks
Padeen



Rosalie B. April 13th 05 04:04 PM

"Padeen" wrote:

Interesting, J&S. Not to contradict you, as I have only anecdotal
experience, but I found my kids to be more cold resistant than most adults,
including me. Can you point me to some studies/ data that suggest this?
Thanks
Padeen

We are talking about babies, and not kids (children). And the
resistance to cold that is being referenced is hypothermia due to
being submerged in cold water, not just to swimming or being out in
the snow or something. I haven't read them, but here are some
references

# Sloan RE, Keating WR Cooling rates of young people swimming in
cold water. J Appl Physiol 1973; 35:371-375 [Free Full Text]
# Bar-Or O. Pediatric Sports Medicine for the Practitioner: From
Physiologic Principles to Clinical Applications. New York, NY:
Springer Verlag; 1983:259-299
# Bennett HJ, Wagner T, Fields A Acute hyponatremia and seizures in an
infant after a swimming lesson. Pediatrics 1983; 72:125-127 [Medline]
grandma Rosalie

Padeen April 13th 05 06:04 PM

Thanks for doing my homework for me, Rosalie. Though it's important to be
informed about this, I hope nobody in this group finds themselves testing
these various theories. I hope to have my grandkids aboard someday and will
look into the references you've so kindly brought to my attention.
Padeen

"Rosalie B." wrote in message
...
"Padeen" wrote:

Interesting, J&S. Not to contradict you, as I have only anecdotal
experience, but I found my kids to be more cold resistant than most

adults,
including me. Can you point me to some studies/ data that suggest this?
Thanks
Padeen

We are talking about babies, and not kids (children). And the
resistance to cold that is being referenced is hypothermia due to
being submerged in cold water, not just to swimming or being out in
the snow or something. I haven't read them, but here are some
references

# Sloan RE, Keating WR Cooling rates of young people swimming in
cold water. J Appl Physiol 1973; 35:371-375 [Free Full Text]
# Bar-Or O. Pediatric Sports Medicine for the Practitioner: From
Physiologic Principles to Clinical Applications. New York, NY:
Springer Verlag; 1983:259-299
# Bennett HJ, Wagner T, Fields A Acute hyponatremia and seizures in an
infant after a swimming lesson. Pediatrics 1983; 72:125-127 [Medline]
grandma Rosalie




Jeff & Suz Nelson April 16th 05 03:48 PM

Thanks...

What was suggested was to ensure that you have enough of those
Not Approved in canada square floation cushions...That way you
can try to make a raft and put the infant on top. Reality tells me
that if you in this situation, it's not going to be a happy ending
but makes Mom feel better...

Last year, a couple from our club pulled a couple of kids 14 and 16
out of the water in early May. They were attempting to canoe in
25kts of wind and it didn't work very well. They were in the water for
about 15 minutes and required a trip to the hospital to recover.
They're lifejacets weren't in good shape, but did keep them on the
surface...
apparently just long enough to be rescued.

Cheers,
Jeff

"Rosalie B." wrote in message
...
"Padeen" wrote:

Interesting, J&S. Not to contradict you, as I have only anecdotal
experience, but I found my kids to be more cold resistant than most
adults,
including me. Can you point me to some studies/ data that suggest this?
Thanks
Padeen

We are talking about babies, and not kids (children). And the
resistance to cold that is being referenced is hypothermia due to
being submerged in cold water, not just to swimming or being out in
the snow or something. I haven't read them, but here are some
references

# Sloan RE, Keating WR Cooling rates of young people swimming in
cold water. J Appl Physiol 1973; 35:371-375 [Free Full Text]
# Bar-Or O. Pediatric Sports Medicine for the Practitioner: From
Physiologic Principles to Clinical Applications. New York, NY:
Springer Verlag; 1983:259-299
# Bennett HJ, Wagner T, Fields A Acute hyponatremia and seizures in an
infant after a swimming lesson. Pediatrics 1983; 72:125-127 [Medline]
grandma Rosalie





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