Hi Bob
 

"Scotty" wrote in message
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Putting your boat in soon?
How's the kid?

Scotty




So, what have you been doin?


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Hi Bob
 

wrote in message
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On Mon, 17 Mar 2008 18:34:06 -0700, "Capt. JG"
wrote:

wrote in message
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On Mon, 17 Mar 2008 15:12:09 -0700, "Capt. JG"
wrote:


Mike, are you sure you want to go there? It was the class of '72 right?

Why would I want to go there. I like girls, and Scotty's already there
anyway!




I like women. Girls will get you prison time. Talk to Neal if you need
instructions. Conversation over...

Sez you, faggot!




Mike, I know you're having problems, I'll reply one more time. I really
think you should revisit your behavior. It doesn't make you sound very
intelligent, and I know that's not the case. If you really want to call me
names, that's certainly your perogative, but it just makes you sound
comparable to Neal and a couple of others. I know it isn't in your nature to
take or even believe friendly advise, but I'm giving it.


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Hi Bob
 

"Capt. JG" wrote in message
...

Mike, I know you're having problems, I'll reply one more time. I really
think you should revisit your behavior. It doesn't make you sound very
intelligent, and I know that's not the case. If you really want to call me
names, that's certainly your perogative, but it just makes you sound
comparable to Neal and a couple of others.

I know it isn't in your nature to take or even believe friendly advise, but
I'm giving it.


It's difficult to see how this advice is friendly, given the tone.

Secondly, if you know he's not going to follow your advice - but you are
giving it anyway, who is to benefit? Is it some kind of warning or threat?

Einstein defined insanity as "doing the same thing over and over and
expecting different results".

Thirdly, saltydog has been having problems with someone impersonating him.
Are you certain of the identity of the poster? I can point to several
sockpuppets that you have responded to in recent days thinking that they
weren't socks.

The few times someone has called me gay I readily admit to it, offer them a
deep tongue kiss or a good spanking with a big, rubber paddle. My experience
has shown that defusing the situation works much better than threats and
escalation - that is if you want the detractor to stop.

Lastly, why should you even care about salty's image? So he sounds
comparable to Neal? If that is what he wants, so be it. Why not admit the
truth - you simply don't like what he says about you. If you can be truthful
about your feelings with others they begin to see you in a new light and
relationships may change. If you can be truthful about your feelings with
yourself, your whole outlook and perspective may change for the better.
People create their own versions of hell. Salty is human, he's not out to
hurt people. The message he gets from you is that it is a game of escalation
and he may be willing to play for more than you can afford to lose. Maybe
if you let him know there is a real, vulnerable person in there you may get
the treatment you supposedly desire.

Hi Bob
 

wrote in message
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On Tue, 18 Mar 2008 08:41:37 -0700, "Capt. JG"
wrote:

wrote in message
. ..
On Mon, 17 Mar 2008 18:34:06 -0700, "Capt. JG"
wrote:

wrote in message
m...
On Mon, 17 Mar 2008 15:12:09 -0700, "Capt. JG"
wrote:


Mike, are you sure you want to go there? It was the class of '72
right?

Why would I want to go there. I like girls, and Scotty's already there
anyway!




I like women. Girls will get you prison time. Talk to Neal if you need
instructions. Conversation over...

Sez you, faggot!




Mike, I know you're having problems, I'll reply one more time. I really
think you should revisit your behavior. It doesn't make you sound very
intelligent, and I know that's not the case. If you really want to call me
names, that's certainly your perogative, but it just makes you sound
comparable to Neal and a couple of others. I know it isn't in your nature
to
take or even believe friendly advise, but I'm giving it.

You may be having bigger problems than anyone. The one card you think
you have has already been played by someone else, and carries no
weight, gay whiner.




What card is that? Clearly, this says a lot about you doesn't it. I really,
really won't reply again, so you can have the last word.


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Hi Bob
 

"Scotty" wrote in message
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Waiting for Spring. Holding my grandchild.

S


"Capt. JG" wrote in message
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"Scotty" wrote in message
. ..
Putting your boat in soon?
How's the kid?

Scotty




So, what have you been doin?


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Yeah, I hear ya.. Fortunately, I've been doing a fair amount of sailing,
even in Jan/Feb. We're going to Alaska later in the year, which should be
fun. I've never been.

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Hi Bob
 

"Capt. JG" wrote in message
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What card is that? Clearly, this says a lot about you doesn't it. I
really, really won't reply again, so you can have the last word.


Tisk ,tisk. The situation is not defuzed it is escalated again. Actually
this says even more about you. Why can't you simply say "I don't like what
you say about me, please stop" rather than tossing the mud back. It is not
conflict resolution, it is not in YOUR best interest as it leaves you open
for more mudslinging. You will reply again but in an indirect way to further
stir up ill feelings and trouble. The parallels between your treatment of
others and GW Bush's foreign policy is frightening. You've made one wise
choice, hopefully for eternity - not to reply to salty. If we could just add
a few more to that list you would have no one to talk on this group even as
you remain the #1 poster in volume.

Glory!

Bob Crantz

Hi Bob
 

Waiting for Spring. Holding my grandchild.

S


"Capt. JG" wrote in message
...
"Scotty" wrote in message
. ..
Putting your boat in soon?
How's the kid?

Scotty




So, what have you been doin?


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www.sailnow.com

Hi Bob
 

"Bob Crantz" wrote in message
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"Capt. JG" wrote in message
...

What card is that? Clearly, this says a lot about you doesn't it. I
really, really won't reply again, so you can have the last word.


Tisk ,tisk. The situation is not defuzed it is escalated again. Actually
this says even more about you. Why can't you simply say "I don't like what
you say about me, please stop" rather than tossing the mud back. It is not
conflict resolution, it is not in YOUR best interest as it leaves you open
for more mudslinging. You will reply again but in an indirect way to
further stir up ill feelings and trouble. The parallels between your
treatment of others and GW Bush's foreign policy is frightening. You've
made one wise choice, hopefully for eternity - not to reply to salty. If
we could just add a few more to that list you would have no one to talk on
this group even as you remain the #1 poster in volume.

Glory!

Bob Crantz


Mudslinging isn't Jon Boy's forte. Mudpacking IS.

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Gregory Hall

Hi Bob
 

"Capt. JG" wrote in message
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Yeah, I hear ya.. Fortunately, I've been doing a fair amount of sailing,
even in Jan/Feb. We're going to Alaska later in the year, which should be
fun. I've never been sailing.


Thought so!

--
Gregory Hall

Hi Bob
 

"Capt. JG" wrote in message
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"Scotty" wrote in message





So, what have you been doin?


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www.sailnow.com



Yeah, I hear ya.. Fortunately, I've been doing a fair
amount of sailing,
even in Jan/Feb. We're going to Alaska later in the year,
which should be
fun. I've never been.


cruise ship?