It is, after all, 3000 pounds lighter and has about the same
sail area. In 20 knots I can go upwind at over 8 knots, at 45 degrees
to the true wind. Footing off a bit and she'll do 10 knots

Best see my polars. Your boat's upwind is my boats reach!
Live with it and let us know when you get a proper sailboat instead of
a barge.

RB
35s5-a better boat than yours.